Confessions thread

[Schwimmwagen]

I think we can afford to dedicate one lone topic to not arguing. That doesn't seem like much to ask for. It's not like we're saying "you should never argue on this entire forum, EVER!"

No. It's been proven time and time again, if you put furries in a place where they can do what they want they won't do anything outside of try to molest each other.

 

[Taikugemu]

Hey! What's wrong with a gay orgy?

 

[Deleted member 93706]

Civil argument ~ debate.

Hey! What's wrong with a gay orgy?

It leaves out all the straight people.

 

[Butters Shikkon]

Hey! What's wrong with a gay orgy?

It's more an underage gay orgy we're talking here. Actually, it wasn't an orgy...that would've lasted forever if that ever happened.

 

[Percy-Lyn]

I see you might be confused.

You want a thread where arguments (even civil ones) don't happen. I think the closest thing we ever got to that was a very old mega thread we had that was like a chat thread. Actually sometimes arguments happened on there but they weren't over hot topics which I guess is what you really cannot handle.

Sadly, because the mods don't want a certain incident to occur again we'll never have one again. So please don't try to get people to not discuss things on this discussion forum.

Well, I can't (read: won't) argue with that.

 

[Schwimmwagen]

Hey! What's wrong with a gay orgy?

Well it's not very fun for people to attend a PG-13 forum (with a lot of members under 16/18 ) to find that it's hard to have a conversation without some fat mouthbreather trying to get in your pants. There's too many sites like that already.

 

[Percy-Lyn]

Well it's not very fun for people to attend a PG-13 forum (with a lot of members under 16/18 ) to find that it's hard to have a conversation without some fat mouthbreather trying to get in your pants. There's too many sites like that already.

Including but not limited to FA mainsite, by far.

 

[Butters Shikkon]

Well it's not very fun for people to attend a PG-13 forum (with a lot of members under 16/18 ) to find that it's hard to have a conversation without some fat mouthbreather trying to get in your pants. There's too many sites like that already.

There are sometimes when you say shit that makes my black heart melt. Is that how you got your NY girl? :V

OT: So my brother has been getting physically and emotionally abused by this guy who lives 2 hours from me. He finally got the courage to leave him Monday...but he's there now getting his bed. I think he's gonna cave and go back to him.

I love my brother so very much...and I don't have any power to stop him. We've done everything together for 25 years.

 

[Schwimmwagen]

Including but not limited to FA mainsite, by far.

Yup. This is like the only forum I can think of that isn't part of the Furfriend Fucktrain.

this is a christian board

there are women and children to consider

There are sometimes when you say shit that makes my black heart melt. Is that how you got your NY girl? :V

Goodness no. :n She asked me out! We had been friends for quite a while prior. I felt super surprised when she did the asking, I guess I'm terrible at reading people. I hadn't felt that fluffy since I was a little girl.

OT: So my brother has been getting physically and emotionally abused by this guy who lives 2 hours from me. He finally got the courage to leave him Monday...but he's there now getting his bed. I think he's gonna cave and go back to him.

I love my brother so very much...and I don't have any power to stop him. We've done everything together for 25 years.

My sister is in a similar situation. My entire family is in a constant state of disappointment.

 

[Deleted member 93706]

this is a christian board

ORLY :V

 

[Maugryph]

this is a christian board

Don't say that. you give Volkodav a heart attack.

 

[Deleted member 93706]

I honestly thought that most of us were either agnostic or atheist.

 

[Chuchi]

There are sometimes when you say shit that makes my black heart melt. Is that how you got your NY girl? :V

OT: So my brother has been getting physically and emotionally abused by this guy who lives 2 hours from me. He finally got the courage to leave him Monday...but he's there now getting his bed. I think he's gonna cave and go back to him.

I love my brother so very much...and I don't have any power to stop him. We've done everything together for 25 years.

