@charrio: I lead because I'm bigger and sit higher up than they do. o - o But they also know that they can't get away with misbehaviour with me. (Such as finding/stealing/tearing open the treats and then eating ALL of them. That I don't allow.) I try to spoil them with toys over food. . -. Shadow's too fat for her own good, and she needs to lose a few pounds.. She's been on a diet though. And she does play. She just got a new toy the other day, AND I've given her a bunch of water jug rings too..which she promptly hides in random places. ^- ^ Morning knows I'm the boss, but she's second in command, and normally is the boss of everyone else. Though she's wimpy and let's everyone else have her dindin if I don't defend her place for her. Then we have the two boys, Clover and Silver. Clover's a giant buddy, he's black and fluffy, and his tail is super long. ^u^ And Silver is tiny tiny. We got Shadow, Clover, and Silver from the same place, they're siblings. And.. They tried to keep Silver, but they ended up almost killing him, they didn't feed him and didn't give him a litter dish, and they had a million other cats. So he's our tiny little dude. ^ u^