Reading someone referring to me as the gold standard certainly made my day less dark, fucking wow! Now we might not talk a whole lot, so I don't wanna go all pseudo-psychotherapist on you, but being "motherly" and "unexceptional" are wonderful qualities. Even if you don't believe me, reading from you, an actual adult, is always a welcome change in this mess.
It was amazingly refreshing to see heartfelt and honest statements.