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Kosdu

Kosdu

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I confess I've had a problem where if I masturbate like at 70% of times during the day, especially morning, it screws with my head really bad and ruins my day.

Also, pretty sure funky is like a damn jizz machine
 
Ieono

Ieono

Uberaffe
I try not to do that, because in truth, it is unhealthy. Every time you waste your seed, you are committing spiritual suicide.
 
Ieono

Ieono

Uberaffe
funky3000 said:
I guess I kill myself about 5-10 times a day then. Or more. Depends how boring everything is.
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Oh my...such a waste. Imagine all those nutrients just discarded....
 
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Amiir

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I don't know what's what anymore after speaking to my psychiatrist. Have you people ever been told that your homosexuality is just a façade to feel discriminated? That homophobia does not actually exist? That you're not actually gay but just want to seem different? That the need to have people know that you're gay is just a way to make others see you as different?
Who knows, maybe he's right... maybe I just want to be different and don't want to compete with other men because I feel weak or whatever... ugh, it's frustrating.
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What a load of shit. Don't listen to him. Guy's a filthy shrink. Hell I'd be enraged if I had to pay to hear his crap.
Other than saying that homophobia doesn't exist is bullocks, I don't think that any sane person would ever choose to be gay just so that they could be different. If I could I'd choose to be straight like every normal person but unfortunately I cannot so I might as well get used to it. I feel that sticking with people that are like me could help me accept myself, so here I am. Only we as a whole can help each other on this whole gay matter, I feel. This shrink instead? I don't see him being of any help
 
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WolfNightV4X1

WolfNightV4X1

King of Kawaii; That Token Femboy
...yeah actually I was kind of wondering the same. I feel like people will tell me I'm /choosing/ to feel transgender because I want to feel special and different. I'm kind of confused myself but I dont know why I wouldnt be, why would I really want to be something I'm not? I must be at least somewhat transgender if I feel I might be?

It doesnt make sense when people say "It's just a phase", "You're not really that way", etc.
 
Shadow Jaeger

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set phasers to thrust
WolfNightV4X1 said:
...yeah actually I was kind of wondering the same. I feel like people will tell me I'm /choosing/ to feel transgender because I want to feel special and different. I'm kind of confused myself but I dont know why I wouldnt be, why would I really want to be something I'm not? I must be at least somewhat transgender if I feel I might be?

It doesnt make sense when people say "It's just a phase", "You're not really that way", etc.
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Look in the end, its your life. If you want to be a different gender then its your choice and decision.
Personally i really like you as a tomboyish girl that you are but like everything else i would respect you for making whatever choice you make. In the end, i hope your confusion passes and you know who you want to be in life.

#IWishIHadBoobsForFiveMinutes
 
Spatel

Spatel

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Ariosto said:
I don't know what's what anymore after speaking to my psychiatrist. Have you people ever been told that your homosexuality is just a façade to feel discriminated? That homophobia does not actually exist? That you're not actually gay but just want to seem different? That the need to have people know that you're gay is just a way to make others see you as different?
Who knows, maybe he's right... maybe I just want to be different and don't want to compete with other men because I feel weak or whatever... ugh, it's frustrating.
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If you've felt crushes on men, if you've been enamored by them, and you consider those feelings an important part of your life... take a step back and realize those were real feelings. It doesn't really matter what mechanism in your brain caused those feelings to occur. If it's capable of having those feelings then that's what matters. Sexuality doesn't work the same way for everyone. I was skeptical about my own bisexuality for many years, using that exact line of reasoning your psych used. It took a long time before my brain was able to figure out that crushes that I felt could not be illusions, even if they came and went.

Your emotional state has a large influence on what you see every day, what you find attractive. It's amazingly powerful, and doubt can be the most powerful blindfold of all on your true feelings. Now I realize that I actually have a far deeper insight into my own sexuality than most people do. Which is part of why I try to help people out who are having trouble with it. You always hear the usual stories about kids coming out when it's super easy and obvious but for many people it's not easy or obvious and those aren't the stories you hear about, so people who experience that feel like there's something wrong with them.
 
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Ariosto

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@Spatel, Amiir, and everyone else who commented: I've thought it over before and I don't think I've got any doubts in my decission, I just think I'll keep it hidden and to myself from now on.
 
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Atemis

Atemis

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Ariosto said:
@Spatel, Amiir, and everyone else who commented: I've thought it over and I don't think I've got any doubts in my decission, I just think I'll keep it hidden and to myself from now on.
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The Man In the Glass said:
When you get what you want in your struggle for self
And the world makes you king for a day
Just go to the mirror and look at yourself
And see what that man has to say.


For it isn’t your father, or mother, or wife
Whose judgment upon you must pass
The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the one staring back from the glass.


He’s the fellow to please – never mind all the rest
For he’s with you, clear to the end
And you’ve passed your most difficult, dangerous test
If the man in the glass is your friend.


You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years
And get pats on the back as you pass
But your final reward will be heartache and tears
If you’ve cheated the man in the glass.
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Do live the way that makes you happy.

Also may I just confess that I am fucking awesome, it's not subjective, it's a fact and no matter what my outlook may be tomorrow, or a week from now, or even ten years from now, nothing will change that.
 
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Ariosto

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I confess I feel a little embarrased getting so much attention... well, I suppose I brought it upon myself... >.<
Thanks everyone, thank you indeed.

Geez, I even feel embarrased for saying thanks...
 
Ieono

Ieono

Uberaffe
That's right. Just have confidence in yourself, so that nothing will make you feel less than what you are. Confidence is the greatest thing a human being can possess. It's the difference between a man acting as a worm, and a man acting as a superhero.
 
Atemis

Atemis

Member
Ieono said:
That's right. Just have confidence in yourself, so that nothing will make you feel less than what you are. Confidence is the greatest thing a human being can possess. It's the difference between a man acting as a worm, and a man acting as a superhero.
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Idontrememberlol said:
confidence is not "they will love me," it is "it doesn't matter if they love me."
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Amiir

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Ieono said:
That's right. Just have confidence in yourself, so that nothing will make you feel less than what you are. Confidence is the greatest thing a human being can possess. It's the difference between a man acting as a worm, and a man acting as a superhero.
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Hell yeah
 
WolfNightV4X1

WolfNightV4X1

King of Kawaii; That Token Femboy
Well I confess I have more self confidence than in the past.

A lot of that change was because I started standing up for defining myself how I wanted to and changing my self image, despite how some people wanted to force me to be.

I'm still a work in progress, and Im not totally sure what will make me very happy. Maybe I shouldnt put so much effort in self image and defining characteristics but it feels right to make myself the way I want.
 
Ieono

Ieono

Uberaffe
Bayonetta is my role model. I wish I could arch my back like she can.
 
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