My boyfriend and I want kids, a boy and a girl. The thing about kids is that when you are 6 years old and little sally pushes you over on the playground, that is literally the worst thing that ever has happened to you. You dont understand the pains of adult life. Hell, teens dont eaven get that stress. The thing is tho, kids will come up to you and say " sally pushed me, and when you as an adult dismiss that child, and egnore the fact that that realy is the wort thing in there life, you are teaching the kid to not trust athorety, and therefore, not trust you. What causes a shithed kid to be shity is an adult who dusent give them proper developmental feedback, witch cases them to start acting out. The morle is treat kids like they are people, and like there problems matter, and they wont become anointing brats.