NSFW: Online versus IRL

Discussion in 'Community Discussion' started by ResolutionBlaze, Nov 13, 2017 at 11:20 PM.

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Are you more or less sexual irl than you are online?

  1. More

    3 vote(s)
    6.4%
  2. Less

    24 vote(s)
    51.1%
  3. About the same

    16 vote(s)
    34.0%
  4. Not Applicable/I'm innocent and smol uwu

    4 vote(s)
    8.5%
  1. This poll is personal so if you dont like it you dont need to answer. I was just curious about this as I tend to be more sexual online than irl.
     
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  2. BahgDaddy

    BahgDaddy Voice of reason

    I think it'd be pretty hard to be overtly sexual IRL. I might get locked up. :D
     
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  3. Crimcyan

    Crimcyan Im fox now, BAMBOOZLED

    *trying to resist "I need an adult" meme*
    I just choose the the bottom one beacuse of the *smol uwu*. But I tend to make more sexual jokes and comments online and through text rather then irl
     
  4. Dongding

    Dongding The sheep

    Had to read that like 3 times to make sure I was making the right vote... for posterity, I am tame as a kitten or like a sheep I guess IRL. Online I become like, super-rapist creepy monster man.
     
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  5. Shoiyo

    Shoiyo The grumpy skunk

    Meh. I'm the kind of guy who has a fairly high libido when I'm getting some.

    But I haven't in 3 years, so I'm pretty meh about it all right now.
     
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  6. Telnac

    Telnac Fundamentalist Heretic

    Online I’m pretty restrained. I assume everything said or done online is preserved forever and will be made public at the most embarassing time possible. So... yeah, no NSFW role-playing for me!

    When irl, what happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors. ;)
     
  7. BahgDaddy

    BahgDaddy Voice of reason

    Eh I doubt if I'll ever have an important enough job for this to cause me problems if someone found out who I am IRL. Unless I was a senator os something. I'll just be a conservative Republican - that way I can do whatever kink I want and get away with it!

    boingboing.net: Roy Moore's scandal is just the tip of American evangelical Christianity's child bride problem

    Someone get me a puke icon!
     
  8. Ayespacecake

    Ayespacecake Member

    I second this. o-o
     
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  9. Telnac

    Telnac Fundamentalist Heretic

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  10. If online means how you interact with other people online, then I'd say about the same. I'm just as much reserved online as I am IRL.
     
  11. BahgDaddy

    BahgDaddy Voice of reason

    I've hardly got just one example.
     
  12. silveredgreen

    silveredgreen Determined Dragon

    I'm very SFW IRL so i'm more sexual online by default. Although i make a lot of dirty jokes online.
     
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  13. -..Legacy..-

    -..Legacy..- Sergal Mafia :P

    Same person online, as offline.
     
  14. Sarcastic Coffeecup

    Sarcastic Coffeecup Hand. Cannot. Erase.

    I keep all my sexual stuff behind closed doors and that's where they'll stay.
    I have no intentions of letting that spill out onto the world wide web wherein it will be forever.
     
  15. BahgDaddy

    BahgDaddy Voice of reason

    I think Americans are too sexually repressed. We need to let it all hang out there more.
     
  16. Ginza

    Ginza Unironically Ironic

    I really am the same online as I am irl. I don't change my behavior much. I'm a little more blunt online, a little more obnoxious irl. For me, always been the same :p
     
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  17. Beatle9

    Beatle9 Asexual coywolf and amateur writer.

    I agree. It's pretty ridiculous how we don't even have real sex education in schools, no wonder teen pregnancy's such an epidemic here.
     
  18. BahgDaddy

    BahgDaddy Voice of reason

    A school district near me (Salem OR) recently passed a requirement that if ANY teen is engaged in sexual activities of ANY SORT, that the teachers report them to the police/authorities immediately. I'm not joking. I was like, "I though I moved to the liberal northwest, not same puritan bastion of medieval nonsense!"

    It will do nothing except make young people feel bad about being normal, sexual creatures. It also breeds regression, suppression, and perversions - you see this really strongly in the Bible Belt, for instance. *simmers*
     
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  19. Beatle9

    Beatle9 Asexual coywolf and amateur writer.

    My guess is this could also lead in an increase in teen depression and suicide rates. They're going to be taught that these normal urges they're feeling are wrong, and aren't going to have a way to escape them except through repression, which is just a giant gateway to depression.
     
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  20. My High-School (it was a private Catholic school) had a system called PDA, that is Public Display of Affection. Technically, you couldn't even hug people, but a lot of the faculty were friendly and often the students would try to be funny and group-hug them.
     
  21. Telnac

    Telnac Fundamentalist Heretic

    The article claims Roy Moore is just the tip of the iceberg, further claims that older men hooking up with teenagers is “mainstream” among right wing evangelists yet references, but not quote a reality TV star as “evidence” and then goes on to blast documented activity at one church.

    Ok, let’s break this down. Roy Moore’s alleged conduct is on his own head. As for Duck Dynasty’s star’s supposed comments, the writers of the article have the entire Internet availble to them. Quotes or it didn't happen.

    That leaves one documented example of a bad church. There are literally a million churches in the USA alone. Citing one bad church as an example of behavior you claim is widespread and mainstream is like saying that all churches are like the Westboro Baptist Church. Sorry but that doesn’t fly. Defamatory article is defamatory.
     
  22. Pipistrele

    Pipistrele Smart batto!

    I'm usually fapmastering the hell out of my libido online to appear more normal in real life. Don't tell anyone.
     
  23. BahgDaddy

    BahgDaddy Voice of reason

    I grew up in the Bible Belt. I know how these people think! The Bible Belt consumes the most amount of gay porn. I don't have a problem with that, but it's deeply hypocritical and indicates an underlying problem of deep, systemic rebellion against their own rules. The evangelical community routinely espouses young-age marriages. I saw lots of older men marrying young women in my area, but not the other way around. If someone was pastor, it was pretty much guaranteed they were going to grope you (if you were a woman) and rip you off either way.

    It's not defamation. Not when they defame themselves.
     
  24. Rakiya

    Rakiya New Member

    It depends on what constitutes as sexual for me.
    For example I'm pretty similar online as I am IRL in the sense that I'll make and laugh at the odd dirty joke.
    I'm not ashamed to speak out in terms of what I think is appealing or unappealing in a sexual way.

    But at the same time I'm a lot more sensible and mindful of context.
    For example if I meet a Furry Artist who's taking on commissions, I'm more likely to ask them for something sexual than someone I chanced upon in an art gallery.
    I'm more willing to flirt and toy with people online, whereas IRL my significant other wouldn't take too kindly to me complimenting someone's ass. (Neither would the person the 'compliment' is directed at).

    In terms of my personality I'd say I'm pretty equal in both regards.
    But if we're talking in a literal sense; Neither IRL or online am I masturbating every time I see someone that's hot.

    So I guess less?
    Restrained by a different set of rules (common sense), context, and just general respect.
     
    Last edited: Nov 14, 2017 at 3:25 PM
  25. Yakamaru

    Yakamaru I stubbed my log on a car!

    I am slightly less. I don't have anyone to crack jokes 'n shit with IRL. Not that I give a shit though. Doing that shit is kinda awkward in person anyway. Especially when you do sex jokes with your mom.. Zero sense of humor. Sheesh.
     

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