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Advice for something that happened at a party?

Protonite

Imagine the possibilities.
So um.
There's this girl in my class that I really like, but I've never really talked to her before. (She's new to the school)

Soo there was this party and everyone was invited. I normally don't go to these as I tend to not talk with anyone and just be introverted the whole time, but I thought it was my chance to talk to her and get to know her.
It went terribly.

She spent half the night with one of my "friends", then another one convinced her to kiss him and then she spent the rest of the night with another one.

There was a lot of alcohol, and I'd like to think that she was drunk throughout the whole thing but I'm afraid I'm wrong.

Of course this hurt me a lot and I even threw up because I just couldn't handle it. I couldn't sleep either, I kept thinking about it and my stomach started hurting. What should I do?
 

_Hushy

Well-Known Member
I know it hurts, been there, but Pineapplez is right.. probably not worth it.
I don't think there is much anyone can say other than suggesting you try to find someone more similar to you.
 

Somnium

The Sparklewolf
Banned
ahh and this is what happens when you have a human crush buddy. Don't sweat it, it will pass
 

Bloof

New Member
Try to surround yourself with fun things to do, that should get your mind off it. And realize that everybody goes through this type of thing, you're not alone. Although I have'nt personally been through this type of experience yet, I understand how you feel. This feeling will pass in time, so look forward to your future, and try not to let this get you too down. Do your best to forget about it, and have fun. :)
 
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Fopfox

Member
Best to leave it, doesn't sound like she's worth it. You're young, there will be other girls in the future. There'll likely be other heartbreaks as well, but that is a part of life.

Do something productive but fun to keep your mind off it. If you've got a hobby, now would be the time to put some time into it.
 

um_pineapplez

Mage of Void, dammit.
The boy just had his heart broken, have some empathy for him
Bruh. I've just given up trying to reason with him. I posted a thread about telling my parents (which I've decided to not do (for now)), and it escalated to the point where a MOD had to tell him to stop making claims that I was a zoophile.
 

KittenAdmin

Sup nerds
An empathetic response:

You are feeling something called infatuation. It's not love, nor do you like them as you clearly didn't know them very well. It's simply significant attraction. You need to distract yourself and more past this attraction. Look at porn, talk to new people, realize she is not the girl you thought she was and separate yourself from that baseless infatuation.
 

Julen

✮ Banter Squad Member ✮
Honestly you should just try to stop thinking about it. Just find a thing to do and distract yourself. I know it sounds obvious but it's the simpler way to do it.

The first time i asked a girl for a date i had a huge "no" for a response. I obviously felt like dying XD. But i just tried to move on and i succeded. I couldn't get that "no" out of my mind but i just tried to distract myself, look for a hobbie or basically something to do. I ended up reading books. I know! It sounds so crazy!
But desperate situation requires desperate measures. You should try to do the same thing.

I wish you the best of the luck!
 

um_pineapplez

Mage of Void, dammit.
Well I wouldn't mind it at all ^^. Anyway we should tolerate Sergei he's a part of this family after all.
Bruh. I'm not. (by that I mean I'm not a zoophile. Bellwether from Zootopia giving me the most awkward boner is a completely different matter. At least, I think.)
 

DravenDonovan

You can call me Oni~
Dude no offense but you're just a horny teen who got butt hurt cause the girl your attracted to wasn't attracted to you. It's not love, it's lust.
You obviously wasn't into her for her, because you know nothing about her. You was into her cause you thought she was pretty.
 

Somnium

The Sparklewolf
Banned
Dude no offense but you're just a horny teen who got butt hurt cause the girl your attracted to wasn't attracted to you. It's not love, it's lust.
You obviously wasn't into her for her, because you know nothing about her. You was into her cause you thought she was pretty.

whoa whoa I wouldn't go around making assumptions like that! You can be in love with an idea of what she was as much as with a real person.

Bruh. I'm not. (by that I mean I'm not a zoophile. Bellwether from Zootopia giving me the most awkward boner is a completely different matter. At least, I think.)

It's alright, I once was telling myself I'm not a zoo or gay and look what I turned out to be. You can't be lying to yourself forever, it makes you depressed.
 

DravenDonovan

You can call me Oni~
whoa whoa I wouldn't go around making assumptions like that! You can be in love with an idea of what she was as much as with a real person.



It's alright, I once was telling myself I'm not a zoo or gay and look what I turned out to be. You can't be lying to yourself forever, it makes you depressed.
Yeah, but that idea doesn't normally come until after the attraction.
 

KittenAdmin

Sup nerds
Whether or not he thinks he just wanted to get laid, biologically, the hormones coursing through his veins are driving him to seek a suitable mate, and they are stronger than ever at this very moment. It is why younger folks tend to fall in love so hard and so quickly.

If you like dudes, the same hormones exist, but mentally you are likely more interested in trying for butt babies.

Or you know, conceiving one. I guess.

Biologically the impulses are the same.
 

DravenDonovan

You can call me Oni~
Everything can be blamed on hormones though xD
 
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