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I feel incredible, says pregnant man

Rilvor

Formal when angry
phoxxz said:
Rilvor said:
The fuck??!?
THE FUCK?!?!
[size=x-large] THE FUCK!?!??[/size]
..th...that picture...
why god why...

Wow it is a rarity to see Rilvor's mind break like that XD

The picture was a mind-fuck :( bricks were shat
 

Bokracroc

Bokra, come out to pla-ay
phoxxz said:
And I dont think this is entirely true. I mean if this dude(I use this term ambiguously) has been taking hormones like most transexuals do, then theres no way his uterus (god that sounds weird. His Uterus....) could have held onto and continue to nurture a child. He'd have to resume regular female hormones, wouldn't he? And then his MALE appearance would fade to female. I mean I'm no OB/GYN but I do have lady parts. And I've had issues with mine. To my knowledge if you don't have normal levels of estrogen/progesterone then NO BABIEZ.

According to the story:
"I stopped taking my bimonthly testosterone injections. It had been roughly eight years since I had my last menstrual cycle, so this wasn’t a decision that I took lightly," Mr Beatie said.

"My body regulated itself after about four months, and I didn’t have to take any exogenous estrogen, progesterone, or fertility drugs to aid my pregnancy."

This is Mr Beatie's second pregnancy. The first was an ectopic pregnancy with triplets.

Also, the page updates every now and then. It's also linked this
 

eternal_flare

voice of guilmon!
wait wait, did my reading skipped something.
I can't find who is the father of the daughter in her belly.
 

Magica

Fatty Furfag Weeaboo
Seratuhl said:
XD EPIC WTF
The only male pregnancy stories I knew came from the Alien films.

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ramsay_baggins

WINTERFELL!
It was on the news today over here and apparently it's a hoax, I'm not quite sure. To be honest, that picture didn't really freak me out that much. I've seen many more disturbing things than that. However, I must say that I would class "him" as a "her". Chromosomes determine your sex.
 

Surgat

Where is your mod now?
Roose Hurro said:
Surgat said:
Rilvor said:
If your DNA ( I think thats the right thing...I never was much into this sort of thing) says you are female...then you are. No amount of outer conditioning will ever change that...you can do nothing more than fool yourself. Maybe not a bad thing, but in some strange way, it is literally living a lie?

"Male" and "female" are biological categories, not genders. Gender is a category used in anthropology and sociology. Genders are social constructs, and their content and number varies from culture to culture. Gender is simply the set of behaviors typically attributed to, and maybe thought appropriate for one sex in a culture.

Some cultures, like India of the Navajo before European influence, had three genders: male, female, and something inbetween like the Hirja, or a gender for the intrasexed. In some cultures, physical labor is considered "unmanly," in ours it's the opposite, different cultures have different jobs or tasks different genders are supposed to do, etc. None of this is necessary in virtue of people's sex alone. In some cultures, it was considered okay for a male to take on women's gender, and perform those tasks, just as long as their partner took on the male one.

Biology has three different categories of sex. There's chromosomal sex, which is determined by what set of chromosomes you have (XX, XY, XYY, XXY, XXYY, etc.), gonadal sex, which is determined by what set of gonads you have, and hormonal sex. These don't all have to match up; there are people who were born with female genitalia, produce female hormones, and have XY chromosomes, people with XX chromosomes and male genitalia and hormones, and other variations.

A pre-op transgendered person on hormone replacement therapy would have a hormonal sex that doesn't match their gonadal or chromosomal, in addition to having begun behaving more in line with the gender more suitable to them. A post op transsexual would sort of have switched gonadal sex - you wouldn't say that someone who's had extensive reconstruction on their genitals as a result of an accident or disease, was no longer the sex they were born as.

As you yourself have noted, anything other than XX or XY is a "syndrome"... a disease or condition, not the normal biological state of a human being. No, I would not say that someone who's had extensive reconstruction on their genitals as a result of an accident or disease was no longer the sex they were born as. That's exactly my point: Whether by accident, disease, or voluntary choice, it does not change the sex they were born as. However, I fully realize, with all the possible syndromes, it can be difficult to determine a person's gender. Also however, a person who is not born with any of these syndromes... someone who is born unmistakeably [sic] male or female... there is no confusion.

