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The Matte-Black Cat

Dark/Psychic-Timid Nature-Often lost in thought

SoL-JoS

Fasto catto and LPW's #1 ~C U S S~ expert
Asking Mr. @SoL-JoS what's bad about being a virgin..



:mad: grr..no..
Some of us like to save ourselves for later on, and not eff everything that walks..

...also, some of us have a fear of sti's (formerly known as stds) and childbirth
Honestly, I wish I had saved myself for someone special. I lost my virginity in a drunken stupor at the age of 19 to a 33 year old. It wasn't special at all.

And I don't fuck everything that walks. I haven't had sex in like half a year. I don't miss the sex as much as I miss the cuddling and comfort of having a loved one in my arms. I haven't had that in two years and it's really starting to hurt.
(I have a fear of STI's too, but I always ask my partner if they're clean before we frickle frackle)
 

The Matte-Black Cat

Dark/Psychic-Timid Nature-Often lost in thought
Honestly, I wish I had saved myself for someone special. I lost my virginity in a drunken stupor at the age of 19 to a 33 year old. It wasn't special at all.

And I don't fuck everything that walks. I haven't had sex in like half a year. I don't miss the sex as much as I miss the cuddling and comfort of having a loved one in my arms. I haven't had that in two years and it's really starting to hurt.
(I have a fear of STI's too, but I always ask my partner if they're clean before we frickle frackle)

.. I'm sorry for sounding harsh.. :/

I didn't mean you did that! I meant like..that's how society is portrayed. Like as if Everyone must have sex and if you don't, then something's wrong with you or you're a "loser" or so..
What sucks more is that it's kinda sexist how that stigma is portrayed too..If a female doesn't want to have a sexually active lifestyle, it's not a huge deal..but if it's a Guy, it's like "OMG, A GUY WHO'S A VIRGIN" like, big freaking deal..
It's one of the many reasons why I support Asexuality too. Not everyone wants to have it / wants to have relationships. So my avatar is to give it more awareness, and show that I envy asexuals (as I truly do wish I was one.. :/)

Once again, I'm sorry I came off as rude.. :/ Me and you are cool, ya know? :3
 

Niedlich the Folf

Cute Folf.
.. I'm sorry for sounding harsh.. :/

I didn't mean you did that! I meant like..that's how society is portrayed. Like as if Everyone must have sex and if you don't, then something's wrong with you or you're a "loser" or so..
What sucks more is that it's kinda sexist how that stigma is portrayed too..If a female doesn't want to have a sexually active lifestyle, it's not a huge deal..but if it's a Guy, it's like "OMG, A GUY WHO'S A VIRGIN" like, big freaking deal..
It's one of the many reasons why I support Asexuality too. Not everyone wants to have it / wants to have relationships. So my avatar is to give it more awareness, and show that I envy asexuals (as I truly do wish I was one.. :/)

Once again, I'm sorry I came off as rude.. :/ Me and you are cool, ya know? :3
I'd be seen as a loser no matter what.
 

SoL-JoS

Fasto catto and LPW's #1 ~C U S S~ expert
.. I'm sorry for sounding harsh.. :/

I didn't mean you did that! I meant like..that's how society is portrayed. Like as if Everyone must have sex and if you don't, then something's wrong with you or you're a "loser" or so..
What sucks more is that it's kinda sexist how that stigma is portrayed too..If a female doesn't want to have a sexually active lifestyle, it's not a huge deal..but if it's a Guy, it's like "OMG, A GUY WHO'S A VIRGIN" like, big freaking deal..
It's one of the many reasons why I support Asexuality too. Not everyone wants to have it / wants to have relationships. So my avatar is to give it more awareness, and show that I envy asexuals (as I truly do wish I was one.. :/)

Once again, I'm sorry I came off as rude.. :/ Me and you are cool, ya know? :3
still <3 u. Just regretting my own life decisions here.
 

SoL-JoS

Fasto catto and LPW's #1 ~C U S S~ expert
I'd be seen as a loser no matter what.
Oh don't you do that. I'm happy to have you as a friend. You're no loser. You're a winner. That's why you win LPW so much.
Bitch
 

WXYZ

No longer using this site
I didn't mean you did that! I meant like..that's how society is portrayed. Like as if Everyone must have sex and if you don't, then something's wrong with you or you're a "loser" or so..
What sucks more is that it's kinda sexist how that stigma is portrayed too..If a female doesn't want to have a sexually active lifestyle, it's not a huge deal..but if it's a Guy, it's like "OMG, A GUY WHO'S A VIRGIN" like, big freaking deal..
It's one of the many reasons why I support Asexuality too. Not everyone wants to have it / wants to have relationships. So my avatar is to give it more awareness, and show that I envy asexuals (as I truly do wish I was one.. :/)

I am of the same opinion (although I'm not asexual).
 

The Matte-Black Cat

Dark/Psychic-Timid Nature-Often lost in thought
I'd be seen as a loser no matter what.

No, you are Not a loser and never will be. :3

still <3 u. Just regretting my own life decisions here.

I <3 you too! :3 Don't dwell on it too much, you still have a lot ahead of you, and many more better people to meet too. :3

I am of the same opinion (although I'm not asexual).

That's awesome :cool: It's really good to see more people feel the same way. :3
 

Tyno

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I'd be seen as a loser no matter what.
If they see you as a loser they are most likely aren't your friend. You should only care about disappointing your friends. Or not care at all. Just know if you take my words into consideration it doesn't work in a click it's gradual.
 
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