What kind of person are you socially?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Yakamaru, Aug 10, 2017.

  1. Yakamaru

    Yakamaru The Huggable Cactus!

    Are you anti-social and/or introverted? Extroverted and/or social? A bit of a mix?
    Do you gain energy by interacting with people like a solar panel does during midday? Do people drain energy from you like a black hole drains a nearby sun?
    How do you look upon interacting with people in general? Do you like to interact? Do you not like to interact?
    How do you interact face to face compared to over the internet? Is it different? The same? Is it easier? Harder?

    Feel free to describe a little on how you as a person look upon being social. Can make it short, or you can go indepth. It's 100% up to you, and how much you want to divulge on your social/asocial sides.
     
  2. Scales42

    Scales42 MLG Snake

    Me? socially awkward :p
    But iam also a very extroverted fella, I do not have any problems confronting people and leading a conversation. On the interwebs even less so.
    The thing is, if you ever stood face to face with me, you know that iam kind of a weirdo so my list of friends is relatively small. But I can safely say
    that the few friends that I have are pretty decent. Iam also accustomed with metal heads and the like who are usually open minded light hearted people \m/
    That being said I need my time alone in order to function properly , meaning that I suck at relationships xD
     
  3. Azrion/Zhalo

    Azrion/Zhalo The Felynes have arisen!

    I'm a motherfuccin Brown Recluse, camping in a corner and waiting for the perfect moment to bite someone in the ass and send them to the hospital just for the lulz

    #L+O+L Keemstar
     
  4. Stadt

    Stadt Eeriee the Wendigo

    I'm very introverted and reclusive, but people seem to like me and my friends are always dragging me out.
     
  5. WolfNightV4X1

    WolfNightV4X1 King of Kawaii; That Token Femboy

    I'm socially awkward and have anxiety and am damaged :D

    I suck at peopleling

    ...at work and stuff I do my best simply by being friendly and open to people, that's the best I can do, really. Haha!
     
  6. GreenZone

    GreenZone Well-Known Member

    i don't know what kind of person i am... i guess a confident introvert? idk i get energy from being around people and i'm social i'm one of those people who makes friends anywhere but my friends list is small its only about 50 people on FB and 15 on Steam i only friend people i personally know


    story time (which i know by now a lot of you love)

    so we were at a pub this was when i was 19 and just out of diapers and we (me and my friends) had discovered the magic of pubs

    so almost everyone in the pub was a friend or someone i went to school with cause it was still the brief time between finishing school and everyone going off to adult and i was at this table with 5 of my best mates and they keep ogling this really cute bar girl who later we found out was 18

    so i can't stand that shit i can't stand the whole "oh she's hot you talk to her no you talk to her i'm too shy" so i got up walked over her and said this


    "hey, so you see those guys over there? they've been talking about you all night but none of them have the courage to talk to you"

    "oh..." *kinda rolling her eyes*

    "so i'll make you a deal ive told them that i'll come over flirt a little and get your number so giggle so it looks like we're flirting"

    *she fake giggles* "so what's the deal?"

    *i hand her a piece of paper* "you write any number on this paper doesn't even have to be yours and i get free drinks for the night and you get left alone cause almost everyone in this pub knows each other except for crocodile Dundee in the corner there wearing the akubra"

    she laughs and says "free drinks? well it sounds like you're getting a better deal out of this than i am"

    "weeeellll you have been working all week my guess is you don't want a bunch of horny teen drunks hitting on you"

    she laughs again and says "ok ok sounds like a good deal"

    so she writes the number down and i go back they get shitty at me for "dogging the boys" and the night goes on later on the night ends after the pub closes and we're all drunk as hell and try to call cabs but they refuse to pick us up so i just pass out on the nature strip

    in the morning i'm woken to "hey" it was the bar girl i go red faced and say something like "oh sorry do you need me gone to open up" and she says

    "nah i saw you sleeping... over there... when i left i thought if you were still here when i went on my morning walk that you would.. you know... like coffee or something... help with the hang over"

    we dated for 1.5-2 years i think? any way i don't know if that's extroverted introverted or what
    i find talking talking on the net harder because emotions and moods aren't easily translatable in typing but i'm more or less the same person
     
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  7. Karatine

    Karatine Call me kittteeeehhhh

    hi
    bye
     
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  8. Ramjet556

    Ramjet556 Well-Known Member

    Out going and easy to get along but I feel drained every time I interact,unless with someone I know and trust...
    Definitely fit the island profile,much rather be in my own company vs others.
    Meet me in person and you'd never be able to see my inner introvert.
     
  9. Mr. Fox

    Mr. Fox Well-Known Member

    I am a social butterfly, watch as I spread my colourful wings!
     
  10. ChapterAquila92

    ChapterAquila92 Resident Bronze Dragon Kasrkin

  11. Shane McNair

    Shane McNair Adrenaline addicted pursuit pilot

    That was a good story man, I got a pretty good chuckle out of that. Lol
     
  12. Mr. Fox

    Mr. Fox Well-Known Member

    You don't actually believe in that shit do you? It's scientifically flawed.
     