I don’t see how the fact that these syndromes are atypical changes anything. The fact is, as those examples prove, your chromosomal sex doesn’t have to match up with your gonadal and hormonal sex. That’s because, like I said, biology has three different sex categories.

As to the reconstruction bit, you’ve missed the point.

Most people, like yourself as indicated in a later post, go on phonotypical traits –gonads- in classifying someone as a certain sex. If you actually decided that chromosomal sex was the “one true sexual classification” for whatever reason [whim], you would have to refer to everybody in the gender-neutral third person singular, “they” until they’ve had their karyotype tested, instead of “he” or “she.” You wouldn’t know if you were male or not. However, you classify yourself as male, and refer to other people as “he” or “she” without this information, so you haven’t actually decided that chromosomal sex was the “one true sex.”

As to gonadal sex, it obviously doesn’t matter too much for the purposes of classification if they are artificial, and thus it can sort of be changed. Someone with a reconstructed, mostly artificial cock is male in this sense; someone with an artificial vagina is female (sort of, in this sense).

Roose Hurro said:
Surgat said:
Roose Hurro said:
Ceceil Felias said:
And Roose Hurro wins the epic fail award of the year.

While the article doesn't really seem that bad at all, I'll have to agree with Rilvor that the image included is, well... mindscarring. D: Then again I've always hated MPreg in a fictional context, and I've always been the first one to get the torches and pitchforks at the sight of it without a proper explanation to satisfy the basic rules of biology.

Actually, no, I don't "epic fail"... as I said, no amount of surgery will change the fact a person is either male or female, a fact that is clearly set in chromosomal DNA. Two of those chromosomes determine a person's sex/gender... one X and one Y for a man, and two Xs for a woman. No amount of surgery changes that, it only turns the truth into a lie.

As for a proper explaination, that's easy... this is simply a woman who wears her hair short, takes hormones, and had her breasts hacked off. That satisfy the "basic rules of biology"...? SHE, not HE!

Roose Hurro said:
capthavoc123 said:
Roose Hurro said:
DragonMagica said:
He's still biologically female so........ what the hell? o____O

She, not "he"... no amount of surgery will ever change a person's true gender.

"Gender" is a social construct. You mean no amount of surgery will ever change a person's true sex.

Sex... gender... two words for the same thing, far as I'm concerned. Even though Webster's defines gender as: "The classification by which words are grouped as masculine, feminine, or neuter." And defines sex as: "1. Either of the two divisions of organisms distinguished as male and female... 2. The character of being male or female."

Eh... the proper word would be "sex", by definition. But you already made the translation, so it makes no real difference. Socially speaking, sex and gender are interchangeable. Unless you want to poke at semantics. Besides, neither a person's true gender nor their sex can be changed by surgery, no matter how much you twist the words....

My reply to Rilvor deals with most of this.

Aside from that, you’re just arguing semantics. Call whatever anthropology and sociology call “gender” and whatever biology calls “sex” whatever you want, that doesn’t really matter since it’s just convention. However, it doesn’t make what they’re referring to go away or become the same thing, any more than calling both cats and dogs "cats" makes everything you call a "cat" sleep 14 hours a day.

Also:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex#Conditions
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/XX_male_syndrome
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swyer_syndrome
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Klinefelter%27s_Syndrome
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Turner_syndrome
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/XYY_syndrome
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triple-X_syndrome

And yes, you do "epic fail," about as much as it's possible to do so.

I'm not arguing semantics so much as I am simply dismissing them... they're not important. Like you said, yourself, it's just convention. …

By the way, your comparison fails. I'm certainly not going to call a dog a cat, when I know it's a dog. Mayhaps you could clarify the sense in what you wrote?

You’re missing the point again.

People’s concepts of “man,” “manliness,” “masculinity,” “woman,” “femininity,” etc. are what anthropology and sociology call “gender,” and they distinguish them from “sex,” because one is a social construct, and the other is a biological trait. “Femininity” to some people implies physical labor, or dresses, but “female” is to everyone “unless sterilized produces eggs, able to give birth; less testosterone, more estrogen,” and stuff like that.

A ftm would be a “man” in terms of gender, as science uses the term. Saying that you’ll use the terms “sex” and “gender” in the same way however, doesn’t make biological maleness and masculinity/manhood, the social construct, the same thing.

