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bhutrflai

Okami The Wolf is my crazy half!
I adventure to many places, such as coming to GA! XD I don’t wanna be forever lost.
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Water Draco

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Did The Fandom change you, too? It did me! Ask Bhutrflai!

Creating my sona and OC Draco is providing to be a useful way to visualize deconstructing myself and laying out all the pieces. Then reassembling them piece by piece. With each piece taking the time to recognise it and understanding its function within me.

Also going to the furmeets is helping a lot. I needed to make a change because I had realised that through circumstances I had become trapped and ever more isolated. Spending less and less time interacting with people in reality. So having one of those how the freg do you go out and meet new people let alone make new friends. I used every ounce of myself to overcome my social anxiety and headed to a furmeet in January this year all by myself. And 9 months later I have friends there and I am now also a volunteer assisting with the meet.
I have also managed to take down some of the walls I have built around myself and enjoying a level of freedom to be myself.
 
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Okami_No_Heishi

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Creating my sona and OC Draco is providing to be a useful way to visualize deconstructing myself and laying out all the pieces. Then reassembling them piece by piece. With each piece taking the time to recognise it and understanding its function within me.

Also going to the furmeets is helping a lot. I needed to make a change because I had realised that through circumstances I had become trapped and ever more isolated. Spending less and less time interacting with people in reality. So having one of those how the freg do you go out and meet new people let alone make new friends. I used every ounce of myself to overcome my social anxiety and headed to a furmeet in January this year all by myself. And 9 months later I have friends there and I am now also a volunteer assisting with the meet.
I have also managed to take down some of the walls I have built around myself and enjoying a level of freedom to be myself.
I remember you going to that first one! You were different then! You didnt "chat" near as much as you do now!:)
 

Water Draco

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Okami is out here, using my hair spray as a flame thrower to kill hundreds of ants!!

We hate ants.

Then you don't want me about then. I seem to have an ability with fire in real life. Even to the point were I have a bonfire down the farm it always attracts the attention of the police helicopter and end up having a visit.
 

bhutrflai

Okami The Wolf is my crazy half!
Creating my sona and OC Draco is providing to be a useful way to visualize deconstructing myself and laying out all the pieces. Then reassembling them piece by piece. With each piece taking the time to recognise it and understanding its function within me.

Also going to the furmeets is helping a lot. I needed to make a change because I had realised that through circumstances I had become trapped and ever more isolated. Spending less and less time interacting with people in reality. So having one of those how the freg do you go out and meet new people let alone make new friends. I used every ounce of myself to overcome my social anxiety and headed to a furmeet in January this year all by myself. And 9 months later I have friends there and I am now also a volunteer assisting with the meet.
I have also managed to take down some of the walls I have built around myself and enjoying a level of freedom to be myself.
That's a lot of progress! Congrats!!
It's a hard thing to get thru...been there, done that, still working on my own getting-out-there. But being a pirate has def made a difference!! We're all there just to have a good time, some good convos, & to meet new people. And of course, the rum helps!!

I am always SUPER nervous to do anything new. Self-doubt is a mutha fucka.
 
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