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Baby Furs.

okh

New Member
So I am new to the whole furry, and I am a bit of a baby fur. What I want to ask is how... most furries view baby furs. Are we viewed as an Annoyance, Weird, Hated, Loved, Accepted Iggnored? Be honest please but keep it polite... I am genuinely curious, and a bit worried.
 

Charrio

Artistic Mouse
I view Babyfurs as anyone else, if you are cool and non insulting or overly baby like then terrific.
However, if they are overly RPing and everything is baby this or baby that, then that is annoying and people will treat you as such.
I don't care if you want to dress up as a baby or RP it, just don't bring it to the big kids table unless invited to. Same as at home
you don't go all being a baby at a family function or with friends at the mall. Same social courtesies would be nice thank you.
 
I think Charrio summed up just about everything in one post.
 

CaptainCool

Lady of the lake
Depends. Do you keep it to yourself and don't act like an actual baby in public? Then we are not gonna have any problems.
If you do rub it in everyone's face, if you do behave like a jackass and if you do shit into a diaper at a convention as a kind of disgusting call sign for other babby furs then I'm gonna push that shit right back in.
And unfortunately babby furs are very often absolutely insufferable when you talk to them online.

So in other words... Why would I have a problem with you if you act like a decent human being and not like a total spaz?
 
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Amiir

Guest
if you do shit into a diaper at a convention as a kind of disgusting call sign for other babby furs then I'm gonna push that shit right back in.

Eww! Make sure to wear gloves. Shit, no need for me to tell you that

As for you, Charrio, you've been as accurate as a scalpel
 

LegitWaterfall

Forever done
For the love of God, just do not type and use the grammar that a toddler does, do not commit to that "i wuv yoo fwuff doggie" shit.
 

Harbinger

The Last of Us.
Kiddy fuckers.
 

Batty Krueger

DJ Nailbunny
I'm a baby fur. Its just something to do I guess. And no I don't do the cub porn shit.
 

Sylox

boi...chill out!
I lump Baby Furs in with the furs who like cubs and diapers. It's not my thing and I've seen alot of gross shit to come out of these sub-cultures, but if you aren't a sick, immature fuck, I won't treat you like one. There is a time and place for everything.
 

Sylver

Active Member
If you have common sense and general respect for other people, then we won't have a problem. The same applies for other fetishes.

Some people like wearing diapers and using them. Great, more power to them. So long as it doesn't affect other people.
 

Ikrit

I'm fired up!
just keep it to yourself man, you don't have to come out as it, you don't need to warn people about it. it's not a sexuality, it's a kink. you don't publicly share kinks because most people don't want to know about your kink.
don't be that one guy who does nothing but talks about his kink op.
 
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Deleted member 82554

Guest
it's not a sexuality

You sure about that? I have seen others state differently.

Lets put it this way: you may be a babyfur, but this is not a babyfur exclusive forum, so treat it as such please. If you want that sort of interaction there is always FA or sites like babyfur.me to fulfil that need.
 
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Troj

Your Friendly Neighborhood Dino Therapist
I certainly appreciate that baby furs are often scapegoated and dogpiled in the fandom.

I'll even cop to having an internal "Uh oh" response when I see that someone has a kidfur or a babyfur badge, or is wearing "kiddie" accessories, because of the horror stories I've heard about certain bad eggs.

But, I have a couple of baby fur acquaintances, and listen to a furry podcast that is co-hosted by a babyfur. They're lovely, gentle, sweet people.

The key is to just respect other people's boundaries and sensitivities, behave appropriately based on the situation and environment you're in, keep your hotel room clean and neat when you're at a con, and keep yourself clean and neat when interacting with others. Stick to those rules of thumb, and you really can't go wrong.
 
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okh

New Member
Thank you all for your help understanding your views. I appreciate it. I assure you I have no intention of in anyways affecting others, it is useful to know what sort of issues people have so as to avoid them. I myself am fortunate enough to not be involved in the majority of the issues voiced here but am very grateful for your feedback. I was worried about Hate. I am glad to see that for the majority of you that is not the case. I am a firm believer in the Rule "Don't be a jerk" and feel most of the issues voiced here fall under that category. A special thanks to Charrio who summed it up very well in the first post. Cheers.
 

Traven V

Luna-tic.
There are a lot of babyfurs in the fandom. Just search for what you like you will find what you are looking for. Acceptance? as much as I would like to believe I will be accepted no matter what I like but this just isn't the case and it goes for the fandom as well.
 

SparkyWolf

Member
Well, it tends to be a bit of a hot button issue. You'll get a lot of mixed views on them. As for my opinion, I think that it only makes sense that a world with anthropomorphic animals would have baby versions of them. After all where does everyone come from? You don't need me or anyone else but a 8th grade health teacher to explain that. The only caveat to them IMO is all the kinky stuff that sometimes goes along with them, but aside from that I have no issue with them.
 

ShioBear

EH b0sss
Banned
i hate kids and find most of them annoying due to a lack of life experience.
but i dont go out of my way to hate. so really. i dont care.
 

Saiko

GTWT Survivor
I'm a baby fur. Its just something to do I guess. And no I don't do the cub porn shit.
See this guy? Be like this guy.
Why? Because it took me over three years to find out he's a baby fur.

Not because I hate them or whatever, but because he's clearly stayed within a healthy and not-obnoxious range of babyfurness.
 

Troj

Your Friendly Neighborhood Dino Therapist
See this guy? Be like this guy.
Why? Because it took me over three years to find out he's a baby fur.

Not because I hate them or whatever, but because he's clearly stayed within a healthy and not-obnoxious range of babyfurness.

Yup, same with the babyfurs I know and like. They're chill, they're easygoing, they seem genuinely self-accepting, and they don't shove their babyfurriness down other people's throats.

I'd say the same goes for people who have other sub-interests or fetishes.
 
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