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Any Gay/Bi guys out there?

Jackpot Raccuki

Fucking Racon
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Sexuality is one thing...
Romantic orientation makes things like 100 times more confusing, at least for me ^^
I'unno, bi-, pan- and asexuality aren't witchcraft. (No pun intended.) They're just really great for setting up incredibly dumb jokes, which is a fact that currently brings me lots of joy.
 

Thrashy

The Drunk Skunk. Metal and Beer. FckNzs.
They're just really great for setting up incredibly dumb jokes, which is a fact that currently brings me lots of joy.
That surely is true ^^
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Existenceinanutshell

Well-Known Member
Sexuality is one thing...
Romantic orientation makes things like 100 times more confusing, at least for me ^^


If you believe romantic orientation and sexuality are different than yes I guess.

I don't know, I've always been weird when it comes to that debate in particular.

Mostly because I had an ex of mine and I kid you not swore up and down to me many, many times.
"Raffles, I think your romantic orientation is with both men and women. But I think your sexuality is purely gay."

Which, I disagreed with her on many, many times.
 

Guifrog

Spongefrog Bluepants
Is that you, Pepe!?

And looks like you are!

''OTHER'' breaks down to Asexual, Pansexual, Demisexual, and transsexual!

Is that all the ''Sexuals?''
How would someone that's not into either sex or romance yet has certain "kinks" be classified here? :p
Jk, I'm aware it may fall under the asexual umbrella. I'd put myself in the plain asexual category at first (because apparently there's many subdivisions), but my libido just happens to be pretty low and common sexual practice doesn't interest me.
 

Trevorbluesquirrel

Well-Known Member
How would someone that's not into either sex or romance yet has certain "kinks" be classified here? :p
Jk, I'm aware it may fall under the asexual umbrella. I'd put myself in the plain asexual category at first (because apparently there's many subdivisions), but my libido just happens to be pretty low and common sexual practice doesn't interest me.

I'm no expert at all, but some type of asexual seems to fit if you simply have low sexual desire!

Maybe Paraphilia? Its defined as: unusual sexual fixations or acts.

I mean, you can still like something without being sexually excited or attracted by it!

Do you still seek out companionship, friendship, and non romantic and non sexual love?

Or do you prefer to be alone?

Humans are intended to be herd animals that live together in family units after all!

Maybe someone else might have more insight here?
 

Guifrog

Spongefrog Bluepants
I'm no expert at all, but some type of asexual seems to fit if you simply have low sexual desire!

Maybe Paraphilia? Its defined as: unusual sexual fixations or acts.

I mean, you can still like something without being sexually excited or attracted by it!

Do you still seek out companionship, friendship, and non romantic and non sexual love?

Or do you prefer to be alone?

Humans are intended to be herd animals that live together in family units after all!

Maybe someone else might have more insight here?
Paraphilia yeah!
I do live by myself and it feels great, though I have my group of friends so it's all good in that regard~

I've read from a lot of asexuals that they have kinks.
It's different for every ace, because it's a spectrum.

I think it's pretty good explained here:
www.healthline.com: What Does It Mean to Be Asexual?
There was an ace-themed Brazilian forum I'd visit often and I met a few peeps IRL through it; I found it quite fascinating to see how things seem to work more like a smooth gradient color wheel than a fixed set of color swatches, kinda like that article points out in the end. I mean, labels have a merit (otherwise, aces and other letters would have more trouble gathering and seeking for validity), yet each person has their own quirk
 

Trevorbluesquirrel

Well-Known Member
Paraphilia yeah!
I do live by myself and it feels great, though I have my group of friends so it's all good in that regard~


There was an ace-themed Brazilian forum I'd visit often and I met a few peeps IRL through it; I found it quite fascinating to see how things seem to work more like a smooth gradient color wheel than a fixed set of color swatches, kinda like that article points out in the end. I mean, labels have a merit (otherwise, aces and other letters would have more trouble gathering and seeking for validity), yet each person has their own quirk

According to the video I linked, furries surprisingly are less sexually attracted to anthros than you'd think!

Only 37%, or about 1 / 3, say they are, 38% are mixed, and 24%, about a quarter, say they are not at all sexually turned on by anthros!

I think you'd be in the middle, if you've got kinks, but simply are uninterested in doing them in reality!


I actually considered myself, or perhaps actually was, asexual for about my 1st 25 years of life!

I appreciated the beauty of women that were models and movie stars, and men that were muscular, but simply wasn't sexually attracted to people hardly at all!

It wasn't until I discovered furries around 25 that I actually developed sexual interest to anything, and now I can't get enough!

I actually am attracted to actual real people now..................................................... But only if they're furries! ( Go figure, eh!? )

( Or males in gay porn! ) But much less so!


Maybe you'll change over time like me, or perhaps not, but if you're happy with living alone and having a friend group, that's what matters!
 

Thrashy

The Drunk Skunk. Metal and Beer. FckNzs.
It wasn't until I discovered furries around 25 that I actually developed sexual interest to anything, and now I can't get enough!

I actually am attracted to actual real people now..................................................... But only if they're furries!

Me, an ace, has just found this fandom a few months ago, trying to avoid everything in this fandom that is even close to nsfw, now fears his future :eek:
:D
 

Joni

I'm a hot dog

Firuthi Dragovic

Gamer Dragon, former speedrunner
Honestly, I have my suspicions about possibly being gay, bi, or even pan. And they've been increasing.

Frankly, if I do ultimately wind up coming out of the closet, my family will likely have expected it, given how much I've been trying to keep them in the loop on the whole LGBT thing (the type of conversation that just doesn't happen where I am).
 

AceQuorthon

International Man Of Mystery
Hello I am a gay, pleased to homo you
 
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