It makes about as much sense as calling dolphins and whales “fish.” You could make the exact same argument you’re making here for calling “sex” both “sex” and “gender” as for calling every aquatic life form as a fish, and it would make just as much sense.

“Socially speaking, ‘fish’ and ‘swims in the ocean’ are interchangeable. Swims in the ocean = fish, lives on land = not a fish. There are no true amphibians, just reptiles that live part of their lives in water. They’re not ‘real amphibians’ they’re just older than ordinary reptiles and so less advanced. Science might distinguish between ‘land mammal,’ ‘aquatic mammal,’ and ‘fish,’ but I don’t; I’m just dismissing the distinction. Therefore dolphins and whales are fish. If something lives in the water for most of its life, I won't buy into The Lie that it's a mammal and will refer to it as a fish.”


Roose Hurro said:
Surgat said:
Roose Hurro said:
Yes, you are right... this is simply a mutilated woman who got pregnant, not a man. Unfortunately (at least from your viewpoint), your hope for a male born able to "get pregnant" is pure fantasy. Even human "hermaphrodites" aren't real herms, simply men or women suffering from a rare birth defect, in many (if not all) cases, correctable by surgery, if performed early enough (at least for the males... for the females, early correction is not as vital).

By your earlier definition, many hermaphrodites are true hermaphrodites. There’s more combinations of chromosomes than XX and XY.

Surgery on intrasexed infants can have devastating effects. Unless it’s necessary for some reason, like a urological reason or something, it’s best to wait to find out what they want to be, so that you don’t pick the wrong sex to reconstruct them as.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6994580/

And it isn’t “mutilation,” it’s recognized in psychology as the standard treatment for gender dysphoria.

Afraid not... true hermaphrodites are both male and female, and are capable of procreation. Unless you can provide proof of a human born with both male and female organs, capable of self impregnation or the ability to be both a father and a mother, in the full sense of male and female... no, it doesn't jive. Most, if not all individuals with such chromosomal abnormalities, tend to be sterile. Also, it's not a matter of waiting long enough for an individual to grow to a level of choice, if... by doing so... it risks their future health. If you have a child born that looks female on the outside, but is both chromosomally and hormonally and in every other way male, failure to correct the defect quickly will result in atrophy of the testicles, due to heat exposure within the body cavity, and possible future cancer risks. I have heard of this scenario... it's been a while ago, but a baby boy was born (he's an adult, now), who had this condition. His parents, while he was still an infant, chose to have his defect corrected, not only so their SON could live a normal life, without ridicule or stigma, but so they could be grandparents. Wish I remembered where I read this story, so I could provide the link.

Earlier you said if someone has XY chromosomes then they’re male, and if someone has XX chromosomes they’re female. XY is a sufficient condition for being male, XX is a sufficient condition for being female, ignoring the fact that you also said what set of genitals you have determines sex. You didn’t specify any other sufficient conditions, or ways of determining what the “true” sex is in cases like XXY or XXYY chromosome’d people.

As to the intersex, thing, and stigma: if they reconstruct them as the wrong sex, they’ll end up with gender dysphoria and end up stigmatized anyways. This is very bad, as in addition to causing a lot of misery, people with gender dysphoria have high rates of suicide and being victims of violence. That’s why more doctors advocate waiting on surgery if possible.

Roose Hurro said:
It would be rather difficult to make a mistake in reconstruction, so long as you have either a prostate and testicles, or a uterus and ovaries to work with, and all the other bits, wherever they happen to be. And, indeed, it is mutilation for a perfectly normal physical/biological/hormonal/chromosomal male to have his genitals hacked off, just so a surgeon can give him a fake vagina. That is mutilation, in my book. Reguardless [sic] of what psycology [sic] says. They should start looking for a new "standard" of treatment.




Yeah, you're tolerant alright.

Your whole line of thought isn’t making any goddamn sense. You arbitrarily and adamantly refuse to recognize distinctions made by sciences, you cite sources that don’t support your claims (Webster’s), a number of your claims and assumptions are inconsistent, like your claim that chromosomes determine sex, and your later claim that you know you’re male because of your genitals even without karyotype testing, etc. Between that, your ignorance, your nearly fanatical insistence that the guy in the OP article be called “she,” and such, if I didn’t know better I’d say you were a bigot.
 

