And it's tough because when that's all you're exposed to, there's all this "perfect" out there to compare against. But a good partner and enjoyable company talks and communicates throughout and yeah, sex is kind of instinctive and animalistic the first few times because you just don't have a clue, but that's alright - because it's then and only then that sex turns from this sort of "sustenance" (because that's all porn really is) into a bonding activity.
It's marketed falsely. Sex - the real thing - is rarely about getting off. That's mutual masturbation, basically - no better or worse - but it's not sex, which is just fun and good times, and never needed a perfect body with a horse dick. The human body's attractive for what it is, which is a personality and the friend you're spending the night with.
ed: woah, this is so out of character for me
ed2: foreplay is really, really fun, so no, not weird