Confessions thread

[Ariosto]

The world is small my fuzzy friend. You'll never know that one guy in my network of online husbandos maybe in your area and is willing to share their love

Your 'network of online husbandos'...? That aside, thanks, but no thanks, I'd much rather know the guy from some former interaction before I even think about dating him. I'm not one for 'hooking up' just like that, I like to see there's something else.

 

[Mikazuki Marazhu]

B-but all I want do is to help

*cries in the corner*

 

[Kinharia]

You could do what I do and just not care about sexual interaction at all. Trust me, after accepting asexuality it makes life so much easier as I spent all of my teens feeling angry and annoyed that I never got a date but now I just don't care and my life has improved dramatically. Try it and see if it helps.

 

[Ariosto]

B-but all I want do is to help

*cries in the corner*

Awwww, don't worry like that Marazu, your heart is the right place.

You could do what I do and just not care about sexual interaction at all. Trust me, after accepting asexuality it makes life so much easier as I spent all of my teens feeling angry and annoyed that I never got a date but now I just don't care and my life has improved dramatically. Try it and see if it helps.

I'm not quite annoyed... just a tad frustrated that I have not been able to start anything because of my life's circumstances. My parents want me in the closet and with a girl, so even trying to look for guys is out of the question for now; as a result, everything has stayed at the level of long-distance. Not that I mind inmensely (in fact, a lot of it was wonderful), but I'd like to experience it beyond that. I basically don't have the sexual life I'd want because I'm afraid at my parents' reaction, not because of bad luck in asking guys out.

 

[shteev]

You could do what I do and just not care about sexual interaction at all. Trust me, after accepting asexuality it makes life so much easier as I spent all of my teens feeling angry and annoyed that I never got a date but now I just don't care and my life has improved dramatically. Try it and see if it helps.

That's like saying, "If you're straight and have trouble finding a girlfriend, go gay and find a boyfriend!"

People can't so easily swap their sexuality

And I can say with certainty that I won't become asexual because I don't want the headache, because I would be unhappy leading a life without coupling and companionship and

Well

FUCKIN'

 

[Mikazuki Marazhu]

Asexuality is a lie

 

[Ariosto]

That's like saying, "If you're straight and have trouble finding a girlfriend, go gay and find a boyfriend!"

People can't so easily swap their sexuality

And I can say with certainty that I won't become asexual because I don't want the headache, because I would be unhappy leading a life without coupling and companionship and

Well

FUCKIN'

Aseuxality does not imply lack of companionship or romantic feelings. From what I understand, it just means people don't experience sexual attraction on a primary level (E.G. 'That turns me on!'). They still fall in love, have mates, and consent to sex just to please their partner.

 

[Mikazuki Marazhu]

Aseuxality does not imply lack of companionship or romantic feelings. From what I understand, it just means people don't experience sexual attraction on a primary level (E.G. 'That turns me on!'). They still fall in love, have mates, and consent to sex just to please their partner.

So what if the guy is asexual

How will he get an erection?

Penis pump?

 

[Kinharia]

Aseuxality does not imply lack of companionship or romantic feelings. From what I understand, it just means people don't experience sexual attraction on a primary level (E.G. 'That turns me on!'). They still fall in love, have mates, and consent to sex just to please their partner.

Pretty much this. It also for me means I no longer feel the need to seek out anyone which makes life easier. If someone wanted to be in a relationship with me I'd do the cuddling, whatever to make them happy.

So what if the guy is asexual

How will he get an erection?

Penis pump?

*shrug* got me on that one.

 

[Ariosto]

So what if the guy is asexual

How will he get an erection?

How do I explain this... some might really not be interested and feel it's weird and akward, others may actually pull it off, but only just for the moment and only when their partners asks and they accept.
Am I right, Kinharia?

 

[Kinharia]

A relationship with a guy who is Asexual will be awkward for the other if they want sex seeing as that is the absolute last thing we'd be thinking on. Unless the other person doesn't mind completely ignoring that part of the relationship I believe it -could- work. For me sexual interaction just... it doesn't work out the way it should at all and would leave the other disappointed.

 

[UrsusArtist]

You can love someone and not be sexually intimate with them...but if the asexual person respects the physical needs of their partner, perhaps they should consider if both are emotionally able to handle an open relationship.

 

[Mikazuki Marazhu]

Oh well..

I think I'll be hibernating for a long time. Catch ya'll later

 

[Hewge]

Human sexuality is far too complex for its own good, sometimes!

 

[RedSavage]

Y'all are a bit off base with asexuality. Best I had it described to me, by an asexual friend of mine, is that sex for asexuals is like a different flavor of ice cream. Sure, they can enjoy it. It's ice cream after all. But it's certainly not their FAVORITE flavor in the run of things, but if it's with someone they like they really don't mind. Their favorite flavor of ice cream is more emotional and platonic interactions, and love is certainly included in that mix.

 

[Ariosto]

Y'all are a bit off base with asexuality. Best I had it described to me, by an asexual friend of mine, is that sex for asexuals is like a different flavor of ice cream. Sure, they can enjoy it and all! It's ice cream after all. But it's certainly not their FAVORITE flavor in the run of things, but if it's with someone they like they really don't mind. Their favourite flavor of ice cream is more emotional amd platonic interactions, and love is certainly included in that mix.

Many thanks for the clarification, Red! Quite good to know this side of the matter as well.

 

[Kinharia]

Red I am basing Asexuality off of my own experiences with it. Sex isn't impossible, it is just something that I find revolting ^^

 

[Hewge]

What's revolting about two or more human beings rubbing on each other a whole lot in many different ways, and covering each other in various bodily secretions?

 

[RestlessDreamer]

Morning, world. Glad to see everyone is still talking. ^_^

 

[RedSavage]

Red I am basing Asexuality off of my own experiences with it. Sex isn't impossible, it is just something that I find revolting ^^

Well I meant as a general explanation for people who are at a loss. There's different ranges of asexuality, obviously. I was explaining the simplest version of it is all. I certainly respect your views on it.

Morning, world. Glad to see everyone is still talking. ^_^

Meh. I should be asleep. It's my day off for chrissakes. And yet here I am. Ha

 

[Kinharia]

When you put it in such lovely context how could I ever know

Don't know why but I always found both hetro and gay sex to just be sick. And trying sex out made me feeling "Wait that's it? This wasn't great, it was even okay. It was just meh" Who knows I may try gay sex sometime and see if that works out.

 

[Ariosto]

Meh. I should be asleep. It's my day off for chrissakes. And yet here I am. Ha

With interlocutors and topics such as these, who wants to be asleep?

Also, good morning to you too, Restlessdreamer!

 

[RedSavage]

With interlocutors and topics such as these, who wants to be asleep?

Ha. This gal, who works 14 hour days and gets a meager 6 hours of sleep (or less) 6 days a week before getting her two days off. From 3am to 8pm is usually how my day starts and ends, getting up and falling back down in bed.

 

[RestlessDreamer]

Meh. I should be asleep. It's my day off for chrissakes. And yet here I am. Ha

Eh. Unless you have important errands to run, I always feel that days off were made for wasting however you like. Whether that be social stuff or dicking around.

What do you do for a living, Red? Restaurant?

 

[Ariosto]

Ha. This gal, who works 14 hour days and gets a meager 6 hours of sleep (or less) 6 days a week before getting her two days off. From 3am to 8pm is usually how my day starts and ends, getting up and falling back down in bed.

Hmmmm, I won't dictaminate what you should do, but maybe it's really best if you got some more sleep before getting back.

Just so this does not turn into complete chitchat, I confess I have nothing to confess right now; things are far too entertaining in their current shape!