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Can you be a furry or a part of the fandom without attending a con?

Can you be a furry or a part of the fandom without attending a con?

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LunaGryph

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I've heard a lot about not needing a fursuit to be part of the fandom or a furry, but what I haven't heard was about needing to attend a con to be one or part of it, since there's tons of people who do so. However, some people may not have the means to do so, as they have other reasons that prevent them from doing so such as financial or proximity issues. With that said, I'd like to know if attending a con is also part of being a furry or the fandom itself.
 
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Smityyyy

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Travelling and staying at conventions can be pretty pricey. Plus you’d have to schedule time off work, find transport, and find a place to stay. That’s not always viable for everyone. So no, definitely not necessary to go. Although, cons can be very fun.
 
Pomorek

Pomorek

Antelope-Addicted Hyena
It would be pretty laughable if attending a con was a requirement. In that case, since some odd 12 years I'm deluding myself that I'm part of the fandom as there's never been a way or opportunity for me for any con-going. I'd love to, but geography is a b*tch to me in this respect.
 
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LunaGryph

Member
Pomorek said:
It would be pretty laughable if attending a con was a requirement. In that case, since some odd 12 years I'm deluding myself that I'm part of the fandom as there's never been a way or opportunity for me for any con-going. I'd love to, but geography is a b*tch to me in this respect.
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Same goes for me in a way, but both geography and my family is a bitch too. I guess I could always go fursuiting out in public as a substitute for not attending a con, but I think that when it comes to dance comps or taking part in any other fursuit-related activities, then cons are the way to go.
 
Mambi

Mambi

Fun loving kitty cat
LunaGryph said:
I've heard a lot about not needing a fursuit to be part of the fandom or a furry, but what I haven't heard was about needing to attend a con to be one or part of it, since there's tons of people who do so. However, some people may not have the means to do so, as they have other reasons that prevent them from doing so such as financial or proximity issues. With that said, I'd like to know if attending a con is also part of being a furry or the fandom itself.
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I've never gone to one and am most definitely a furry, though to be fair I also admit I would go to one chance given in a heartbeat.
 
Khafra

Khafra

Heave away, haul away
If attending cons is a requirement, then sign me out 'cause they suuuck
 
Khafra

Khafra

Heave away, haul away
LunaGryph said:
Do cons actually suck? If so, how?
BTW, I'd also bail if it was a requirement.
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Well, tons of people like them, so there have to be some good qualities. I just haven't found any yet.
 
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Xitheon

Guest
I don't even have a fursuit and I don't draw furry art anymore. I had a tail once, but people kept grabbing it when I was out walking.

Edit: I have never been to a con.
 
Eremurus

Eremurus

seeker of knowledge
So I guess all of us introverts don't count? My impression to be a "furry" was that you 1) need to appreciate anthropomorphic art and 2) have your own fursona.

I have not heard of gatekeeping via conventions.
 
Mambi

Mambi

Fun loving kitty cat
Eremurus said:
So I guess all of us introverts don't count? My impression to be a "furry" was that you 1) need to appreciate anthropomorphic art and 2) have your own fursona.

I have not heard of gatekeeping via conventions.
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I know I don't recall having to fill out a form or something to register as a furry, so pretty sure there aren't any tests or qualifications other than "Hey, that looks awesome!" at the sight of a good fursuit/artpiece <lol>
 
Foxridley

Foxridley

A fox named Ridley
Someone asked a similar question, but about fur suits, so I’ll give a similar response.
Would you consider someone not to be a fan of, say, Star Wars because they didn’t go to conventions?
 
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LunaGryph

Member
Smityyyy said:
Travelling and staying at conventions can be pretty pricey. Plus you’d have to schedule time off work, find transport, and find a place to stay. That’s not always viable for everyone. So no, definitely not necessary to go. Although, cons can be very fun.
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^This
TBH, as for myself, it's kind of a reason why I find going to cons to be such a headache, especially when travelling for it. As for local ones, for me it's like I have to hope that my schedule aligns with the con's so that I can go without having to deal with all that headache.
 
Euroann

Euroann

Active Member
LunaGryph said:
I've heard a lot about not needing a fursuit to be part of the fandom or a furry, but what I haven't heard was about needing to attend a con to be one or part of it, since there's tons of people who do so. However, some people may not have the means to do so, as they have other reasons that prevent them from doing so such as financial or proximity issues. With that said, I'd like to know if attending a con is also part of being a furry or the fandom itself.
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If you like or are attracted to cartoon characters I heard that qualifies as furry.
 
Troj

Troj

Your Friendly Neighborhood Dino Therapist
All you need to do to be a furry is to like anthropomorphic characters. That's all!

I'd say all you need to do to participate in the community is to do your best to embody the core values of the fandom so that it remains a fun, enjoyable, open, welcoming, inclusive, and safe space for everyone, and just generally treat other people and beings as you would like to be treated.
 
Dragon64

Dragon64

Well-Known Member
I really want to go to cons and wear a fursuit but I don't like traveling by myself because it doesn't quite feel right to me. I would get a fursuit but I would have no reason to wear it because I don't go to cons
 
Mambi

Mambi

Fun loving kitty cat
Dragon64 said:
I really want to go to cons and wear a fursuit but I don't like traveling by myself because it doesn't quite feel right to me. I would get a fursuit but I would have no reason to wear it because I don't go to cons
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You think the ONLY reason to wear a fursuit is cons? Silly dragon ,you wear it because it's fun, and you go to cons to show it off among other fur lovers and chat. <grin>
 
RamblingRenegade

RamblingRenegade

Just a Horse Trying to Avoid Life's Manure
I have never been to a Con, always wanted to go, I just moved back to a location where it may be possible now, hopefully in 2023 ( if I ever get my suit lol)
 
Punk_M0nitor

Punk_M0nitor

Resident Edgelord
If going to cons was a requirement for being able to officially call yourself a furry, I’d say the majority of the fandom would be honorary at best
 
Kain

Kain

Member
For years, I lurked art boards and made pictures, and I still called myself a furry.

I went to a cosplay con earlier this year. It was my first time going to any con and my first time seeing fursuiters in person. I loved it! Like a lot of others, I will say only do it if you want to and you can.

I went in with the information that you don't need a fursuit at all, and I'm so glad I went as I am.

It is my intention to become a fursuiter, though. Again, not a requirement.
 
Judge Spear

Judge Spear

Well-Known Member
I've been in this fandom for 15 years.

I cant be convinced to attend any furry gatherings unless you're handing me a check woth a LOT of zeroes.
 
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