Xenke
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In other words: "The idea that personality is determined genetically". The idea that you are the way you are, at least to some extent, because you're physically wired to be that way. Admittedly, I haven't done extensive research on the subject, but it seems that the scientific community still doesn't have a definite answer on the subject.
So the question is: Do you think that your behavior is dictated by 'nature', or by 'nurture'? Are we born this way? Or are we made this way?
[And the rest of this is TL;DR my views on the whole thing. If you absolutely have to skip it, at least read the last paragraph about twins because I know they will come up]
I personally don't think genetics plays much, if any, role in personality, but that's not to say I've turned a deaf ear to the possibility. I think that for the most part people are the way they are as a result of how they were raised and because of what they have experienced in life. Of course, the only reason I say that is because when I sit down and think about who I am, I can draw connections to specific things in my life which very well could have shaped me to be the person I am.
Despite the fact that I don't believe genetics make up who I am, looking at my family in relation to myself gives a strong appearance that this is indeed the case. I've got the same procrastination, attention to detail, want to help, and humor as my dad, among other things, while I have my mom's mental flexibility, views on aesthetics, thought patterns, and passive nature. Most of the things that make up who I am seem to mirror those of my parents.
And here is where those who subscribe to the 'nurture' side of this debate say "Aha! But this could easily be because these people raised you and imparted this behavior on to you!", a point which I agree could very well be the case. But notice how I said "most of the things[…]" a couple sentences ago. Obviously there are some things about myself I attribute to 'environment', but there are some things which I can only inexplicably trace back to my extended family whom I’ve had very little contact with my whole life.
One of the most prominent things I've picked up from my extended family (grandma in this case, probably a couple other people on my dad's side too) is a hoarding behavior. My mom is pretty much the opposite of a hoarder, she enjoys going through her stuff and getting rid of unneeded junk, and my dad only has lots of tools that he actually uses, which isn't really hoarding at all. Admittedly, I haven't become a "true" hoarder, but it's extremely difficult for me to let go of anything in my possessions. An example of this I can think of is that I've had this stretched out key-ring on my desk for a couple years now. It's junk, but I don’t want to get rid of it. So yea, I don't know where this behavior came from, among others, if not from my grandma whom I barely knew.
And of course, one of the things that people will bring up in topics like this are identical twins. Twins are often remarkably similar in both physical and mental characteristics. It’s easy to look at twins and say "well obviously genetics are responsible for this". You also have to keep in mind that twins are also pretty likely to have grown up in nearly identical situations, especially if they tend to stick together. Also, twins tend to become increasingly different as they get older, perhaps indicative that the differing life experiences could shape this divide. I knew a pair of twins to a degree at one point in my life, and even at their age there were subtle differences in their personality that had already begun to form.
So the question is: Do you think that your behavior is dictated by 'nature', or by 'nurture'? Are we born this way? Or are we made this way?
[And the rest of this is TL;DR my views on the whole thing. If you absolutely have to skip it, at least read the last paragraph about twins because I know they will come up]
I personally don't think genetics plays much, if any, role in personality, but that's not to say I've turned a deaf ear to the possibility. I think that for the most part people are the way they are as a result of how they were raised and because of what they have experienced in life. Of course, the only reason I say that is because when I sit down and think about who I am, I can draw connections to specific things in my life which very well could have shaped me to be the person I am.
Despite the fact that I don't believe genetics make up who I am, looking at my family in relation to myself gives a strong appearance that this is indeed the case. I've got the same procrastination, attention to detail, want to help, and humor as my dad, among other things, while I have my mom's mental flexibility, views on aesthetics, thought patterns, and passive nature. Most of the things that make up who I am seem to mirror those of my parents.
And here is where those who subscribe to the 'nurture' side of this debate say "Aha! But this could easily be because these people raised you and imparted this behavior on to you!", a point which I agree could very well be the case. But notice how I said "most of the things[…]" a couple sentences ago. Obviously there are some things about myself I attribute to 'environment', but there are some things which I can only inexplicably trace back to my extended family whom I’ve had very little contact with my whole life.
One of the most prominent things I've picked up from my extended family (grandma in this case, probably a couple other people on my dad's side too) is a hoarding behavior. My mom is pretty much the opposite of a hoarder, she enjoys going through her stuff and getting rid of unneeded junk, and my dad only has lots of tools that he actually uses, which isn't really hoarding at all. Admittedly, I haven't become a "true" hoarder, but it's extremely difficult for me to let go of anything in my possessions. An example of this I can think of is that I've had this stretched out key-ring on my desk for a couple years now. It's junk, but I don’t want to get rid of it. So yea, I don't know where this behavior came from, among others, if not from my grandma whom I barely knew.
And of course, one of the things that people will bring up in topics like this are identical twins. Twins are often remarkably similar in both physical and mental characteristics. It’s easy to look at twins and say "well obviously genetics are responsible for this". You also have to keep in mind that twins are also pretty likely to have grown up in nearly identical situations, especially if they tend to stick together. Also, twins tend to become increasingly different as they get older, perhaps indicative that the differing life experiences could shape this divide. I knew a pair of twins to a degree at one point in my life, and even at their age there were subtle differences in their personality that had already begun to form.