Figment of your Imagination
That would be /your/ idea of clean, you see - not his. Pushing your views on things onto somebody else gets you ignored on a genetic level, especially if you're being rude and abrasive.
It is you who need that apartment clean, not him; he's fine with how it is. You can compromise but that implies both sides win some lose some; you can no longer have your "I want you to do this my way" attitude.
That would be MOST peoples idea of clean. Just because one out of ten people is a lazy f@%$ doesn't mean its acceptable.