Oh, Butters, you're a dear, I don't think your heart is black at all. D: But I bet you got a fucking fierce streak when someone genuinely pisses you off.

Sorry to hear about your brother, sometimes all we can do is watch the crash happen and help them out of the wreckage.

OT: Regarding this place, I've been around a fair few forums in my day, and this one is probably the only one that I actually love-hate. I hate it sometimes, another reason I take my little breaks, but I love it and come crawling back. Plus, I have friends here, and it's nice to have those, even if it's only online.

I feel terribly alone and isolated in my real life, though I have friends who will speak English with me. But I feel my lack of fluency in the language is hindering me from really being as outgoing as I normally am. Most of the time, I can appreciate it, because at the core of it, I prefer my privacy and solitude, but every now and again I would enjoy to have coffee or sit and have a chat with someone but I'm all alone.

I have one sided conversations with my dog, because he's the only 'person' around for me to talk to most of the time, when my husband is away at work and my daughter is away at school. To be honest, I've even cried to him about being so lonely, and he just puts his head on my shoulder and lets me cry on him. I wish he could talk.
.____.

Edit: Fml I forgot how to quote ugh

 

[Percy-Lyn]

Agnostic is best pone.

 

[Deleted member 93706]

To be honest, I've even cried to him about being so lonely, and he just puts his head on my shoulder and lets me cry on him. I wish he could talk.
.____.

Agnostic is best pone.

Yep. Agnostic here. I've seen shit that atheists wouldn't believe.

 

[Schwimmwagen]

I honestly thought that most of us were either agnostic or atheist.

Y-you know i was kidding right

I feel terribly alone and isolated in my real life, though I have friends who will speak English with me. But I feel my lack of fluency in the language is hindering me from really being as outgoing as I normally am. Most of the time, I can appreciate it, because at the core of it, I prefer my privacy and solitude, but every now and again I would enjoy to have coffee or sit and have a chat with someone but I'm all alone.

I have one sided conversations with my dog, because he's the only 'person' around for me to talk to most of the time, when my husband is away at work and my daughter is away at school. To be honest, I've even cried to him about being so lonely, and he just puts his head on my shoulder and lets me cry on him. I wish he could talk.
.____.

You're in Finland, I'd say you've done a fine job at integrating into Finnish culture!

 

[Mr. Sparta]

I honestly thought that most of us were either agnostic or atheist.

*puts on fedora

This is an atheist forum now. From now on we're called "neckfurs".

M'lady!

 

[Deleted member 93706]

Y-you know i was kidding right

I had a :V somewhere up there.

 

[Chuchi]

You're in Finland, I'd say you've done a fine job at integrating into Finnish culture!

Yeah... I know. And that's what I tell myself to help me stop feeling so pathetic, that it just means I won't be weirding out the locals with my outgoing American-ness.

 

[Pingouin7]

I guess this ain't the place for me then

 

[Schwimmwagen]

I had a :V somewhere up there.

I consider myself atheist, but I still find religion, spirituality, and superstition fascinating in its own way so I don't usually go around knocking it despite not buying into it at all.

My girlfriend isn't the same, but I did tell her that if were a believer in god, I'd thank him every day for her.

Yeah... I know. And that's what I tell myself to help me stop feeling so pathetic, that it just means I won't be weirding out the locals with my outgoing American-ness.

I wish I knew how to advise you :C but I'm terrible at social situations. wanna trade brains?

 

[Percy-Lyn]

I guess this ain't the place for me then

Please don't leave. We all love you mang.

 

[Butters Shikkon]

My sister is in a similar situation. My entire family is in a constant state of disappointment.

Ikr? Do you ever feel bad for being disappointed? I sometimes do. Like who am I to judge this person...I've never been in a physically abusive relationship.

Oh, Butters, you're a dear, I don't think your heart is black at all. D: But I bet you got a fucking fierce streak when someone genuinely pisses you off.