  13. ChapterAquila92

    ChapterAquila92 Resident Bronze Dragon Kasrkin

    I'm not particularly big on believing in anything beyond its potential for utility. Unless you can point me towards a more scientifically accurate method of evaluating an individual's psychosocial profile however, it's the best that I can make do with for a concise answer to the OP.

    If you want further details, you have but to ask.
     
  14. Mr. Fox

    Mr. Fox Well-Known Member

    Fair enough. Might want to watch Adam Ruins Everything: Dating for a more indepth answer.
     
  15. Shane McNair

    Shane McNair Adrenaline addicted pursuit pilot

    "Are you anti-social and/or introverted? Extroverted and/or social? A bit of a mix?"

    Definitely more of an introvert.

    "Do you gain energy by interacting with people like a solar panel does during midday?"

    Not really.

    "Do people drain energy from you like a black hole drains a nearby sun?"


    I would tend to say yes more than no.

    "How do you look upon interacting with people in general? Do you like to interact? Do you not like to interact?"

    Sometimes yes, sometimes no, but more often no. I'm not very outgoing or sociable.

    "How do you interact face to face compared to over the internet? Is it different? The same? Is it easier? Harder?"


    I'd say it's probably a little easier on the internet. Anonymity, the absence of face to face contact, and the more impersonal nature of online communication makes it easier.

    "Feel free to describe a little on how you as a person look upon being social. Can make it short, or you can go indepth. It's 100% up to you, and how much you want to divulge on your social/asocial sides."

    I look upon being social as a bit of a challenge for myself. On one hand, it often requires a concerted effort on my part to find some common ground or way to relate to another person, in order to start and carry on a halfway interesting and stimulating exchange of the type that typically leads to the foundation for some sort of interpersonal relationship. On the other hand, it also has to do with a general dislike for being the focus of attention, being too gregarious or vocal, and having to deal with the "problems" that other people bring.
     
  16. ChapterAquila92

    ChapterAquila92 Resident Bronze Dragon Kasrkin

    TV Shows are nice and all for informative entertainment, but I do prefer reading the source material.

    Truth be told, it's not surprising to me, especially if astrology is anything to go by. Whether or not acceptance of the result is born out of confirmation bias however is rather irrelevant, especially when individuals are susceptible to altering their behaviour to emulate that of their own expectations as closely as possible, and even more so when they have a means to crystallize it.
     
  17. Mr. Fox

    Mr. Fox Well-Known Member

    In defense of the series, Adam does cite his sources and the professionals he talks to regarding his topics. The biggest issue with that methodology of personality testing is that it doesn't quite stack up to todays standards of testing. It's outdated, doesn't take controlled testing into account, how personality changes over time and a few other things. It's worth the watch if you get the time.
     
  18. Scorpen

    Scorpen Literal S.O.B

    Are you anti-social and/or introverted? Extroverted and/or social? A bit of a mix?
    I'm definitely an introvert. I don't really have a problem interacting with people but I will pretty much never be the one to start the interaction. I keep to myself and just wait for others to pull (drag) me into social situation.

    Do you gain energy by interacting with people like a solar panel does during midday? Do people drain energy from you like a black hole drains a nearby sun?
    People tend to drain energy from me unless I'm with someone I trust. And I don't trust a whole lot of people.

    How do you look upon interacting with people in general? Do you like to interact? Do you not like to interact?

    I like interacting up to a point. I hate being in situations where others expect me to "take charge" and keep things going. I guess I'd describe it as I like being invited to the party but I don't want to throw the party.

    How do you interact face to face compared to over the internet? Is it different? The same? Is it easier? Harder?
    It's probably mostly the same for me. I'm really not going to go starting interactions unless I have a reason to (which is rare). However I have no problem responding and joining in if something interest me or if someone wants my two cents I'll give it.
     
  19. GreenZone

    GreenZone Well-Known Member

    actually i take back what i said i'm now the most anti social person ever and want the world to burn

    this is still annoying for me so i wont go into it too much but picture this

    we work overtime knock off at friday 11pm but we have to go to work at 6am for reasons... but the boys don't live near the base... Greenzone does

    the boys materialize at Greenzones house all 8 of them... with all the beer in the world but soon 8 became something like 16

    long story short very pissed off greenzone yelling for people to go to sleep at 2:30 in the morning while they're watching CGI futa porn with this blaring
    on Greenzones big ass TV spilt beer everywhere people going wild spew all over the bathroom....

    i got like an hours sleep and by god you bet your ass i made sure c***s went to work the next day AND i had to go do a 2 hour gym session later on
     
  20. Shane McNair

    Shane McNair Adrenaline addicted pursuit pilot

    Omg dude, I'm laughing my ass off! XD

    Sounds like you have a very interesting life, lol.
     

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