Confused: Gay, Straight or Bi-?
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Hollow-Dragon
*huggles meh tail* :3
That's what I think too. I mean, at school, on TV and other places, I just can't stand topics about sex. Still, when it comes to anthros, I'm attracted to the males, but then again, it's not real. So I guess I am asexual. But what I can't deal with is the horrible thought of going through life without anyone for myself. So then what? This is the part where I'm pretty much at a dead end right now.
Uro
Bringing reality here since 08
Heres how my timeline goes...
8 months ago - straight no debate.
5 months ago - bi-curious
3 months ago - bi
now - girls:------x--:guys, maybe I just don't want to admit to myself that I might be gay when I've been certain I was straight for so long... Oh and the bomb I would drop on my parents when their (for lack of a better word) 'All-American son' tells them he is gay...
8 months ago - straight no debate.
5 months ago - bi-curious
3 months ago - bi
now - girls:------x--:guys, maybe I just don't want to admit to myself that I might be gay when I've been certain I was straight for so long... Oh and the bomb I would drop on my parents when their (for lack of a better word) 'All-American son' tells them he is gay...
Enigmaticat
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Gotiki
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Well, I sort of consider love and sex separate. You could still find someone you love, without being sexually attracted to them. They might get a bit frustrated at not having sex, though.
Hollow-Dragon
*huggles meh tail* :3
I guess that could happen, but I still find that idea really vague to me...
Uro
Bringing reality here since 08
Lol, that was my avi from when I played SL.
evilteddybear
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I have mostly avoided confusion by saying I'm pansexual. In all truth, I am pretty much whatever the hell I want to be at the time. I could even "choose" to be asexual, but I don't see the fun in that. Life is too short not to have sex. And I am an ACTUAL pansexual, since I would definitely love anything that I happened to love. Generally that means it has to be smart, since I like smart people, but that doesn't at least rule out dolphins and what people like to call imaginary friends. Not to mention the fact that I see nothing wrong with having multiple mates as long as they don't mind it. Nor do I see sex as specifically romantic, though (like anything) it can be. *shrugs* There were lots of other things. I wonder what they were? I got distracted while writing.
Anyway, I'm pansexual. I don't care the gender, the species, anything. So long as it meets my standards for intellect, appearance, and personality, and I love it, I will call it my mate. With its consent.
Anyway, I'm pansexual. I don't care the gender, the species, anything. So long as it meets my standards for intellect, appearance, and personality, and I love it, I will call it my mate. With its consent.
Uro
Bringing reality here since 08
Probably one thing I won't ever tell them. Not sure where I'm going to keep my fursuit when it gets done though haha. If they found it I'd probably die irl. Hopefully I'll be able to get an apartment next year at college :S.
And I think that the "I'm going to a concert" excuse is going to get worn out whenever I want to go to a con lol...
evilteddybear
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NekoFox08
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as for my sexuality, I'm sure any one of these fine furs here could easily tell you that one...
anyway, I'm thinking, if you're bi curious, you're bi period... until you're 100% sure you only find females attractive, but the fact that you even questioned your sexuality, still leaves the "bi" option open your entire life... that's my opinion
anyway, I'm thinking, if you're bi curious, you're bi period... until you're 100% sure you only find females attractive, but the fact that you even questioned your sexuality, still leaves the "bi" option open your entire life... that's my opinion
I've seen that full pic... are you sure you're straight? lol, jk
if I had a nickel for every time I've heard that
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Trpdwarf
Lurking in Castle Moats
Hmmm....Interesting thread. I used to fall under the area of confused. Confused because people talk so much about this drive that they have. I don't have that drive. No matter what I cannot look at a person and be sexually driven to like them, or to what to fornicate with them.
So I went to a doctor about it, and basically found out that what ever is responsible for the drive existing, it's either gone or doesn't work in my body. So I have come to accept the term Asexual, and I think I recall someone in a later post saying "I could choose to be Asexual" but the reality of it is you do not choose to be that way.
You can choose to be celibate and that is different.
Another person brought up how it might be annoying for two people to be in love but to not have sex. I would imagine it only to be difficult if one of them wants it but cannot get it from their partner. Asexual couples do exist, and they find ways to express their love for each other while not include anything sexual since both lack the drive necessary.
In the end, what you are, I guess that comes down to what you are attracted to, and that is all I can say. I don't have the ability to be attracted so I try not to say too much lest what I am get in the way of making an accurate judgment.
So I went to a doctor about it, and basically found out that what ever is responsible for the drive existing, it's either gone or doesn't work in my body. So I have come to accept the term Asexual, and I think I recall someone in a later post saying "I could choose to be Asexual" but the reality of it is you do not choose to be that way.
You can choose to be celibate and that is different.
Another person brought up how it might be annoying for two people to be in love but to not have sex. I would imagine it only to be difficult if one of them wants it but cannot get it from their partner. Asexual couples do exist, and they find ways to express their love for each other while not include anything sexual since both lack the drive necessary.
In the end, what you are, I guess that comes down to what you are attracted to, and that is all I can say. I don't have the ability to be attracted so I try not to say too much lest what I am get in the way of making an accurate judgment.
Gotiki
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What.
Gotiki
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Actually, I meant a couple in which one person was asexual and the other was not. Only one of the persons would be frustrated or annoyed. Obviously the other wouldn't mind it.
Skullmiser
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I will speak for Nekofox08...
Ryan is homophobic but loves Star Trek.
I've shown him the episodes that relate to not being straight, but he is still closed minded..
http://forums.furaffinity.net/showthread.php?p=625407#post625407
http://forums.furaffinity.net/showthread.php?p=625695#post625695
NekoFox08
Lux Aeterna
sry to hear that buddy
and on this note, might I add, I find (this might annoy some people) yiff to be more... exhilarating than regular human pornography/sexual encounters... I dunno, weird, but it's just me 0_o
NekoFox08
Lux Aeterna
because I could care less about star trek... and seriously, you're not helping the fact that you love to stalk me or something... please, for all that is mighty, please oh please, get away from me, and stay away from me... or at least, stop taking everything I say and turning it into world war
think about this one... you're calling me close minded simply because I don't like startrek... find anything wrong with that?
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AlexInsane
I does what I says on the box.
I'm an androgenous genderqueerfuck two-spirited muxe sworn-virgin eunuch with just a touch of cinnamon and AIDS.
Gavrill
ladies~
You got the first adjective right, mah boi.
Trpdwarf
Lurking in Castle Moats
I've always wondered if relationships like that can really work out. For some people that aspect of a relationship (sex) is very important. I've never really heard much about these kinds of relationships happening so I don't know.
I tend to say that people should not have to change who the are in order to be happy with another person. So personally I am slightly against the idea of the kind of pairing mentioned because, essentially, don't you end up with one of them having to change an aspect about them?
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