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Renarde

Little Fox
And creativity and conviction as well! Which is simply hard to come by. If that other person isn't INTO it, it falls flat because you can really feel it in the air. Things get awkward as hell.

All of the yes. Mostly, it requires someone to be completely comfortable with their sexuality and so many people are SUPER repressed which makes me sad. It's like a whole world of things that people miss out on because of their sexual hangups.
 

RestlessDreamer

Scary Monster; Super Creep
Again, Butters, that's the way it should be. But sometimes you want to let your freak flag fly and just do something outlandish.

Or so I feel.
 

Butters Shikkon

Patron Saint of Queers
Again, Butters, that's the way it should be. But sometimes you want to let your freak flag fly and just do something outlandish.

Or so I feel.

Oh, I'm not hatin. :V It's just hard for me to humiliate a loved one.
 

RestlessDreamer

Scary Monster; Super Creep
Also, I'm glad to see this thread explode in its moment-to-moment activity. Always nice to know that good-old-fashioned sexual discussion still gets people chatting. ^_^
 

Butters Shikkon

Patron Saint of Queers
Also, I'm glad to see this thread explode in its moment-to-moment activity. Always nice to know that good-old-fashioned sexual discussion still gets people chatting. ^_^

I think some of our visitors are just a little hot and bothered. :V
 

RestlessDreamer

Scary Monster; Super Creep
Oh, I'm not hatin. :V It's just hard for me to humiliate a loved one.

My ex was HUGE into S&M. Choking, leather, what-have-you. Could only climax if she was being controlled. Humiliation is only humiliation if it isn't welcome. Otherwise, it's just an aggressive display of power and ferocious sexuality.

Again, as long as it's welcome and the activity is not conveyed in a way that makes the person feel violated, then S&M can be rather pleasant. The trick to it is never betraying the trust you two have founded.
 

funky3000

Galactic Overlord
@Red High five a brutha! Or, in this case a sista BUT SLANG IS SLANG BRUH. I don't understand it either, but I've liked it since I was a little one. Seriously, if Little Bear was on TV with the episode "Bigger Little Bear" you can sure as hell bet I got a boner. And I wasn't even sexually active or desiring sex back then, obviously, I was just rock-hard attracted to big fuzzy creatures. When I discovered masturbating, I didn't look at porn. I looked at videos of Warcraft, where the player was growing NPCs to ridiculous sizes. (oh murr fuckin drakonids and worgens towering over castles (whoops instaboner)). And that was like 6 or 7 years ago. If I had an estimate I'd guess I've had my pleasure of enjoying a macro pic or vid at least 9-10k times. Hardly anything WASN'T macro, and if that was the case, I pretended it was macro. I used to not care about what gender the subject was either, but lately if I'm not browsing the latest macro art, I'm finding something specific, which typically involves space/female words of any sort. I have never specifically searched for male words.

@Volk Damn that's a good question. I dunno. Maybe wanting macro is like sub, and being macro is like dom. Because clearly, in a fight with a micro VS a macro, who is the most dominant figure. (hint: not Stuart Little) but idk. Lately I'd like to believe it stems from my lust of bigger and bigger tits, but my lack of enjoyment of hyper, so macro pretty much solves that. You can have your tits sized to order, and a body in proportion with them. But that doesn't explain my childhood, nor does it explain my love for even simply seeing massive digitigrade legs (which is why I'm partially into feral if its macro, because I have a soft spot for digitigrade legs), or meaty paws on a city, or agender pictures, whatever other contingencies you can think of. I'm just into it. My only explaination is I was born this was. As cringy as that sounds, as a kid I had no idea sex was even a thing.
 

RedSavage

Rattlesnake Flavored
I was never modest. At least once I got out of my house growing up, started experimenting with other sexes, and enjoying life.
How far into the HRT are you, RedSavage? I actually respect the hell out of you. I dabbled with the idea of going for it multiple times. Kind of wish I had (even though I am 100% aware of how challenging that path can be). :/

I'm about 7 months in! And yeah, it's been difficult. Family more or less denies and ignores it. I'm so far in the closet I can see Narnia. It is extremely difficult. But at the same time? Worth it. It's not a light decision however. Only do so if a happy life without it is completely impossible. Me? I was to the point of hating myself. Repression. Drug, alcohol, and rage addiction. All of it. I'd been confused and conflicted and guilty about it since 12/13, but I'd been in denial about it since I hit 20. I had a breaking point and I realized I would not have a happy life unless I allowed myself to be who I was. To have the body I wanted. So, I pulled strings, got my meds, and here I am 7 months later. Clean, working full time, and with a lot of my demons buried and talked out.

