Minerva_Minx
Explosion loving skooma cat
I have never heard of it going right at the beginning. As one counselor stated, it's growing up on both sides and both sides suffer a trauma: you for finally being yourself and risking everything and them because what they've know and believed is now thrown out the window.Okay, I never heard of "coming out" before. And I kind of wondered if it was good... for anyone...?
I'm sorry if this is making you confused.
Long term, it works. It's significant adjustment. My mom and dad knew, for a fact, society was right and marriage is a man and woman and, for a fact, lesbianism was for pornos. Then their daughter, who had dated guys, comes back with a wife. So, yeah, bombshells. I can't see trans being anything less than that level of brutality, if not more so.
But it does get better. Love is love is love. Still family and, everyone having their space and time, it works. But everyone's experience is different.