Wombat

Member
I am utterly disgusted by the amount of just complete blind ignorance and intolerance in this thread.

Furries are supposed to be accepting my ass. Holy crap.


This guy is a man. I'm sorry for those people who seem to think differently, but your ignorance doesn't change the facts. He's transsexual, but he's as much of a man as any biological male. So he's pregnant, who cares? He's physically capable of it, he wanted a child, so he did it. That doesn't make him any less of a man.

And the pronouns are HE and HIS. Have some respect. Thanks and have a nice day.
 

Roose Hurro

Lovable Curmudgeon
Banned
Mothball Wombat said:
I am utterly disgusted by the amount of just complete blind ignorance and intolerance in this thread.

Furries are supposed to be accepting my ass. Holy crap.


This "guy" is a woman. I'm sorry for those people who seem to think differently, but your ignorance doesn't change the facts. She's transsexual, but she's as much a "man" as any biological female. So she's pregnant, who cares? She's physically capable of it, she wanted a child, so she did it. That doesn't make her any less of a woman.

And the pronouns are SHE and HER. Have some respect. Thanks and have a nice day.

Actually, it's blind ingnorance to call a woman a man, when you know the truth. Oh, and I fixed your post as best I could... no need to thank me. As for your intolerance fingerpointing, I've never said she didn't have the freedom to choose personal mutilation, in order to appear male, just that it was a lie, and that I don't support lies. If someone shows me an orange, paints it red, and insists it's an apple, that won't make me call that orange something it isn't. Apples are apples, and oranges are oranges. Get the point? Had she kept her mouth shut, this wouldn't be an issue.

Well, acutally, for me... this whole thread is a non-issue, since it has no bearing on my personal life. I just saw a bunch of "blindly ingnorant" people calling an orange an apple, and I had to correct the error. If you have a problem with that, then that's your problem, not mine. However, I won't hold it against you, since you are just as free to express your views on the matter as I am. You see, by your own admission, ignorance doesn't change the facts... even if I hadn't been told, and believed this person to be male, that wouldn't have changed the fact SHE is female. So, I beg to differ... "he" is in no way comparable any biological male, because "he" is BIOLOGICALLY FEMALE! Got it, now?

Have some sense. Oh, and have a nice day. :mrgreen:


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Ceceil Felias

Never have I seen fail so huge
Congratulations on getting the Epic Fail of the Forever award, Roose Hurro, for a complete disregard for basic human courtesy and instead attempting to prove your point in the most asinine and self-reputation-destroying ways possible by trying to make it a pure biological issue when it was primarily a social issue in the first place. You deserve every bit of it, and I hope to see that your actions on this thread will haunt you for the rest of your days on FA.

Oh, but wait, you don't have much of a reputation to destroy, I just noticed. Good luck with your attitude repelling everything away from you, including a decent personal life.
 

Roose Hurro

Lovable Curmudgeon
Banned
Ceceil Felias said:
Congratulations on getting the Epic Fail of the Forever award, Roose Hurro, for a complete disregard for basic human courtesy and instead attempting to prove your point in the most asinine and self-reputation-destroying ways possible by trying to make it a pure biological issue when it was primarily a social issue in the first place. You deserve every bit of it, and I hope to see that your actions on this thread will haunt you for the rest of your days on FA.

Oh, but wait, you don't have much of a reputation to destroy, I just noticed. Good luck with your attitude repelling everything away from you, including a decent personal life.

Ahhh, so you know my personal life status now, hmmm? Okay, where'd you plant the camera? :twisted:

Tell me, is it courteous for someone to tell me they are one thing (female), and yet expect me to call them another (male)? That is not just a biological issue, it's a social issue of honesty towards others. For her to expect to be called a "him" when she's just confessed to being a "her"... well, as I said, from a social point of view, I cannot play the lie, now that I know the truth about THIS ONE PARTICULAR INDIVIDUAL. I am being honest in my views, even though it's resulted in your "Epic Fail" award... yada yada yada. Tell me, is it socially acceptable to support lies now? How can I trust someone who pretends to be something they are not? Do I need to go on, and bring up other social issues connected with this whole "Pregnant Man" thing? I really need to get back with Surgat... study those links, so I can put together a proper rebuttal. However, if you insist, I'll go on....

