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2) Simply leaving. Perhaps the loss of userbase might actually knock something into people's heads and things will get done. Let's face it, after years of complaints people are still here and still forking over money. For what? For a site that has had the same issues since day one? I mean why do we do that and seriously think they would be in any way motivated to fix anything?
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I wanted to focus on this for a moment. Two things keep people on FA at this point: first, there's the self-perpetuating fact that "everyone is on FA." It's why everyone got on MySpace, and later, moved to/got on Facebook. The merits of the site are not in question or even relevant, it's simply a matter of existing population. FA has all the furries because it has all the furries. SoFurry doesn't have all the furries because it doesn't have all the furries, even though it's technically better. See also: Youtube vs. Vimeo. Given the status quo, that won't change. What will change that is better alternatives and competition, or worse events coming out of Furaffinity. Further attacks, disclosures of private information, legal trouble, hardware failure, hitting hard limits of the file system or even getting to a point where throwing more hardware at old code is no longer able to make up for the sheer load of the site's normal usage.
At this point, FA is not on top due to its own merits. It's coasting on inertia, movement that had built up from when it was the only site of its kind, and is only still moving because it hasn't hit a large enough obstacle to bring it to a halt.
If competently coded and non-hangupy alternatives (hi floof/artplz/potentially sofurry's overhaul) end up coming to pass and people finally have a different place to go that isn't fucking ugly or doesn't offer similar features to FA or doesn't have a serious stigma, then you'll see another round of emigration. All FA would have in its favor is the absolutely massive audience it provides. The question at that point is whether another site can hit critical mass, where its userbase attracts more and more users the larger and larger it gets. At that point, FA will have lost the last thing it has going for it: the sheer number of people using it.
At that point, the only thing FA can do to survive is to break out of the comfortable status quo it has coasted on for all these years, but by then it may be too little, too late. It would no longer be the only site. It would no longer have all the people. Monopolies rely on the status quo to survive, and use their power/size to control and lock out markets. In some cases, it may end up the sole tool at their disposal. Once that control breaks and others enter the market offer better, faster, cheaper, friendlier goods and services... Well, you know what happens.
And about "dropping our entitlement BS," I have only one thing to ask. Why does FA exist? There has to be some goal to it all, otherwise thousands and thousands of dollars from Dragoneer's own pocket wouldn't be keeping it running. It's not for business since it's perpetually in the red, it's not a democracy, it's not a charity... so what is its purpose? Who is it for?
EDIT: hey, "unbiased" kid, the sooner you realize that all sides are not equally valid the sooner you'll stop giving credence to bullshit and start making concrete points