um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
I did that. It hasn't helped. I literally have an insatiable sex drive. Wanna see what my horniness looks like? Here it is in ultra beast form: IT'S YA BOI GUZZLORD!!!!
(Insert issues with relationships here)
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I did that. It hasn't helped. I literally have an insatiable sex drive. Wanna see what my horniness looks like? Here it is in ultra beast form: IT'S YA BOI GUZZLORD!!!!
um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
But in all honesty, I think I've got an actual legit problem now that I don't know how to solve.
lyar
Its not the human race, its just the human race
You do know how to solve it, have sex with someone. But obviously that's not an option open to you for some reason or another. I'd say it's a puberty thing so just deal with it and try to keep you mind off of it by doing other things.
heteroclite
Everone is a hologram
Like homework.
heteroclite
Everone is a hologram
Says the guy who doesn't do his homework.
Sarachaga
Definitely not a lizard
Listen, if you feel that you need help, you MUST get help. And by that I mean see your therapist and discuss the issues that you are having. These kind of problem don't magically disappear and the sooner you tackle them, the better you will be.
EDIT: Also you mentioned wanting to increase you med dosage. You shouldn't do it if you therapist hasn't told you so. Some medicaments can have terrible effects on your health if you don't take the correct dose.
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um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
Too bad I don't see my therapist for another month and I'm too afraid to tell anyone.
um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
Heyy! Would you look at that! After moping about being single for weeks, someone actually confessed that he liked me, and now I've got myself a boyfriend!
Now if only mom DIDN'T take away my only means of contacting him (because it's an online thing, and discord is blocked on my chromebook) just a few days after it happened because my grades were too low in English (long story short: I had to miss a day or two of school because someone tried to get me thrown in jail, and I fell behind on things.) Here's to hoping that he doesn't grow apart from me to the point where I get back on and I find out he's gotten into a relationship with someone else. (fortunately I'm only missing.....like, several things that only really take a few minutes to finish, so it should take a week at most, including the minutes I waste being distracted)
Now if only mom DIDN'T take away my only means of contacting him (because it's an online thing, and discord is blocked on my chromebook) just a few days after it happened because my grades were too low in English (long story short: I had to miss a day or two of school because someone tried to get me thrown in jail, and I fell behind on things.) Here's to hoping that he doesn't grow apart from me to the point where I get back on and I find out he's gotten into a relationship with someone else. (fortunately I'm only missing.....like, several things that only really take a few minutes to finish, so it should take a week at most, including the minutes I waste being distracted)
um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
Okay, so basically one night I was talkin' with a guy on Discord, and we were just hangin', chattin' about random sh!t, and then at one point I remarked that he wasn't a bad guy, then he said that he liked me as more than just a friend, and I admitted that I kinda liked him too, and now I have a boyfriend.
like....almost a week later, mom notifies me of my failing in English, so she takes my phone (i don't have my normal laptop at the time, so it's the only way I can access Discord) until my grades improve, so now I can't talk to him and I'm worried we'll grow apart and I'll lose the first real relationship I've actually had.
Doesn't help that I can't do shit about my english grade until I get back to school and get my grammar book.
like....almost a week later, mom notifies me of my failing in English, so she takes my phone (i don't have my normal laptop at the time, so it's the only way I can access Discord) until my grades improve, so now I can't talk to him and I'm worried we'll grow apart and I'll lose the first real relationship I've actually had.
Doesn't help that I can't do shit about my english grade until I get back to school and get my grammar book.
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Okami_No_Heishi
Guest
Do your school work before anything else. I took my sons phone for a year because he thought his games were more important. Took him a year to get right again. But now he is making A's! He got a new phone and new Nintendo 3DS.
um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
Well I did manage to get my laptop back, but now I just found out he had some medicine changes, so he's feeling unstable and doesn't really wanna talk.
I hope he feels better soon.
um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
In other words I'm worried we'll grow apart because of that now. What happens if he decides he doesn't love me like he said he did now that he's on different meds?
JumboWumbo
Banned in two states.
Have you two even actually met?
um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
Look, it's an online relationship. plenty of peeps here have those, right?
Sarachaga
Definitely not a lizard
If he's feeling unstable because he changed his meds, and says he doesn't want to talk, you must respect this and give him some space. I'm sure he still loves you and there's nothing to worry about!
JumboWumbo
Banned in two states.
I guess... but I'd at least want to meet the person before I consider myself "in a relationship" with them.
Do you even know what he looks like?
um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
Yeah. He's not really attractive, but he's not bad-looking. I'd post the picture, but out of a respect for his privacy I won't.
I hope you're right.
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Andromedahl
Guest
Be careful there; my dad and mom met online and she ended up leavin as soon as I happened.
Don't rush.
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Sergei Sóhomo
Guest
Daaaaaaaaaaaaamn
Sarachaga
Definitely not a lizard
In my opinion that's the kind of situation where worrying will get you nowhere. A friend of mine changed her med(three months ago), and she she was really cold and distant for two weeks. After that, she went back to her cheerful self. So basically, wait until he gets better. I'm sure that he'll be glad to speak to you when that's the case.
Also:
^this is really good advice. Some things are harder to figure out when you're talking to someone online. When you meet, the person might not meet your expectations.
um_pineapplez
Mage of Void, dammit.
So it's a bad idea? I should just give up the relationship?
Sarachaga
Definitely not a lizard
Just take it slow. Making a relationship work over the internet is going to be complicated but that doesn't mean it won't work.
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Andromedahl
Guest
I mean I'm gonna be naturally biased about internet relationships given what happened, so feel free to take what I say with lil grain of salt but uh, you're a kid, he's a kid, you're both kids, so feel free to go with what y'got but I'm willin to bet it's not gonna go far or last long.
Internet relationships -can- potentially work but generally when they are successful, it's between adults.
(also Alex K is a troll account, pay him little mind)
quoting_mungo
Well-Known Member
Medicine changes can really mess someone up as they're happening. Don't jump to the doom-and-gloom conclusion just yet. Even if he should fall out of love with you, if the adjustments in his medication mean he feels better once the adjustment period has passed, that's the most important thing, right? Loving someone is a lot about wanting the best for them, even when it means you might not get what you, yourself, want.
I was... under 18 (I honestly don't remember my exact age offhand) when I first fell in love with my now-husband, but I had another boyfriend and assorted life shenanigans go down between then and us actually getting engaged.
Don't expect teenage relationships to last forever, but don't throw them out as useless because they likely won't last into old age, either. The experiences you make now will be with you later regardless of the outcome.
Goes for all relationships, tbfh. Not many people marry and grow old with someone they started dating first year of high school.
I was... under 18 (I honestly don't remember my exact age offhand) when I first fell in love with my now-husband, but I had another boyfriend and assorted life shenanigans go down between then and us actually getting engaged.Don't expect teenage relationships to last forever, but don't throw them out as useless because they likely won't last into old age, either. The experiences you make now will be with you later regardless of the outcome.
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Alex K
Guest
Children shouldn't be in relationships until they're older to be honest.
Same thing for adults