Are you familiar with other situations in which people have deceived others, by appearing to be what they're not? One thing I do have to say in this lady's favor, despite her pretending to be a man, at least she's been honest in her confession. Perhaps that does negate her original dishonesty, in some eyes, but it does mean she can no longer rightfully hide behind the personal pronoun "he". Anyhow, we have veterans lying about their service records, politicians lying about their behavior to Congress... people lying to each other right and left, in pretty much every society on Earth. To me, it doesn't matter what different gender roles other cultures give to men and women. Yes, what is the gender/social role of a man in one culture can be reversed in another, but male is still male and female is still female... transsexuals don't earn a "get out of jail free" card, any more than any other social group. If a person is born male or female, then there is no amount of surgery... no amount of social pandering that changes that simple biological fact. "Gender reassignment" can't change a person's true sex, no matter what society says. That's both a biological and a practical truth. Tell me this... in all those cultures where gender roles are reversed, do the men have themselves surgically altered to look like women, while the women have themselves altered to look like men? No? Well... why forever not! I keep getting all this stuff thrown at me, as to why I should call a her a him... "basic human courtesy". Well, that courtesy works both ways.

Don't tell me you're a woman, and expect me to refer to you as a "him", when you have just told me you're not. I don't care how much surgery you've had to hide your true sex. Should I dredge up an analogy? Should I say this is like someone confessing they're a pedo, but expecting me not to call the police, now that I know? Yes, a very harsh example... perhaps not the best... but you could put together your own scenario, based on this pattern. How about your boyfriend/girlfriend confessing that they've slept with someone else, but still saying they love you? Is any of this "social" enough for you? Yes? No? Don't care? Want more? Got milk?

See, it's one thing, this whole definition of sex and gender... sex being biological, gender being social. Or so I've been informed. I see transsexuals as being different from the cultural aspect of gender roles, since they are the only people I know of who actually alter their bodies to fit, by having their sexual parts removed and/or otherwise sugically altered to fit. Please, feel free to do your own legwork, to bring up actual examples of different cultural gender roles, in which men stay men and women stay women, biologically and anatomically speaking, without going under the knife. At least these people are being honest, both biologically and socially.

Let me put it to you this way... if science ever came up with a way to truely make a man a woman, and a woman a man, only then will I accept using the appropriate pronoun, for a person whose sex has truely been changed. Till then, the only way I'd call a woman "he" or a man "her" is if I have no knowledge of their transsexualism. I will not lie to myself.

By the way, don't we have someone here who's made a thread on the subject of "morality"...?


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Wombat

Member
You obviously have a lack of the most basic understanding of the concept of what it means to be transsexual.

For some reason (beyond anything I can comprehend) people have this strange disability to understand the concept of transsexuality as a medical disorder instead of a choice.

People are born with all sorts of strange deformities. Multiple limbs, unrecognizable sex organs, both sex organs, no eyes, no face, even on a biological and chromosomal level people are sometimes unclassifiable as one sex or the other. There are people who have developed as nothing short of recognizably male while lacking any Y chromosomes, and at the same time, there are people who have developed to looking ordinarily female, while in the possession of a Y chromosome.

To pretend that it's so easy to say that someone is lying or to say that they MUST be this or they MUST be that in regards to their sex or gender is completely silly.

Why most people can't wrap their minds around the concept that, perhaps, someone may have developed improperly in the womb so that their brain does not align with their body and therefore causes intense dysphoria is beyond me.

The matter isn't whether the brain is 'right' or the body is 'right'. There have been years and years and years of intense psychological discussion and evaluation and testing and it's NEVER been shown to 'work' with transsexuals. The only thing that 'works', in such a way that it relieves the debilitating dysphoria and allows them to live something resembling a normal life, is to change their bodies.

And as human beings that, really, are only trying to work with what they've got and live the most normal life as possible for them, you are extending them no help by saying they are liars or calling them by the incorrect pronouns. Maybe you don't care, but personally I would hope that if I were born with some sort of horrible birth defect that left me mutilated and feeling awful about myself, I wouldn't be met with such blind intolerance.

So excuse me, sir, but really quite frankly, I feel as though you are a subclass human being that simply wants some sort of attention or something so you spout off shit you know absolutely NOTHING about in an attempt to create that for yourself. And that's sad.
 

