Please do not force your fetish onto other people in general, non-fetish RP servers. It can be really uncomfortable for other people, not everyone will like what you like and some might even find it repulsive. If you are looking for fetish roleplays, please find a designated partner or group for fetish roleplays. There are plenty of people on FAF looking for fetish RP, if you post an ad you will probably catch someone's interest. So far I've only seen this happen with obscure fetishes where the fetish itself isn't a sexual act - for example inflation, macro, or feet. I guess that's why they think it's alright to bring fetishes in a non fetish RP. But I don't think they understand that a fetish character/scene is very obviously a fetish character when they take a lot of time and detail to describe said fetish. When I see this happen, and people are told not to do it, a lot of people personally take offebse as if you just insulted them personallty. Please don't. This has nothing to do with who you are as a person, it is just that pushing fetishes on others is inappropriate, even if that fetish act isn't inherently sexual. If it were a more conventional fetish, nobody would tolerate it. Also, these kind of fetish roleplayers tend to "godmod" (in RP, write that they hurt/kill/main/do something to your character without your consent) as well. There was an incident recently in a RP group I am in regarding a macro fetish roleplayer who posted a reply about "stepping on me hard" while going into detail about how smelly and musky their character's feet was. (Of course I dodged in reply and everything, even when they trie again) The person also never interacted with me before, and only did this IC because they hated me OOC for expressing my discomfort for bringing their fetish into a casual RP server. I just don't understand why this is a common thing, and why fetish roleplayers even WANT to roleplay in non-fetish communities when people are clearly uncomfortable. I don't have any of those kind of fetishes, so I won't ever get it, but even if I did I would know to keep it to myself and not to push it on others. Please keep macro, inflation, feet, weight gain, and anything else like those in designated RPs specific to those fetishes.