Life is just better, despite the challenges. And if you think you can achieve that then it's the right choice. Also, it helps to loosen one's definition of trans. Transgender does not mean self-hating, cock-mutilation, hormone riddled, surgery chasing entity. It simply means you don't feel like you're entirely the sex you were born. You don't have to take HRT. You don't have to get surgery. I certainly don't plan on doing the latter, and I feel ambiguous about my sexuality and gender a lot of times. I'm an inbetween genderbender supreme with a side of freaky. And I'm happy with that.

All of the yes. Mostly, it requires someone to be completely comfortable with their sexuality and so many people are SUPER repressed which makes me sad. It's like a whole world of things that people miss out on because of their sexual hangups.

No joke. Just... just relax! It's sex! It's fun. It's....also kind of hilarious stuff when you think about the logistics of it! (grunt grunt---sploosh)

I'd make you and then some just for saying that, you little bitch.

I----




-pants- oh my yes

@Red High five a brutha! Or, in this case a sista BUT SLANG IS SLANG BRUH. I don't understand it either, but I've liked it since I was a little one. Seriously, if Little Bear was on TV with the episode "Bigger Little Bear" you can sure as hell bet I got a boner. And I wasn't even sexually active or desiring sex back then, obviously, I was just rock-hard attracted to big fuzzy creatures. When I discovered masturbating, I didn't look at porn. I looked at videos of Warcraft, where the player was growing NPCs to ridiculous sizes. (oh murr fuckin drakonids and worgens towering over castles (whoops instaboner)). And that was like 6 or 7 years ago. If I had an estimate I'd guess I've had my pleasure of enjoying a macro pic or vid at least 9-10k times. Hardly anything WASN'T macro, and if that was the case, I pretended it was macro. I used to not care about what gender the subject was either, but lately if I'm not browsing the latest macro art, I'm finding something specific, which typically involves space/female words of any sort. I have never specifically searched for male words.
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This is FASCINATING. Like from anyone else it'd be weird. But we're on the topic. I know you. And you're being honest and frank and just---wow. Utterly interesting. Thanks for sharing!!!
 
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UrsusArtist

Hurr durr I'm a Big Black Burr
I'm in an open triad, I'm out to everyone about it, even at work (and I teach), and you know what? I'm glad I surround myself with people who see me as the kind of person I am. Covering up sexuality is just so wrong to me...but I'm lucky to be able to be open about who I am.
 

Volkodav

Dad****er
@Volk Damn that's a good question. I dunno. Maybe wanting macro is like sub, and being macro is like dom. Because clearly, in a fight with a micro VS a macro, who is the most dominant figure. (hint: not Stuart Little) but idk. Lately I'd like to believe it stems from my lust of bigger and bigger tits, but my lack of enjoyment of hyper, so macro pretty much solves that. You can have your tits sized to order, and a body in proportion with them. But that doesn't explain my childhood, nor does it explain my love for even simply seeing massive digitigrade legs (which is why I'm partially into feral if its macro, because I have a soft spot for digitigrade legs), or meaty paws on a city, or agender pictures, whatever other contingencies you can think of. I'm just into it. My only explaination is I was born this was. As cringy as that sounds, as a kid I had no idea sex was even a thing.



Hmm that is really interesting, and I believe some fetishes like this really do just crop up when you're young without realising it.

Ever heard of the computer game Black & White?
 

Hewge

Banana Party
Banned
I just hope this thread doesn't get locked like the last one did... and the one before that! And before that.

This is how it starts. Then BAM, Someone confesses to illegal and gr0ss activities. *instalocked*
 

Butters Shikkon

Patron Saint of Queers
Roleplay doesn't necessarily mean humiliation. I've done pet/master play where I was treated really nicely, and that was still definitely hot.

Pet play is hardly hardcore. (I've done it a few times) More cutesy than anything. I'm talking about some serious shit like sounding/other pain play or calling your loved one worthless/trash. You know violent stuff.
 

UrsusArtist

Hurr durr I'm a Big Black Burr
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