Confessions thread

[Deleted member 93706]

I'm a switch

Does switch mean dom+sub compatible?

I'm sex illiterate...

 

[Volkodav]

I could never get into that sort of thing, going to parties or meets or whatever. Way too anxious in social situations.
I'd rather do that stuff at home w/ people.. but I still feel like I'm missing out on something.

 

[RestlessDreamer]

Absolutely color me intrigued, Ursus. I'm not into the leather scene at all, but definitely into what you're laying down for sure!

 

[UrsusArtist]

Does switch mean dom+sub compatible?

I'm sex illiterate...

Bingo. Also called versatile, like I am!

I could never get into that sort of thing, going to parties or meets or whatever. Way too anxious in social situations.
I'd rather do that stuff at home w/ people.. but I still feel like I'm missing out on something.

My most intimate and hottest encounters have been with my partner at home, bar none, but there is something to be said about the smell of sweat and testosterone in the air...the moans coming from dark corners...the grunts and curses of pleasure in a group...

To each, his own! People tend to be timid when they haven't experienced a lot of situations like I've described.

 

[Volkodav]

Does switch mean dom+sub compatible?

I'm sex illiterate...

Here's a basic explanation of BDSM terms:

B - Bondage. This can be anything from just collars, all the way up to swings, latex restraints, leather dog masks, etc.
D - Dominance/Discipline. Kind of going hand-in-hand but not always. A dominant partner or "dom" is the one who is in control. They say what you do and when, and maybe you'd get disciplined if you didn't do it..
S - Slave/Sadism/Submission. "Submission" goes with "dominance" under D, but slave is a little different from being submissive. Most slaves are "subs", but not all of them. A slave is basically uhhh.. this goes more with bondage than anything else. Think sex slave. Sadism is sexual gratification from causing pain to another person. Sadism in BDSM is always consentual and both parties agree to it beforehand.
M - Masochism. Someone who gets sexual gratification from having pain inflicted upon them.

A "switch" usually refers to someone who can either be a bottom or a top, but can also mean someone who can be a sub or a dom.
Bottom = The person on the receiving end of penetration. Usually the one who gives blowjobs as well.
Top = The person on the giving end of penetration


For myself, I'd say I'm a dom top, and I'm into all forms of BDSM (each of the letters of the acronym if you will). I can be a switch when it comes to sub/dom but this is rare, and I am never a switch when it comes to top/bottom.

To each, his own! People tend to be timid when they haven't experienced a lot of situations like I've described.

I've just got Social Anxiety Disorder. ):

 

[Kleric]

I could never get into that sort of thing, going to parties or meets or whatever. Way too anxious in social situations.
I'd rather do that stuff at home w/ people.. but I still feel like I'm missing out on something.

Does switch mean dom+sub compatible?

I'm sex illiterate...

Edit: Don't worry, I'm kind of illiterate on sexual terms too. ._.
But now that It's described, It seems I simply don't give a crap and that I'd be a switch.

 

[RestlessDreamer]

My most intimate and hottest encounters have been with my partner at home, bar none, but there is something to be said about the smell of sweat and testosterone in the air...the moans coming from dark corners...the grunts and curses of pleasure in a group...

To each, his own! People tend to be timid when they haven't experienced a lot of situations like I've described.

I feel the same way. Sex with someone whom you have feelings for is vastly more rewarding than any other encounter. But I would absolutely be lying if I said that scenario doesn't sound immensely enticing, if for at least a single outing.

 

[RedSavage]

I am just loving this thread. God damn. Can... can I confess some things?



I am super huge into slut shaming... HUGE. Dirty talk. Talk down to me and use and abuse me like a mother fucker. Tell me I'm a dirty nasty girl and belong in the gutter. Tie me up. Collar me. Use me some more. Loan me out to your friends. Blindfold me. Tell me to lick and suck. Then tell me I'm a slut for doing so without second thought. Bring out the camera. I fucking. love. cameras. Set me up and order me to do things to myself. DON'T let me cum until you say so. If I cum too soon? Punish me. Spank me. I love having my ass slapped. My tits (small as they are) grabbed and pinched. I want to be overwhelmed and over spent and I want more. Despite this estrogen I'm on I'm supremely hypersexual and I can't complain. Guys. Girls. Don't care. I have a thing for pain too. I have a jacob's ladder for a reason. Tug on those barbells. Make me sweat and clench down.

I just have a thing for being used, beat up, and degraded??? I guess I spent years denying myself and feeling super guilty about any sexuality. Recently I turned a corner in myself and accepted many parts of me, including my rampant sexuality. And after some exploring, much to my surprise, OTHER people guilt tripping me and degrading me has turned into a hot-button kink. It's actually kind of hilarious.


And----yes. I know the irony of me and my personality being a complete and abject sub in the Dom/Sub relationship. The best thing about having power? Giving it away to someone who's going to abuse it like hell.

 

[Volkodav]

I'm fine with fucking people I don't know, but I can't stand large gatherings. Malls, stores, clubs, bars, whatever. Not for me

That's me

I am just loving this thread. God damn. Can... can I confess some things?



I am super huge into slut shaming... HUGE. Dirty talk. Talk down to me and use and abuse me like a mother fucker. Tell me I'm a dirty nasty girl and belong in the gutter. Tie me up. Collar me. Use me some more. Loan me out to your friends. Blindfold me. Tell me to lick and suck. Bring out the camera. I fucking. love. cameras. Set me up and order me to do things to myself. DON'T let me cum until you say so. If I cum too soon? Punish me. Spank me. I love having my ass slapped. My tits (small as they are) grabbed and pinched. I want to be overwhelmed and over spent and I want more. Despite this estrogen I'm on I'm supremely hypersexual and I can't complain. Guys. Girls. Don't care. I have a thing for pain too. I have a jacob's ladder for a reason. Tug on those barbells. Make me sweat and clench down.

