That's interesting
As a newly arrived, I can't speak to the validity of the things he brings up in the video. There is no doubt going to be some truth there, though. In which case.. That's kind of scary and off-putting.
But ultimately, the things he brings up are a generalization and don't apply universally. Not everyone is all or even any of the things he says.
Any community or fandom is the sum of its members - or to put it more plainly: what the community is like is entirely shaped by the people in it. That said, being a furry is an individual experience, as we each are drawn to different elements of it. We simply have a common denominator in our interest in anthropomorphic animals.
And humans are social creatures, so we want to be accepted and feel a sense of belonging somewhere. For many people, they find that in being a furry and immersing themselves in this interest along with other like-minded people.
What's the point I'm getting at?
It's understandable to be frustrated in seeing this video. It's understandable not wanting to be scorned. And if seeing the things he says and seeing the constant disdain of furries makes you want to leave it behind, I can understand as much. If "being a furry" is a cause for stress in your life, leaving it is perfectly understandable. But if it's something you like and feel drawn to, then I think it would be better to help shape the fandom into a more healthy environment, one that you can enjoy and be proud of
