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    Well, I want to ask you guys this question, how many of you are in a realtionship and the other is not a furry, but knows u are and doesn't mind? U see I'm talking to this girl who has some potential, who probly already thinks I'm kind of whacked out cause of the crazy stuff I do.

    I know if we do get together I'll eventually tell her, not that I'm a furry, but that I'm an active member of the fandom. (I'm still not sure if I'd say I'm a fur yet...), but how is it with you,

    I prefer male to female or v-v simply cause I can relate better...
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    Well, seeing as how furry isn't a big deal (like at all. Really), what's the problem?
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    As long as being furry isn't the defining trait of your existence or the coming rejection, this should be pretty unimportant.

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    I told my ex I was a furry and she became one herself, end of my story.
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    Yeah, personally I like em shorter; sometimes the long ones are just too much fluff and not enough substance.

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    Well, I've been through several other relationships, and the one I'm in right now is the first one I've had with another furry. x3
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    Quote Originally Posted by pheonix View Post
    I told my ex I was a furry and she became one herself, end of my story.
    I'm kind of hoping that'll happen...
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    Quote Originally Posted by RoscoTL View Post
    I'm kind of hoping that'll happen...
    Trust me, no you don't. It sounds great but it's really not.
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    Yeah, personally I like em shorter; sometimes the long ones are just too much fluff and not enough substance.

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    Probably works the same as saying "I'm a Mac user" or "I like to read Fantasy". If they flip out because of this, imagine how they'll be when shit that actually matters comes up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pheonix View Post
    Trust me, no you don't. It sounds great but it's really not.
    Why not???

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    Probably works the same as saying "I'm a Mac user" or "I like to read Fantasy". If they flip out because of this, imagine how they'll be when shit that actually matters comes up.

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    "Honey I have something to tell you.... I'm a NFL fan. I'm....I'm so sorry."

    *cries* :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by Takumi_L View Post
    "Honey I have something to tell you.... I'm a NFL fan. I'm....I'm so sorry."

    *cries* :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by RoscoTL View Post
    Why not???
    It wont turn out the way you'd expect it to, lets leave it at that.
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    Yeah, personally I like em shorter; sometimes the long ones are just too much fluff and not enough substance.

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    He means that it's not some dramatic life-altering revelation. You're just interested in something or have a hobby or whatever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Attaman View Post
    Probably works the same as saying "I'm a Mac user" or "I like to read Fantasy". If they flip out because of this, imagine how they'll be when shit that actually matters comes up.
    >>Probably works the same as saying "I'm a Mac user"
    >>same as saying "I'm a Mac user"
    >>"I'm a Mac user"
    >> Mac user

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    Quote Originally Posted by Takumi_L View Post
    "Honey I have something to tell you.... I'm a NFL fan. I'm....I'm so sorry."

    *cries* :P
    lol and she'd be like, your a WHAT?!...I think we should see other people, this isn't going to work out D:

    on that note though, furries tend to be more sexually active and football is not, if she takes a look at some of the really ugly stuff here she might think you are a freak but if she is a bit open minded and has feelings for you then I guess your ok :\
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    Quote Originally Posted by RoscoTL View Post
    Well, I want to ask you guys this question, how many of you are in a realtionship and the other is not a furry, but knows u are and doesn't mind? U see I'm talking to this girl who has some potential, who probly already thinks I'm kind of whacked out cause of the crazy stuff I do.
    Take this as a sign from the universe. If you think that you are so into furry that it would effect your ability to have relationships with nonfurries; You are fucking way too into furry.

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    Take this as a sign from the universe. If you think that you are so into furry that it would effect your ability to have relationships with nonfurries; You are fucking way too into furry.
    you do have a point there :V
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    Quote Originally Posted by AshleyAshes View Post
    Take this as a sign from the universe. If you think that you are so into furry that it would effect your ability to have relationships with nonfurries; You are fucking way too into furry.

    Agreed. I'm being Bi on the 'Net, and yet Straight IRL, and have a Girlfriend.

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    Personally I think that being a furry is just a hobby. Like your other can't be EXACTLY like you or that'd be so boring. The dude I like has no flipping idea what a furry is, and I plan on keeping it that way :3 I'm weird enough to get away with wearing a collar. Or even ears and a tail. x3

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    Quote Originally Posted by AshleyAshes View Post
    Take this as a sign from the universe. If you think that you are so into furry that it would effect your ability to have relationships with nonfurries; You are fucking way too into furry.
    That is a good point u got there, but I'm not that into furry...
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    Ironically, my first gf ended up being a furry but she didn't want to tell me b/c she thought I'd call her a freak & bail.

    I've only dated one person who was openly furry, and it went nowhere fast. Having furriness in common had no effect on our compatibility as people. Like others have said, being a furry is like having a hobby. Rarely will it make or break a relationship.

    Tho dating a sports fanatic might be a deal-breaker for me. I HATE sports.

    Oh, and the lady I'm with now? Not a furry. She knows I'm one, and thinks it's cute.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Telnac View Post
    Ironically, my first gf ended up being a furry but she didn't want to tell me b/c she thought I'd call her a freak & bail.

    I've only dated one person who was openly furry, and it went nowhere fast. Having furriness in common had no effect on our compatibility as people. Like others have said, being a furry is like having a hobby. Rarely will it make or break a relationship.

    Tho dating a sports fanatic might be a deal-breaker for me. I HATE sports.

    Oh, and the lady I'm with now? Not a furry. She knows I'm one, and thinks it's cute.

    That's good to know, seems like furry furry relations don't work well, guess I've been makin it seem like this was more a lifestyle then a hobby, for me its a hobby so maybe it won't be that bad....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Telnac View Post
    Having furriness in common had no effect on our compatibility as people. Like others have said, being a furry is like having a hobby. Rarely will it make or break a relationship.
    Agree with this. I see no reason why furry should negatively affect a relationship. If it does, either you are too far into it (and should back up and think about it), or she has serious issues.

    I'm in a relationship with another furry, and its fun. I got into the fandom first, and then invited him to a furmeet, and he was into it after that. But he had always been a furry, really.
    It could have happened that he had no interest, and let me continue doing what I like to do, and not get involved.

    I only see this as a potential problem if the furry is spending much more time doing furry things than spending time with his non-furry mate. But that could happen to anyone with any interest. For example, a sports fan who would rather watch sports than spend time with her.

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    Past mate took an issue with it initially, but over time (and this took a good 3 years) came to accept it and then not really be concerned or bothered by it. Current mate is also a fur, so it's a non-issue.

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    well me and my husband are like that, he knows that I am really into the furries and stuff, he is not as into as me, in fact he wasn't when i first met him, but as time got on he now has somewhat found his own furry persona as a husky dog lol. Anyway, he lets me as furrish as i like, even he is not in the mood to rp with him.
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