Ceceil Felias

Never have I seen fail so huge
Roose Hurro said:
Ceceil Felias said:
Congratulations on getting the Epic Fail of the Forever award, Roose Hurro, for a complete disregard for basic human courtesy and instead attempting to prove your point in the most asinine and self-reputation-destroying ways possible by trying to make it a pure biological issue when it was primarily a social issue in the first place. You deserve every bit of it, and I hope to see that your actions on this thread will haunt you for the rest of your days on FA.

Oh, but wait, you don't have much of a reputation to destroy, I just noticed. Good luck with your attitude repelling everything away from you, including a decent personal life.

Ahhh, so you know my personal life status now, hmmm? Okay, where'd you plant the camera? :twisted:

Tell me, is it courteous for someone to tell me they are one thing (female), and yet expect me to call them another (male)? That is not just a biological issue, it's a social issue of honesty towards others. For her to expect to be called a "him" when she's just confessed to being a "her"... well, as I said, from a social point of view, I cannot play the lie, now that I know the truth about THIS ONE PARTICULAR INDIVIDUAL. I am being honest in my views, even though it's resulted in your "Epic Fail" award... yada yada yada. Tell me, is it socially acceptable to support lies now? How can I trust someone who pretends to be something they are not? Do I need to go on, and bring up other social issues connected with this whole "Pregnant Man" thing? I really need to get back with Surgat... study those links, so I can put together a proper rebuttal. However, if you insist, I'll go on....

Are you familiar with other situations in which people have deceived others, by appearing to be what they're not? One thing I do have to say in this lady's favor, despite her pretending to be a man, at least she's been honest in her confession. Perhaps that does negate her original dishonesty, in some eyes, but it does mean she can no longer rightfully hide behind the personal pronoun "he". Anyhow, we have veterans lying about their service records, politicians lying about their behavior to Congress... people lying to each other right and left, in pretty much every society on Earth. To me, it doesn't matter what different gender roles other cultures give to men and women. Yes, what is the gender/social role of a man in one culture can be reversed in another, but male is still male and female is still female... transsexuals don't earn a "get out of jail free" card, any more than any other social group. If a person is born male or female, then there is no amount of surgery... no amount of social pandering that changes that simple biological fact. "Gender reassignment" can't change a person's true sex, no matter what society says. That's both a biological and a practical truth. Tell me this... in all those cultures where gender roles are reversed, do the men have themselves surgically altered to look like women, while the women have themselves altered to look like men? No? Well... why forever not! I keep getting all this stuff thrown at me, as to why I should call a her a him... "basic human courtesy". Well, that courtesy works both ways.

Don't tell me you're a woman, and expect me to refer to you as a "him", when you have just told me you're not. I don't care how much surgery you've had to hide your true sex. Should I dredge up an analogy? Should I say this is like someone confessing they're a pedo, but expecting me not to call the police, now that I know? Yes, a very harsh example... perhaps not the best... but you could put together your own scenario, based on this pattern. How about your boyfriend/girlfriend confessing that they've slept with someone else, but still saying they love you? Is any of this "social" enough for you? Yes? No? Don't care? Want more? Got milk?

See, it's one thing, this whole definition of sex and gender... sex being biological, gender being social. Or so I've been informed. I see transsexuals as being different from the cultural aspect of gender roles, since they are the only people I know of who actually alter their bodies to fit, by having their sexual parts removed and/or otherwise sugically altered to fit. Please, feel free to do your own legwork, to bring up actual examples of different cultural gender roles, in which men stay men and women stay women, biologically and anatomically speaking, without going under the knife. At least these people are being honest, both biologically and socially.

Let me put it to you this way... if science ever came up with a way to truely make a man a woman, and a woman a man, only then will I accept using the appropriate pronoun, for a person whose sex has truely been changed. Till then, the only way I'd call a woman "he" or a man "her" is if I have no knowledge of their transsexualism. I will not lie to myself.

By the way, don't we have someone here who's made a thread on the subject of "morality"...?
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I must've hit something sensitive there to get that kind of response.

