• Fur Affinity Forums are governed by Fur Affinity's Rules and Policies. Links and additional information can be accessed in the Site Information Forum.

Coming Out: The Thread (Continued)

Criminal Scum

Can't stop.
Heh; you're joking right im anything but Bi i just find normal porn "boring" that dosent mean anything and those things i did,didn't even enjoy still don't enjoy it its nothing just some sort of 5-year phase im sure it will be over my senoir yearof high school
I'm pretty sure phases don't last five years.​
 

Bipolar Bear

Phallus Fellater
I'm Bisexual. I don't know, but for some reason I just love both genders in each and every way. It also leaves more flexibility in who I can pick. :cool:
 

Spatel

Well-Known Member
Heh; you're joking right im anything but Bi i just find normal porn "boring" that dosent mean anything and those things i did,didn't even enjoy still don't enjoy it its nothing just some sort of 5-year phase im sure it will be over my senoir yearof high school

Most straight guys don't watch gay porn because they find straight porn "boring". Most bisexuals don't find straight porn boring either. Just putting things into perspective for ya. You were raised in a homophobic environment, in Texas no less. I think that's messing with your judgment.

And not enjoying the first couple sexual experiences is normal. It's awkward regardless of sexuality.
 

JArt.

Member
Most straight guys don't watch gay porn because they find straight porn "boring". Most bisexuals don't find straight porn boring either. Just putting things into perspective for ya. You were raised in a homophobic environment, in Texas no less. I think that's messing with your judgment.

And not enjoying the first couple sexual experiences is normal. It's awkward regardless of sexuality.

I think i need just stay away from my friends for a while and talk to girls more then everything will be fine it was nothing gay i just got too conntected to them and i think it'd be better if i just not talk to them.
 

Yago

Ambered Amaranth
Well, I'm sure I'm bi.

Very picky though.....
How that thing with your father go? (Not to get off topic, but you said he might find out, that he was cool with it, what about the forums blah blah.)
 

Kosdu

Member
Ah, one post off topic will be fine.


It went okay, he didn't found out I was flirting with an older guy. That is what I'd worried about.
I didn't have to explain the forums or PM people on here. I may have to if he walks in when I am PM'ing. He's worried about pedophiles....... he is worried someone will track my IP..... really, dad?
He tries to be understanding etc., but he doesn't understand me talking to people I don't know in RL or how social I am.


I'm not sure how I'd hook up with someone in RL though =/
 

Yago

Ambered Amaranth
Ah, one post off topic will be fine.


It went okay, he didn't found out I was flirting with an older guy. That is what I'd worried about.
I didn't have to explain the forums or PM people on here. I may have to if he walks in when I am PM'ing. He's worried about pedophiles....... he is worried someone will track my IP..... really, dad?
He tries to be understanding etc., but he doesn't understand me talking to people I don't know in RL or how social I am.


I'm not sure how I'd hook up with someone in RL though =/


More of my friends I've met online than offline. Well, actually they are equal. But I spend all my time online with my friends either way. The statistical probability of pedophiles lurking is so low. Not to say I feel immune because of it. But I'll take a minor gamble. I'm almost eighteen and intelligent enough to handle myself.
 

Yago

Ambered Amaranth
EDIT: HOW DID THIS DOUBLE POST SO FAR APART?

Sorry. Not sure what happened.
 

Criminal Scum

Can't stop.
Has this happened to anyone: the closer you get to coming out, the more you hear (particularly stinging) gay jokes or conversations about gays?
Hurts, man. :c
 

Lunar

Son of a WHORE!
Today my mom was telling me, "Now, honey, when you start this new job, don't go telling everyone you're gay." Yes, because I have absolutely no class and really want everyone at work to know about my personal life.
 

Criminal Scum

Can't stop.
Today my mom was telling me, "Now, honey, when you start this new job, don't go telling everyone you're gay." Yes, because I have absolutely no class and really want everyone at work to know about my personal life.
If she knows you're a furry, then that would explain it. :V
 

Kryn

Flyin' Sooo High
It is common for straight men to lose their virginity late, particularly if they are nerds. Mid-to-late 20s is becoming increasingly common, thanks to the internet, and the economy, and some other cultural dynamics. If nobody is suspicious you're 23 and still single it's because it isn't really that suspicious.

