I kind of agree, but I think the actual frustration being asexual is finding someone that you are compatible with. Asexual people are a bit more rare and there seems to be a lot of variation… so I think we try to define ourselves because we think it will help us find what we’re looking for… not sure if it really ever does though… i’m sure other sexualities contemplate the same issues.Personally, I think that way too many folks actually are causing themselves unnecessary stress by over analyzing themselves. Way too much effort is wasted on trying to label EVERYTHING! Just be yourself and be less concerned about what others label you. Life's too damn short, as it is.