And hurray to Mothball Wombat for countering a bullshit biological-only-fuck-the-social-aspect viewpoint with some biological-viewpoint truth. I doubt he'll listen anyway, though, because Roose is a douche no matter what the hell you do to him. :F
 

Surgat

Where is your mod now?
Roose Hurro said:
Ceceil Felias said:
Congratulations on getting the Epic Fail of the Forever award, Roose Hurro, for a complete disregard for basic human courtesy and instead attempting to prove your point in the most asinine and self-reputation-destroying ways possible by trying to make it a pure biological issue when it was primarily a social issue in the first place. You deserve every bit of it, and I hope to see that your actions on this thread will haunt you for the rest of your days on FA.

Oh, but wait, you don't have much of a reputation to destroy, I just noticed. Good luck with your attitude repelling everything away from you, including a decent personal life.

Ahhh, so you know my personal life status now, hmmm? Okay, where'd you plant the camera? :twisted:

Tell me, is it courteous for someone to tell me they are one thing (female), and yet expect me to call them another (male)? That is not just a biological issue, it's a social issue of honesty towards others. For her to expect to be called a "him" when she's just confessed to being a "her"... well, as I said, from a social point of view, I cannot play the lie, now that I know the truth about THIS ONE PARTICULAR INDIVIDUAL. I am being honest in my views, even though it's resulted in your "Epic Fail" award... yada yada yada. Tell me, is it socially acceptable to support lies now? How can I trust someone who pretends to be something they are not? Do I need to go on, and bring up other social issues connected with this whole "Pregnant Man" thing? I really need to get back with Surgat... study those links, so I can put together a proper rebuttal. However, if you insist, I'll go on....

Are you familiar with other situations in which people have deceived others, by appearing to be what they're not? One thing I do have to say in this lady's favor, despite her pretending to be a man, at least she's been honest in her confession. Perhaps that does negate her original dishonesty, in some eyes, but it does mean she can no longer rightfully hide behind the personal pronoun "he". Anyhow, we have veterans lying about their service records, politicians lying about their behavior to Congress... people lying to each other right and left, in pretty much every society on Earth. To me, it doesn't matter what different gender roles other cultures give to men and women. Yes, what is the gender/social role of a man in one culture can be reversed in another, but male is still male and female is still female... transsexuals don't earn a "get out of jail free" card, any more than any other social group. If a person is born male or female, then there is no amount of surgery... no amount of social pandering that changes that simple biological fact. "Gender reassignment" can't change a person's true sex, no matter what society says. That's both a biological and a practical truth. Tell me this... in all those cultures where gender roles are reversed, do the men have themselves surgically altered to look like women, while the women have themselves altered to look like men? No? Well... why forever not! I keep getting all this stuff thrown at me, as to why I should call a her a him... "basic human courtesy". Well, that courtesy works both ways.

Don't tell me you're a woman, and expect me to refer to you as a "him", when you have just told me you're not. I don't care how much surgery you've had to hide your true sex. Should I dredge up an analogy? Should I say this is like someone confessing they're a pedo, but expecting me not to call the police, now that I know? Yes, a very harsh example... perhaps not the best... but you could put together your own scenario, based on this pattern. How about your boyfriend/girlfriend confessing that they've slept with someone else, but still saying they love you? Is any of this "social" enough for you? Yes? No? Don't care? Want more? Got milk?

See, it's one thing, this whole definition of sex and gender... sex being biological, gender being social. Or so I've been informed. I see transsexuals as being different from the cultural aspect of gender roles, since they are the only people I know of who actually alter their bodies to fit, by having their sexual parts removed and/or otherwise sugically altered to fit. Please, feel free to do your own legwork, to bring up actual examples of different cultural gender roles, in which men stay men and women stay women, biologically and anatomically speaking, without going under the knife. At least these people are being honest, both biologically and socially.

Let me put it to you this way... if science ever came up with a way to truely make a man a woman, and a woman a man, only then will I accept using the appropriate pronoun, for a person whose sex has truely been changed. Till then, the only way I'd call a woman "he" or a man "her" is if I have no knowledge of their transsexualism. I will not lie to myself.

By the way, don't we have someone here who's made a thread on the subject of "morality"...?


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>>"Tell me this... in all those cultures where gender roles are reversed, do the men have themselves surgically altered to look like women, while the women have themselves altered to look like men?"

Hahaha. What? Do you even read what you type? This hardly even makes any sense. I'm having trouble coming up with examples of anything like it to show how absurd it is.