Sorry to hear about your brother, sometimes all we can do is watch the crash happen and help them out of the wreckage.

OT: Regarding this place, I've been around a fair few forums in my day, and this one is probably the only one that I actually love-hate. I hate it sometimes, another reason I take my little breaks, but I love it and come crawling back. Plus, I have friends here, and it's nice to have those, even if it's only online.

I feel terribly alone and isolated in my real life, though I have friends who will speak English with me. But I feel my lack of fluency in the language is hindering me from really being as outgoing as I normally am. Most of the time, I can appreciate it, because at the core of it, I prefer my privacy and solitude, but every now and again I would enjoy to have coffee or sit and have a chat with someone but I'm all alone.

I have one sided conversations with my dog, because he's the only 'person' around for me to talk to most of the time, when my husband is away at work and my daughter is away at school. To be honest, I've even cried to him about being so lonely, and he just puts his head on my shoulder and lets me cry on him. I wish he could talk.
.____.

Edit: Fml I forgot how to quote ugh

First off: <3 you girl.

Secondly. You are exactly right about my bro (same advice my father gave me) but it's just so scary. I dunno.

Third: I'm so sorry you are so isolated. It really hits me hard cuz that's what my bro felt since he has no friends where his ex lives. But you cannot even attempt to be outgoing due to this language barrier...would he...consider moving? (Does he have your...what was it? The finnish word for "courage'?)

My heart goes out to you, Chuchi. You deserve a life of happiness.

 

[Schwimmwagen]

Ikr? Do you ever feel bad for being disappointed? I sometimes do. Like who am I to judge this person...I've never been in a physically abusive relationship.

I do, yes... I think it's all because of her self-esteem. They already "split up" many times but they get back together again, even though they have literally no way of interfering with each others lives if they did split up for good. It's a relationship with some distance involved.

 

[Chuchi]

First off: <3 you girl.

Secondly. You are exactly right about my bro (same advice my father gave me) but it's just so scary. I dunno.

Third: I'm so sorry you are so isolated. It really hits me hard cuz that's what my bro felt since he has no friends where his ex lives. But you cannot even attempt to be outgoing due to this language barrier...would he...consider moving? (Does he have your...what was it? The finnish word for "courage'?)

My heart goes out to you, Chuchi. You deserve a life of happiness.

♥

I had to watch my youngest sister just crash and burn. I tried everything to help her, I pulled strings to get her out of trouble with her drug problems, but in the end she always threw it in my face and told me to fuck off, that my being a cop didn't entitle me to 'police the family' which she was right to say, but I just wanted to save her from herself. In the end, when I left the US, she showed up that day and we wished each other luck, but I know she doesn't miss me constantly grilling her about her activities, her friends, etc.

I'd hate for it to happen that way, but maybe it will take your brother another round of bullshit to finally truly break away. When I was with the biological father of my daughter, my high school sweetheart as it were, it took me a few years of the cycle of lies, bullshit and heartache before I finally just gave in and gave up. And that was kind of eye opening for me, after it was said and done, to have so many of my friends and family tell me 'We tried to help you, but you wouldn't listen.' So, all they could do was sit back and watch the crash, and help me out of the wreckage. I sincerely hope he gets out, sooner rather than later, because the surface scars my life has left me have all healed, but the ones that go unseen still weep within me, and your brother may end up with much the same.

As far as my predicament goes, I knew this would happen. The original plan between my husband and I was that he would be moving to the United States to live with me, but in the end I changed the plans because I wanted a better future for my daughter. My isolation is a small price to pay to have her growing up in a country that nurtures independence from a young age, has arguably the best education system in the world, with the rest of Europe and the world at her doorstep should she decide to experience more of life when she comes of age. In time, I will learn more of the language and overcome my problems. I do considerably better when intoxicated, so I really have integrated with Finnish society. :u

Thank you very much for your kind words, Butters. See, you don't have a black heart at all. ♥