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sum_kuul_duud

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no im not dating anyone yet and also i talked to a kid from las vegas he said that everyone there starts to date at 12 o.o xD thats so young though what if somebody has a baby!
 

~secret~

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no im not dating anyone yet and also i talked to a kid from las vegas he said that everyone there starts to date at 12 o.o xD thats so young though what if somebody has a baby!

Children having children?

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Greyscale

New Member
My brother is 11 and still comes off more intelligent then this guy. :|

1) Grow up a bit, don't rush into becoming an 'adult'
2) Get off the internet and go outside and play, seriously, its good for you.
 

sum_kuul_duud

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im not trying to grow up too quick i just want to be ready for the future :3 and i go outside a lot im only on here sometimes i dont think all furries are bad just some also dreaming are you asexual?
 

BRN

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What do you mean by "some also dreaming are you asexual"?

Hope this helps:
I'm not trying to grow up too quick - i just want to be ready for the future :3

I go outside a lot, I'm only on here sometimes!

I dont think all furries are bad; just some.

Also, Dreaming, are you asexual?


OP, grammar's important. Hard to understand you otherwise. ;o
 

Fiesta_Jack

Calix Meus Inebrians
I dated a furry for about 2 weeks. It was awful. He was awkward as fuck, and he confessed to having a fantasy of being mounted by a husky. I dumped him right afterward.

Will not repeat.
 

Sevipervert

Ding a dang dong
Considering the boyfriend I date was a furry before me as well as the girlfriend, I can safely say that it's easier to find things less fandom related to connect with. Date people for more generic hobbies, before delving into the specifics. More often than not, it's easier and then when it comes time to the specific stuff, it'll be easier to bounce from if they clash.
 

Springdragon

Active Member
Once you hit a certain age, it's really hard to meet people to date. You're basically limited to people to whom your pre-existing friends introduce you, people you meet at work (generally a bad idea unless you are a public school teacher), and new people that you meet during a hobby. If you are a furry, chances are your pre-existing friends will also be furries and the people that you meet doing a hobby will be furries. That's why furries end up with furries, not just as romantic partners, but also as roommates and general social groups.

There's no particular reason for dating or not dating furries, it's just statistically how it works. My suggestion: keep your head on work and away from romance until you're at least partway through Uni.
 

Flippy

Party Cat
im not trying to grow up too quick i just want to be ready for the future :3 and i go outside a lot im only on here sometimes i dont think all furries are bad just some also dreaming are you asexual?
No, but I was asexual for most of my young life. I'm glad I was because by the time I got out of high school the people there turned each other into a cesspool of STDs. I dated when I was in 10th grade & it was horrible. I found a boyfriend outside of school through a hobby toward the end of 12th grade & have been dating him for close to a decade. We share some of the same interests but it's a good learning experience when we don't know what the other person is referencing. I don't think my boyfriend will ever be interested in anthropomorphic stuff since apparently sonic porn killed the happy thoughts of his childhood. It's good to withhold some secrets though from a loved one. It keeps things mysterious.

Anyway my words of wisdom are to wait to date till your older. When you are older then date someone that you can make a connection to. Hobbies help make this connection but aren't the end all decision in making it.
 

Fenrari

Prince of Wolves
There's no guarantee that dating a furry will make your life all the better or perfect.

At the end of the day, furries are people too. Capable of flaws, capable of being douchebags, and just as likely to use you as anyone else.

imho you're a bit young to be worrying about relationships. Live a little first, let them happen and if you happen to find someone in the fandom who fits your tastes. Go for it then. If not; well there's always more fish in the sea.
 

Kitutal

cute newbie kitten
statistically something like 72% of furries are in a relationship with another furry. the reasons for this are because it's a lot easier for us to meet each other given that we go to the same places and live on the same websites, and because we're rather more likely to accept that little odd thing about each other. Some furries are a bit weird, but they can quite easily pair up together and leave the rest of us alone, there are a lot of nice, decent people here, in a wide variety, same as you might find anywhere else, just gathered a little closer together and a little more open about some things with each other. So, just date someone you like, enjoy doing things with and get on well with, and you never know, you might even convince them to join too, it has been done quite a few times.
 
I've dated furries before, and overall I have found it to be a pleasant experience... To be able to bond with someone over your furry thoughts and desires during intimate moments and such is awesome! I have a furry girlfriend currently.

Having said that, I don't exactly look to date furries just because they are furries. If it happens, and we develop feelings for eachother, that's fine, but them being a furry is just a commonality between us first and foremost, not specifically something I look for in a partner...

In my experiences being with a furry is just like being with a non furry... Only you talk openly about furry related things and so on...

Of course, there are always going to be some weirdos and freaks out there, whether furry or not... Furries, like everyone else, come from all walks of life...
 

waterwolf23

New Member
It's just a plus when a person has the same interest,my ex didn't really like furries because of CSI however,that changed and we would draw silly furry comics,plus that was one thing find more interest you'd be surprised what people like.
 

Cressie

New Member
Try dating both. With furs, it's easy to talk about sexual matters if you have any to talk about relating to the fandom. You don't have to keep it buried.

But in order to get good at dating, you need to go on as many dates as you can with different people. Just like practicing drawing, you get better at it the more you do it.

It's been a while since I dated a fur myself. I do miss it. The one that what bothered me was the un-athleticicsm; I like to jog and noting being able to keep-up is mood-killing.
 
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