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Confessions thread

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Volkodav

Volkodav

Dad****er
jtrekkie said:
You didn't but you weren't the only one here. It seems to me that the response those two have gotten is entirely inappropriate. S.ome of the things said to them can cause the same distress that whatever they said did. Just as we don't know them, they don't know us. If a person is intentionally trying to upset someone, that is one thing but neither of them were doing that.
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Okay well I'm not understanding where you're seeing us "tearing into" Sparta. If you would, please provide quotes where you feel we are giving an "entirely inappropriate" response.

"If a person is intentionally trying to upset someone, that is one thing but neither of them were doing that."
Sparta is currently trying to justify knowingly making sexual abuse victims upset by calling it free speech and "casual jokes", and we're just asking him not to.
 
Mr. Sparta

Mr. Sparta

Scale Face
It seems whatever I say now will only make things worse.

If I really am horrible, then this is it.
 
FenrirDarkWolf

FenrirDarkWolf

Trapped in a Lucid Eclipse
Despite the fact I can be a bit suicidal and depressed
I believe in carpe diem. I gotta make the day as full as I possibly can.
Because I don't know when it'll really be my last.
 
Volkodav

Volkodav

Dad****er
FenrirDarkWolf said:
Despite the fact I can be a bit suicidal and depressed
I believe in carpe diem. I gotta make the day as full as I possibly can.
Because I don't know when it'll really be my last.
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I wish I had this sort of mentality. I just... do whatever, every day. I waste the majority of my life.
 
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Maugryph

Member
Pingouin7 said:
You, however, are just a terrible person. (at Mr.Sparta)
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Who do you think you are? When did you become judge and executioner? Mr.Sparta has been a solid member on these forums. I won't lie, I was surprised by his outburst. He doesn't seem like himself. We all have our days. Shouting out childish insults is not cool.
Addon: Pigouin7 Be mature and respond to others in a civil tone, even if you disagree with what somebody says.
 
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FenrirDarkWolf

FenrirDarkWolf

Trapped in a Lucid Eclipse
Volkodav said:
I wish I had this sort of mentality. I just... do whatever, every day. I waste the majority of my life.
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Or well, I try to live to the fullest to the best of my ability.
...Which generally involves wasting my life on my laptop and working with my guard stuff.
 
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Maugryph

Member
FenrirDarkWolf said:
Despite the fact I can be a bit suicidal and depressed
I believe in carpe diem. I gotta make the day as full as I possibly can.
Because I don't know when it'll really be my last.
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carpe diem. Very good attitude with life.

I try to follow that mentality. sometimes I succeed in spades, sometimes I fail miserably.
 
Kinharia

Kinharia

Drunken Irish Snow Leopard
Reading on this thread I have been thinking all morning (its morning for me darn eit!) that yes maybe cheering along a rape joke isn't right, there are certain topics that make me go 'Hrm too far' and maybe I should try and tame my humour a bit. So uh Confession -

I still don't know a lot of acronym's that are used locally, nationally, or on this forum. When I speak in local dialect people think I'm speaking Irish.
 
Butters Shikkon

Butters Shikkon

Patron Saint of Queers
Oh hell.

This boring ass forum gets interesting for one night and it's the one night I say "Eh, fuck it. Nothing happens on there anyway."

Godamnit, Faf...but also, some of ya'll surprised in me in the morals department. Proud of ya'll <3
 
Naesaki

Naesaki

JRPG Fanatic
Forums really do just show how much of a mixed bag we all are, no two one of us are truly alike, we are all unique and different.

When personalities or ideals clash it really can be so explosive. Its never possible to like everyone but it is possible to show always show respect. Obviously if someone does something seriously wrong you chastise them but you don't ever belittle them or treat them like a child.

I've only been on this forum for a short time but I am really feeling more at home as time goes on. I did lurk for a long time before taking the leap though.

Now for something lighthearted! http://www.funnyjunksite.com/pictures/funnypics/animated/funny_animated_picture_68.gif
 
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Volkodav

Volkodav

Dad****er
Pingouin7 said:
Jeez... I'm sorry if you guys think I went too far...
I'm just going to go now...
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I dont think you did and to be honest im a little mad that we can't express our discomfort about this subject material without being considered "going too far" or "tearing into them"
My right to not be triggered into dissociation and PTSD-induced panic attacks trumps free speech on a furry forum i think
 
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Pingouin7

Member
I see where they're coming from, though, and I guess I might have let my emotions speak too loud and I didn't realize I might have been going too far, didn't think I would be getting this much negative criticism for it though...

Just gonna come back in a few hours when I've calmed down I guess...
 
Volkodav

Volkodav

Dad****er
I dont see where anyone is coming from
even my friends wont show me content with moths in it because they know im phobic
 
Kinharia

Kinharia

Drunken Irish Snow Leopard
Well on the plus side. We all have a big red line drawn today I guess. *looks at the red line*
 
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Ariosto

New Member
Well, I'm just glad people are learning from the experience.

Confession: when in the company of large female groups, I tend to identify as 'female'. There's a certain comfort in saying 'us' and feeling like we all belong in the same kind of group. I don't have dysphoria, however, and I'm pretty sure I'm not trans either, and I still identify as 'gay'... uhmmm, this is a little confusing. What's the term for this? 'Genderqueer', perhaps? Or what I am saying does not make sense? Or is it just empathy that I'm somehow magnifying?
Either way, most of my intimate circles in real life have been female, so that may be where it comes from...

@Marazhu: Don't worry, we still like you, and you can still make as many sex jokes as you want and flirt and all (you have friends here, after all, people who like that behaviour from you, and with good reason), just not about what we talked, ok?
 
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AlexInsane

AlexInsane

I does what I says on the box.
Butters Shikkon said:
Godamnit, Faf...but also, some of ya'll surprised in me in the morals department. Proud of ya'll <3
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You can give me my medal right after I push this grandmother into traffic.
 
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Hewge

Banana Party
Banned
I get really confused when people come to me for advice, or help with something. My expression will just be pure "wuht...". Drool and all!
Yet, it seems to happen so very, very often... and the strangest part, is that whatever I do seems to work for them.

Butters Shikkon said:
Oh hell.

This boring ass forum gets interesting for one night and it's the one night I say "Eh, fuck it. Nothing happens on there anyway."

Godamnit, Faf...but also, some of ya'll surprised in me in the morals department. Proud of ya'll <3
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Don't worry! It wasn't as interesting as it seems. Still pretty boring.
 
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