I want to look good to make myself happy, not just to attract a partner. Some people like my body type, but if I don't like it, it doesn't mean that much to me. Confession: The main reason I want to lose weight is so that I can look good while crossdressing. Right now when I look in the mirror and I picture it, it kinda turns me off.
Hey----curves in all the right places make for a bodacious chick figure. Source: hormones I've been taking along with weight gain from having quit drugs. A strange combination, I know, but its somewhat fascinating.
OT: I wish more artists would omit the word "shemale" and "herm" and use the term "transgender" or "trans" or "intersex" for their art. I mean---honestly it doesn't bother me. It doesn't enrage me. But....fantasy or not (which is the foremost defense for the usage of this word) "shemale" is still derogatory.
I guess it doesn't really bother me that much at all, since I'll never personally tag my own art as such, but it still kinda bugs me, I confess.