Foxstar said:Shall I point out that one can not stop being black
Michael Jackson
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Foxstar said:Shall I point out that one can not stop being black
Hanazawa said:And what the hell does this have to do with anything in the first place?
Nobuyuki said:My point here is that such a distinction does exist, whether anyone wants to admit it or not, and it neither helps to try and use the science as a shield nor to try and ignore the socially-constructed aspect of gender orientation for political purposes. People should be informed (as you informed me) of both the official scientific opinion and given an explanation to the disparity in society's real-life labeling system, rather than encouraging people to not consider that to some people choice is involved, because currently we can't really criticize those people for muddying up the water and serving as poor examples for helping promote the alternate gender orientation agenda due to their own personal confusion.
nobuyuki said:They can't be ignored cause like I said they attach theirselves to key issues and make themselves big ad hominem targets for every person with a conflicting opinion :B
"oh look, she's only pretending!  Obviously if it's a choice to some people then why try and promote a new paradigm in society?  Assimilate like the rest of us"
Rot-Fuchs said:this is why i hate politics...
nobuyuki said:...
Edit: I'm going to risk going against the grain because no one warned me to stop, they just deleted my words from this thread. Gender orientation is both a scientific/genetic thing you're born with, AND a social construct. The APA's definition deals only with the science and people try and use it to force it upon the social construct as well. They are two different things. That's why I don't agree with the argument -- because it's politically incorrect to go around asserting that someone's not REALLY a homosexual or REALLY a bisexual, or REALLY a heterosexual, simply because that's not their scientifically-associated gender orientation. If the person chooses to identify themselves as one of those things as a social matter, people tend to only be forgiving of "false" homosexuals, and much less forgiving of people (such as bisexuals) who identify themselves as heterosexual by regular people and real homosexuals alike. By confusing the science with the social construct, double standards are created. Yes, some people CHOOSE what they want to be despite their natural gender orientation but then try to use the natural gender orientation argument to confuse this issue -- and the catch 22 is that it's politically incorrect to argue otherwise only if that person CHOSE to be "homosexual" (but isn't by the scientific definition).
My point here is that such a distinction does exist, whether anyone wants to admit it or not, and it neither helps to try and use the science as a shield nor to try and ignore the socially-constructed aspect of gender orientation for political purposes. People should be informed (as you informed me) of both the official scientific opinion and given an explanation to the disparity in society's real-life labeling system, rather than encouraging people to not consider that to some people choice is involved, because currently we can't really criticize those people for muddying up the water and serving as poor examples for helping promote the alternate gender orientation agenda due to their own personal confusion.
Earlier said:Maybe it's insulting to you, but you're wrongfully assuming and believing that all LGBT people "are" that way (that is, "born" that way) vs. those who chose to be that way. Once again denying there are LGBT people who chose to be that way out of some circumstance in their life / development would be an absurd claim to make. Those who chose their way of life (no matter what the circumstances) cannot be compared to those who have no other choice but to be what they are.
Dave Hyena said:In relation to your second point, LGBT people can pretend to be other than what they are, but this literally destroys lives. The suicide rate amongst LGBT people is significently higher than average in Britain for example and it is belived that people saying in the closet etc, plays it's part. No one should have to deny what they are or be punished for it in my opinion.
nobuyuki said:Finally.... If the moderators want to split off the tangent they should do a less shitty job at picking the place where the thread started going off on it. Otherwise, without a proper explanation, the split made little sense and just seems like "yet another arbitrary decision" which only serves to piss off people who believe in fair and even moderation.
Surgat said:-clipclipclip-
Agreed. The original topic was kind of silly anyways.
[Emphasis mine.]LTIO-540-D2J said:Okay, I agree that Sen. Obama is a nice guy. I'd even grant that he's articulate. But I just can't see him as a leader- he's served less than half his term in Congress, and what legislative accomplishments can he point out? The man is a political cipher. I can't name anything that he stands for, except 'being nice to everyone'. I would say that 'being nice' and 'saying nice things that sound good to most people' are not good indicators of leadership- I sort of see an inverse correlation there.
Sen. Obama recently compared himself to Abraham Lincoln, and I think that highlights the difference between a great leader and Obama- Lincoln was steadfast in his determination to see the Union preserved, and continued a tremendously upopular and bloody war. One hundred and fifty years later, the wisdom of his decision is obvious Roosevelt made an unpopular decision to end our isolationism and enter WWII. Sixty years later, no one will argue that our involvement in defeating Fascism.
Sen. Obama has said very little to indicate to me that he has the sort of will or determination needed to be an effective leader along these lines- his recent comment about 'wasted' lives seems to me to indicate he believes that if something is too hard to do quickly or easily, we should just quit.
Surgat said:You say that saying gender orientation is not a choice, and that saying people can be mistaken about their orientation is "politically incorrect" because people should be able to identify as whatever they want [see: the first two quoted paragraphs]. However, when homophobes demand that everybody identifies as straight it's just fine? It's wrong for people to have to be identified by their gender orientation as recognized by science only, but having to keep their preferences secret for fear of legal and social repercussions isn't really wrong/oppressive?
LTIO-540-D2J said:Okay, I agree that Sen. Obama is a nice guy. I'd even grant that he's articulate. But I just can't see him as a leader- he's served less than half his term in Congress, and what legislative accomplishments can he point out? The man is a political cipher. I can't name anything that he stands for, except 'being nice to everyone'. I would say that 'being nice' and 'saying nice things that sound good to most people' are not good indicators of leadership- I sort of see an inverse correlation there.
Sen. Obama recently compared himself to Abraham Lincoln, and I think that highlights the difference between a great leader and Obama- Lincoln was steadfast in his determination to see the Union preserved, and continued a tremendously upopular and bloody war. One hundred and fifty years later, the wisdom of his decision is obvious Roosevelt made an unpopular decision to end our isolationism and enter WWII. Sixty years later, no one will argue that our involvement in defeating Fascism.
Sen. Obama has said very little to indicate to me that he has the sort of will or determination needed to be an effective leader along these lines- his recent comment about 'wasted' lives seems to me to indicate he believes that if something is too hard to do quickly or easily, we should just quit.
Surgat said:[Emphasis mine.]LTIO-540-D2J said:I'd even grant that he's articulate.
You might want to re-word that a little.
noboyuki said:The complete -lack- of political dirt on this guy IS rather unusual, and I can see why it might even scare you just a little bit, but that's no reason not to vote for him. If you can't figure out where he stands, try his bid for nomination speech (which I linked earlier in this thread) -- that has a lot of key issues he wants to see action on (and in what direction) at capitol hill.
nobuyuki said:Look at his record as an illinois state senator.... or does that only count to guys who voted for him before? Honestly, almost everyone in illinois thinks obama is great. In 2004 he won 70% of the vote vs. Keyes' 27%. Does that count as a landslide?
Yes, yes he was. Your image-manipulation skills are strong- you should consider sending your resume to Reuters, Al-Manar, Al-Jazeera, and Al-Fars. However, instead of the hot dog, Reuters recommends something with a little more punch to it.nobuyuki said:P.S. LOL Zell miller. Wasn't he at the '04 republican national convention?