Okay, so for cultures where it's considered "unmanly" to do physical labor, or "manly" to curl your hair and wear makeup, why do you think we think they'd modify themselves to be like the opposite sex? What does the specific content of a gender role or a society's conception of gender have to do with biological sex?

The closest example of similar reasoning I can come up with would be something like "if someone was white and raised as a Hindu, since Hindus are typically Indian, does that person try to make themselves look like an Indian? [No, therefore they're not really Hindu and if I have them over for a dinner party or something and I'm serving something with a beef product in it, I'm not going to tell them because it's not important to non-Hindu. If they find out I'll just tell them I was being honest.]" This isn't exactly the same of course, as the brain structures of Indians, Whites, Hindus, and Non-Hindus aren't structured differently like between transsexuals and other people.


Speaking of other cultures, in more primitive societies, when someone who's biologically male wants to be female, starts acting like women, i.e. doing women's dances in the women's section, starts wearing women's clothing or accessories, takes a woman's name, etc. they start referring to her as "she." I read about it in Sex and Temperament in Three Primitive Societies somewhere.

On a side note, I like it when people in primitive and ancient societies are smarter than individuals in modern ones. The Egyptians knew enough to store food and give it out to the poor in hard times, like droughts. The Sumerians knew enough to have public education. The Persians knew enough to not pollute their drinking water. However social programs, public education, and environmental protection laws aren't on the agenda of certain prominent contemporary political parties.

Anyways, those primitives are smarter than you. Like I said earlier, you don't need to run a test to find out someone's chromosomes to determine whether you should call them "he" or "she," or check their medical records to make sure they don't have nuticles or something. That would be like referring to people with different pronouns based on their blood type or hair color. Instead, use of "he" or "she" depends on gender.
 

RaiN_WolF

Member
In my opinion...

There's your gender physically (and a little more), and your gender mentally. For most of use the two match up. Some people just plain identify themselves as a member of the the opposite gender.

A sex-change is to make the physical correspond with the mental.


The hilarious thing is how this is connected to the furry lifestyle, yet so many are "squicked" by it... consider this, surgery to make one more like the animal you identify with? I think a good number of furries would jump for that if they had the funds. I can imagine this almost exact story except with a now-furry human, on some other board, with people being idiots and being all grossed out, etc.

As for using "he" or "she"... it's still one syllable, it costs me no more breath to say either. So, I would respect the person's choice and call them by the gender they chose.
 
I've discussed this on another forum, people seem to have a hard time understanding the ethics behind this because what we have here is a person who has the mind and the body of a man, but the sexual organs of a woman. The situation here, remember, is perfectly natural, as the desire to have children is a human desire and his wife cannot bear children, so they settled for the next best thing. As long as no harm comes to the child, it's a perfectly happy thing to do; and of course, no harm will come to the child.
 

Coffee

Member
This thread is giving me a boner.
 

Get-dancing

Member
Why would anyone want a sex change? Think, you're not really a woman, you're just a man with your penis turned outside-in. And what do they do when its a woman wanting to be a man? Do they stitch an extra bit on? Lets not forget how Michael Jackson changed his apearence because how he felt he was born in the wrong body.
Once I was taking a piss in a public toilet with my friend, and a woman pretending to be a man came up next to me and pretended to pee. Then when I left she went in the cubical.
 

RaiN_WolF

Member
Get-dancing said:
Why would anyone want a sex change?
Read my post above. :roll:

Although, you're not going to really understand, nobody can, unless they've been there.

It's pretty hard for others to see what we find so thrilling in anthros. Hell, I don't know what it is exactly myself.
 

Kirbizard

Kamikaze Kirby
Mothball Wombat said:
I am utterly disgusted by the amount of just complete blind ignorance and intolerance in this thread.

Furries are supposed to be accepting my ass. Holy crap.


This guy is a man. I'm sorry for those people who seem to think differently, but your ignorance doesn't change the facts. He's transsexual, but he's as much of a man as any biological male. So he's pregnant, who cares? He's physically capable of it, he wanted a child, so he did it. That doesn't make him any less of a man.

And the pronouns are HE and HIS. Have some respect. Thanks and have a nice day.
This, I agree with.

The only problem I have with it, is that it makes my favourite April Fools jokes kinda defunct. <(._.)>
Other than that, I'm actually struggling to see any reasonable problems.
 
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