People are also entitled to prefer to socialize with some people rather than others, and people who have autism lack self-awareness that makes them unpleasant to be around. I'm sorry, but all people are not equal. Some people just have no appeal, and these qualities can be attributed to a disorder like autism. There is nothing criminal about it. There is a point where disorders can be considered exceedingly disruptive, and forcing this burden on everyone because of sentimentalism isn't fair to anyone. I know a retarded person too, and everyone seems to barely tolerate her. It just isn't ideal.
I imagine you have such a distaste for excluding others because you have experience being an outcast yourself. I have not had this problem, so I can't really sympathize. If you need for others to be excessively accepting to not be outcasted, then you haven't earned acceptance. Appealing to others is not something that can be forced. There is a natural system in place to encourage proper behavior, and it is essential for progression. Forcibly integrating these negative characteristics into our culture is degenerative, and there is no doubt that the mindless sexual fixations that are plaguing this fandom have no place in a thoughtful society.