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Nate/Satsuki

Nate/Satsuki

Your friendly neighbourhood disaster
I remember one guy in one of my classes in grade 9 started practically interrogating me about my sexuality during a lesson. I was a relatively small (not to mention painfully shy) kid and he was way taller than me so I was really scared. He kept asking me questions like “Do you like me?” And “Why are you gay” and stuff like that. First of all, you don’t just ask people why they’re gay and to answer your questions, no, I have standards, and Will and Grace turned me gay.
 
Existenceinanutshell

Existenceinanutshell

Well-Known Member
Bink said:
Yeah I consider myself pan/demi but I find my feelings change from day to day... mostly at this point I prefer men, but I literally said the opposite months ago so who knows anymore x3. If any of that makes sense...

It's sorta odd tbh.. never expected to feel this way at this point in my life.


Erm.. sorry I'm rambling now lol. Damn rum.
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Same way honestly for the most part. I think with me my sexuality is like a game of chess with me as soon as I figure out something with it and it goes by smoothly for awhile it than decides to go "LOOK AT THIS MOVE!" and things get confusing again for me.

I kinda hate it honestly.
 
Borophagus Metropolis

Borophagus Metropolis

A modern stonerage floofy woof
RafflesHolmes said:
Same way honestly for the most part. I think with me my sexuality is like a game of chess with me as soon as I figure out something with it and it goes by smoothly for awhile it than decides to go "LOOK AT THIS MOVE!" and things get confusing again for me.

I kinda hate it honestly.
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Don't pigeon hole it. Sexuality is fluid and organic. You like what you like.
 
Existenceinanutshell

Existenceinanutshell

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Borophagus Monoclinous said:
Don't pigeon hole it. Sexuality is fluid and organic. You like what you like.
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True, I guess it just leaves me a bit with some worries from time to time. Especially when I consider a relationship I almost got married in. But you're right I shouldn't pigeon hole it or anything of that nature.
 
Bink

Bink

FLOOFY!
Borophagus Monoclinous said:
Don't pigeon hole it. Sexuality is fluid and organic. You like what you like.
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I still don't understand the "fluidity" people talk of.. I kinda get it because I'm literally a living example (first GF at age 16, first BF at age 26). But for some reason I still don't get how

I can accept it though.. And so have most people in my life... I suppose it doesn't matter really heh.
 
Existenceinanutshell

Existenceinanutshell

Well-Known Member
Tazmo said:
Life is.....confusing
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Yeah but can't be helped sadly. That's why eventually gotta learn how to just play it by ear a bit.

Life is a mess of everyone's stories interacting and interconnecting with one another both in subtle and non subtle ways. So it couldn't be helped even if we tried.
 
Tazmo

Tazmo

Trash connoisseur
RafflesHolmes said:
Yeah but can't be helped sadly. That's why eventually gotta learn how to just play it by ear a bit.

Life is a mess of everyone's stories interacting and interconnecting with one another both in subtle and non subtle ways. So it couldn't be helped even if we tried.
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Ah, entropy

A system in equilibrium will seek chaos
 
Guifrog

Guifrog

Blue frog
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Nate/Satsuki

Nate/Satsuki

Your friendly neighbourhood disaster
Bink said:
I still don't understand the "fluidity" people talk of.. I kinda get it because I'm literally a living example (first GF at age 16, first BF at age 26). But for some reason I still don't get how

I can accept it though.. And so have most people in my life... I suppose it doesn't matter really heh.
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I mean, I had a girlfriend in grade 8 but I never really felt like it was right. So we broke up after a week because I was sort of a dick and I reconsidered my sexuality. We’re still friends, and I have to thank her, well, him now for helping me figure stuff out.
 
Bink

Bink

FLOOFY!
Nate/Satsuki said:
I mean, I had a girlfriend in grade 8 but I never really felt like it was right. So we broke up after a week because I was sort of a dick and I reconsidered my sexuality. We’re still friends, and I have to thank her, well, him now for helping me figure stuff out.
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Mate, be glad you figured it out earlier than me. I spent 8 years in a "straight" relationship thinking I was happy when I wasnt...

My only solace is all these weird events led me to my boyfriend @Toby_Morpheus
 
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