Well I'm not a virgin, my parents wouldn't know that though. I think you're right though, even my homophobic coworkers are convinced I'm straight. And I don't even attempt to convince them I am. I never fake it and talk about all the hot girls at school or bullshit like that. I even get the odd "at least you're not gay!" or similar comment every once in awhile. Just makes me wanna scream "I LIKE DICK DAMNIT!" :rolleyes:
 

Magick

Posing school graduate
I never really had an issue with coming out, mainly because I never made a big deal out of it or made a formal declaration of it. My friends were surprisingly okay with it, they're the kinds of guys who just don't really care about that sort of thing, I guess it helps that I don't draw much attention to myself in the first place and look kinda intimidating (Dark colors, sunglasses and/or military style hat, normal expression looks sad and angry most of the time).
 

Bipolar Bear

Phallus Fellater
Today my mom was telling me, "Now, honey, when you start this new job, don't go telling everyone you're gay." Yes, because I have absolutely no class and really want everyone at work to know about my personal life.

Actually, those are the kind of people I personally hate. People who boast about their sexuality and make it a big deal, so that they'll get noticed. How I came out of the closest was that I just kissed my Boyfriend on the lips when I went home that day. Then I came back a day later, and everyone was like 'OMG, YOU KISSED A GUY! ARE YOU GAY? OMG WE'RE SO PROUD OF YOU!' I couldn't really care less. But then I just told them I was Bisexual and that got them to shut up. l=P
 

Yago

Ambered Amaranth
Actually, those are the kind of people I personally hate. People who boast about their sexuality and make it a big deal, so that they'll get noticed. How I came out of the closest was that I just kissed my Boyfriend on the lips when I went home that day. Then I came back a day later, and everyone was like 'OMG, YOU KISSED A GUY! ARE YOU GAY? OMG WE'RE SO PROUD OF YOU!' I couldn't really care less. But then I just told them I was Bisexual and that got them to shut up. l=P


I KNOW! I hate it when people use sexuality as some attention getter. God. My high-school and it's "bisexuals" pfft.They are such posers. Totally ruin it for us. Second they get attention about it, gets all shy and claims it wasn't real and they were wrong. ugh.
 

Bipolar Bear

Phallus Fellater
I KNOW! I hate it when people use sexuality as some attention getter. God. My high-school and it's "bisexuals" pfft.They are such posers. Totally ruin it for us. Second they get attention about it, gets all shy and claims it wasn't real and they were wrong. ugh.

Permission to Face-nuke?
 

Criminal Scum

Can't stop.
I'm about to come out to one of my friends via text (like a bitch). I'm almost positive she'll take it well (I think she has gay friends), but I can hardly bring myself to press 'send' and start the conversation.

Wish me luck. :I
 

Dragonfurry

(•_•)(•_•)>⌐■-■(⌐■_■)
Not really that big of a coming out story for me. So basically about a week and a half ago I told my friends I was bisexual when they were asking me who i was going out with. Told them I am going out with a dude and they seemed a bit surprised and I expected my best friend to be a bit homophobic since he had that kinda attitude for a bit but I was surprised that they were cool with it. Though the real problem will be telling my parents if it ever comes to that and I dont really plan on telling them what I like in bed because honestly it is none of their business. Also my parents are homophobes and devout Christian's so I dont really want to tell them but honestly i am giving less and less shits on what my parents think anymore since I am getting closer to the magic number 18. Idk I guess I will have to see where this whole thing takes me.
 

Kosdu

Member
Good luck, Dragonfurry =)




I'm going to come out to a couple of my homophobic friends this summer, ought to be fun. I will see if they are truly my friends.
=P



My Mom still thinks I might just be in a bi-curious phase, I'm not. Massive faggot, indeed.
 
Last edited:
Top