So my grandma thinks it is okay to try and guilt trip me into moving in with her, and is being racist twords my boyfriend because his last name is a common last name for people who live in spain, however my boyfriend is white. She is trying to control me and every time i'm not home she is constantly bothering me telling me not to do this or that and to come live with her. I keep telling her no and she calls me a disrespectful child and she should whip my ass. I live with my mom. I'm so pissed off right now because I posted a picture to facebook with my boyfriend laying on me asleep and she texted me multiple times saying how "cuddling is a gateway to sex and how that is sinning and i need to practice abstinence". It pisses me off because she tells me what to do and I don't even live in the same household as her and she literally has no control over me. My mom won't let me block her because then she'll spam my mom. I am so ticked off right now. I am 16, not 6. I am refusing to deal with her right now. She can kiss my ass.