I'm relatively new to the fandom, but I've been to several Fur-meets and such. And when I posted the thread asking for tips on fur-meet conduct last month, I got 'mixed' responses. Some people (Not gonna name names, you know who you are), were eluding to the potential for... Things I wasn't going to the meet to find. But when I got there, I found everyone (probably 15 some odd people) I talked to was quite nice, and in fact I had several intellectual discussions with some people there. There was no talk of yiff, no creepy or fandangos people, none of that. And I've been back sense then and found the same to be true. I've heard talk of how "Bad" fur cons are, is that true? I have no indication of that, but I know rumors originate from someplace. So have I been lucky? Are cons far different from meets? Whats the story? And don't go trolling me, I wasn't born yesterday.