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Joni

I'm a hot dog

Rystren

Call me FLUuFFFFEH || The Original Floater
I'm not sure if my parents know what furries are exactly, but they hate furries.
Ouch. The irony.
Mine have a "your life" attitude towards it. They don't even know what we are. Lol
 

Joni

I'm a hot dog
Most people genuinely don't care. It's your choice though. Perhaps ask them what they think about furries first?
Maybe I'll do that when I feel for it. Just to see....
 

Niedlich the Folf

Cute Folf.
I ask because you just don't seem to care. We tell you 'You're a good person. You're not stupid' and you either retaliate it or ignore it completely. It's getting very tiring. Even when the argument is done (sometimes it's over with because we've run out of energy fighting with you) you go right back doing it the next day, sometimes even minutes after! You're awesome to be around Niedlich when you aren't doing THIS. So why not look for all your qualities and actually stop fighting with us? Why not listen to some of the things we say? Maybe if it was just me saying I would question if it was true or not if I were you, but hell a lot of these people telling you this are really wise and know what they're talkinf about. Clearly self-hatred is getting you nowhere and I know you don't want to hear this, but it is iritating to us when you fight with us. So maybe it's not so bad of a decision to actually take a bit of advice from what we have to say.
The problem is I have no qualities. I have no idea what qualities I have. How can I hang onto those qualities if I don't know wjat they are? You just saying I'm not stupid or stuff like that will help me. Now I know you're just going to put "Oh we're not professionals we don't know what to do so stop asking us." and all it does is hurt me more as I'm not looking for a answer but I don't want to use you guys. I'm just trying to talk to someone. I do nothing but fight everyday and no alot of fights I get in aren't about my negetivity. I'm not a likeable person. I should just stop trying to find friends as all I do is have them get frustraited at me. This is why I behave like this and my behavior will get me nowhere in life.
 

SirGavintheFurred

The Comment Cavalry
The problem is I have no qualities. I have no idea what qualities I have. How can I hang onto those qualities if I don't know wjat they are? You just saying I'm not stupid or stuff like that will help me. Now I know you're just going to put "Oh we're not professionals we don't know what to do so stop asking us." and all it does is hurt me more as I'm not looking for a answer but I don't want to use you guys. I'm just trying to talk to someone. I do nothing but fight everyday and no alot of fights I get in aren't about my negetivity. I'm not a likeable person. I should just stop trying to find friends as all I do is have them get frustraited at me. This is why I behave like this and my behavior will get me nowhere in life.
...and there goes all my energy for fighting.
 

Joni

I'm a hot dog
I didn't directly tell my mother I'm furry, but I told her I joined a furry forum and she didn't know what furries are. Once I told her what they are she really didn't care, she supports me as long as I enjoy what I do and don't mess up my life.
That's cool
 

Joni

I'm a hot dog
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