I just have a thing for being used, beat up, and degraded??? I guess I spent years denying myself and feeling super guilty about any sexuality. Recently I turned a corner in myself and accepted many parts of me, including my rampant sexuality. And after some exploring, much to my surprise, OTHER people guilt tripping me and degrading me has turned into a hot-button kink. It's actually kind of hilarious.


And----yes. I know the irony of me and my personality being a complete and abject sub in the Dom/Sub relationship. The best thing about having power? Giving it away to someone who's going to abuse it like hell.

This whole post is qual

 

[RestlessDreamer]

RedSavage, you are speaking my language. <3

 

[Deleted member 93706]

-snip-

Okay, so I'm not that sex-illiterate. xD

-snip-

I think my brain just hemorrhaged.

 

[funky3000]

So we're talking about what we're all into.

I think I've made it very clear I like macro.

But if it wasn't clear enough.

I like my tits the size of planets.

(or, y'know, more managable sizes. Or more ridiculous sizes)

 

[RedSavage]

This whole post is qual

I'm also fond of all sorts of roleplay.

"Forgive me father, for I have sinned. I got reamed out by six black guys in the gym locker room and I liked it. A lot."
"You dirty slut. That's three hail Marys while you suck my cock."

RedSavage, you are speaking my language. <3

It truly is enticing, as you say. I'm shivering now having written that. No joke.

So we're talking about what we're all into.
I think I've made it very clear I like macro.
But if it wasn't clear enough.
I like my tits the size of planets.
(or, y'know, more managable sizes. Or more ridiculous sizes)

Macro has always fascinated me. I don't understand it, but it seems harmless enough that I don't mind seeing it at all! As I said. It piques my curiosity.

 

[Hewge]

It took a while for this thread to become 100% talking about fetishes and other sexual desires

 

[RestlessDreamer]

Funny enough, I like my boobs fun and perky. My ex-GF had 36D's. They were nice, but for some reason I always prefer a more petite frame (not skinny, just smaller) and size B breasts.

 

[Volkodav]

So we're talking about what we're all into.

I think I've made it very clear I like macro.

But if it wasn't clear enough.

I like my tits the size of planets.

(or, y'know, more managable sizes. Or more ridiculous sizes)

I have to ask, as I've wondered this for a while -- how does this fetish translate to real-life sexual encounters? Is that possible?

I'm also fond of all sorts of roleplay.

"Forgive me father, for I have sinned. I got reamed out by six black guys in the gym locker room and I liked it. A lot."
"You dirty slut. That's three hail Marys while you suck my cock."

I'm not into roleplay, I just like to fuck

So suck my cock and shut the fuck up, Red

 

[RestlessDreamer]

It took a while for this thread to become 100% talking about fetishes and other sexual desires

I'd like to take some credit for that, with pride. Although I think that Mizu and Voldov did the heavy lifting.

 

[UrsusArtist]

Damn, is it getting warm in here?

 

[RestlessDreamer]

Being totally honest with you, RedSavage. You and I are cut from a similar kinky cloth.

 

[Deleted member 93706]

I'd like to take some credit for that, with pride. Although I think that Mizu and Voldov did the heavy lifting.

And then along came RedSavage...

 

[RestlessDreamer]

Well RedSavage went for broke, of course. ^_^

 

[Renarde]

I'm also fond of all sorts of roleplay.

"Forgive me father, for I have sinned. I got reamed out by six black guys in the gym locker room and I liked it. A lot."
"You dirty slut. That's three hail Marys while you suck my cock."

Roleplay is a wonderful thing, but it requires a degree of sexual honesty and openness which unfortunately is hard to come by.

 

[RedSavage]

It took a while for this thread to become 100% talking about fetishes and other sexual desires

Too damn long!

Funny enough, I like my boobs fun and perky. My ex-GF had 36D's. They were nice, but for some reason I always prefer a more petite frame (not skinny, just smaller) and size B breasts.

I wish I had a petite frame and B cups instead of a big Amazonian frame and A cups. I have a looong way to go before HRT forms anything interesting.

I'm not into roleplay, I just like to fuck

So suck my cock and shut the fuck up, Red

Make me.
No seriously. Make me. I'd be into that.

Being totally honest with you, RedSavage. You and I are cut from a similar kinky cloth.

Once upon a time I gave a shit about modesty. Then I kind of realized my code of ethics behind sex was doing nothing but causing my life harm, guilt, and stress, so I let go and lemme tell ya. It's great being a heathen.I chose a hellhound-esque 'sona for a reason.

And then along came RedSavage...

Well RedSavage went for broke, of course. ^_^

Hey, ask the shameless writer what she's into, and she'll paint you a picture you'll feel.

Roleplay is a wonderful thing, but for it requires a degree of sexual honesty and openness which unfortunately is hard to come by.

And creativity and conviction as well! Which is simply hard to come by. If that other person isn't INTO it, it falls flat because you can really feel it in the air. Things get awkward as hell.

 

[RestlessDreamer]

I was never modest. At least once I got out of my house growing up, started experimenting with other sexes, and enjoying life.

How far into the HRT are you, RedSavage? I actually respect the hell out of you. I dabbled with the idea of going for it multiple times. Kind of wish I had (even though I am 100% aware of how challenging that path can be). :/

 

[Butters Shikkon]

I much prefer sweetness in the bedroom. >.> Sometimes my fiance wants me to be mean...but I just love him too much to be too nasty. I'm all for kisses and "I love you's"