Can Someone Help Me With A Sona Idea?

[Alyx_0_0]

OK, so, I have a decent number of sonas. All are male and all are mammals. So I was thinking. I'm getting a bit of (maybe) body dysphoria (I'm still looking into it) so I figured having a female would be nice. I also don't have a dragon so I'm thinking female dragon. But the thing against that for now is, I don't know anything about females XD
Would anyone be willing to teach me? I know, really weird request XD

 

[DireDrag0n]

What do you mean by teach about females?

 

[Sam Wamm]

OK, so, I have a decent number of sonas. All are male and all are mammals. So I was thinking. I'm getting a bit of (maybe) body dysphoria (I'm still looking into it) so I figured having a female would be nice. I also don't have a dragon so I'm thinking female dragon. But the thing against that for now is, I don't know anything about females XD
Would anyone be willing to teach me? I know, really weird request XD

 

[TyraWadman]

Um... the only thing different is the genitalia.
Hobbies and personality can still be whatever, and aren't exclusive to gender.

 

[Sam Wamm]

Um... the only thing different is the genitalia.
Hobbies and personality can still be whatever, and aren't exclusive to gender.

not really. it kinda depends on how a period affects them.
so say i, long term keeper of girlfriends.

 

[TyraWadman]

not really. it kinda depends on how a period affects them.
so say i, long term keeper of girlfriends.

Yea. I just figured they probably didn't plan on doing any super in-depth writing anytime soon. XD

 

[Alyx_0_0]

What do you mean by teach about females?

I just don't know how I would go about making a female sona without accidentally being insulting. I don't know how to explain it and that's actually the issue because I am TERRIBLE at explaining things!

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Am I? Or are you saying you are? I am confused.

Um... the only thing different is the genitalia.
Hobbies and personality can still be whatever, and aren't exclusive to gender.

Thank you!

not really. it kinda depends on how a period affects them.
so say i, long term keeper of girlfriends.

Lol I was thinking I wouldn't get that detailed since I personally don't experience those as a male so I don't really know what they're like. I'm still learning stuff about myself but for now I think it's safe to say I'm transfem!

Yea. I just figured they probably didn't plan on doing any super in-depth writing anytime soon. XD

Yea exactly!

Also! I'm so sorry for the super late replies! Thank you for your help! So the personality can be whatever, the extra limbs are just different?

 

[TyraWadman]

I just don't know how I would go about making a female sona without accidentally being insulting. I don't know how to explain it and that's actually the issue because I am TERRIBLE at explaining things!

Am I? Or are you saying you are? I am confused.

Thank you!

Lol I was thinking I wouldn't get that detailed since I personally don't experience those as a male so I don't really know what they're like. I'm still learning stuff about myself but for now I think it's safe to say I'm transfem!

Yea exactly!

Also! I'm so sorry for the super late replies! Thank you for your help! So the personality can be whatever, the extra limbs are just different?

Basically!

If you want to get super in-depth, you'd have to consider the norms of society or how/when your sona was 'raised'. But that's ONLY if you feel like creating a story for them. X)

Otherwise, just have fun and develop them as you explore!

 

[RogueNoodle]

Do you roleplay with your other sonas? That might be a good and easy way to get a feel for what direction you'd like her to go in. Look at other users' sonas as well. As another poster said, don't fret too much about your character's gender interacting with their interests, hobbies, etc...

There is also the possibility that you could use this opportunity to make a sona that reflects the struggle you're going through right now. Go ahead and make that female dragon! If you're unsure if she's "girly" enough then that's okay (what even is "girly" anyway, pssshhh)! Use her to help work through your body dysmorphia. I understand that this idea might not be for everyone but just don't stress about getting every detail perfect at first. Most people in their right mind probably won't be offended by what you put out.

 

[Alyx_0_0]

Basically!

If you want to get super in-depth, you'd have to consider the norms of society or how/when your sona was 'raised'. But that's ONLY if you feel like creating a story for them. X)

Otherwise, just have fun and develop them as you explore!

When I make backstories I never really go with the norms of the world. I kinda just make the backstories sad in order to explain their present shyness XD

Do you roleplay with your other sonas? That might be a good and easy way to get a feel for what direction you'd like her to go in. Look at other users' sonas as well. As another poster said, don't fret too much about your character's gender interacting with their interests, hobbies, etc...

There is also the possibility that you could use this opportunity to make a sona that reflects the struggle you're going through right now. Go ahead and make that female dragon! If you're unsure if she's "girly" enough then that's okay (what even is "girly" anyway, pssshhh)! Use her to help work through your body dysmorphia. I understand that this idea might not be for everyone but just don't stress about getting every detail perfect at first. Most people in their right mind probably won't be offended by what you put out.

Thank you! And the amount of girliness isn't really an issue since all my sonas before this one have been femboys XD
I relly thought I sent the top half of this message sooner, sorry!