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Mikazuki Marazhu

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KiaraTC said:
Hi, I recommend instead of using a public furry forum to talk about matters like this, you use a free website that does counseling. 7Cups is one I use often. This really isn't the place for this particular matter.
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I don't mind her talking here and I'm sure there are people who can talk her out, I think the issue Ovi had is just her/him making multiple threads about her depression and whatnot.
 
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Okami_No_Heishi

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I am 42 years old. And I can say this: getting mental health care in this country, The Good Ole USA, IS NOT EASY!! Ovi, you have no idea how hard it is. You are 18, and don't know shit! You know nothing about other peoples problems, just your own. Sorry to hear about your friend trying to off themselves, but those are YOUR experiences! There are 400 million people in this country, and only about 100 million have healthcare. Obama this, Trump that, the numbers don't lie! And without insurance of your own, you can forget getting help through the government! Trust me on this. I know first hand. And even if you are flat broke, that doesn't guarantee you will get help through medicare or medicaid. You have to meet the criteria. And unless you are a full on adult, noone is going to try to help you without your parents consent first. So stop badgering poor kids who want to vent their frustrations and depressions! What may have worked for you, doesn't mean it will work for others!
 
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Okami_No_Heishi

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Huffy said:
yes I know the last journal was all coocoo and what not but...I tried to leave this site TWICE!!! and couldn't because of unfinished business that tormented my damn mind...you see...I have autism...pretty common in the furry community...and...I find it hard...to word things and get out my emotions in a sensible manner...I don't always mean what I mean and...there isn't really a thread for venting if you think about it, and it really didn't help with the kinda sarcastic comments...but seriously...I'm nit trying to make people sad...I'm just..."very disturbed" as one would say
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And anytime you want to come vent, you are more than welcome here!Some folks can't handle that, so just ignore them. Better yet, the block feature works wonders for mental health reasons!
 
Yakamaru

Yakamaru

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Ovi the Dragon said:
It's not my job to be nice. I have mental illness. Anxiety disorder and depression. When you need help, a hug fest or pity party will not suffice. Only professional help will do. I know it works because it's helped me.
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*huggles the derg with his evil woofer embrace*

And I am proud of you, standing up to your challenges and facing them. It take honesty to acknowledge having problems. It takes courage to face them.

If you ever need someone to talk to, you know where to find me. <3

To OP:

As Bear(don't really know what to call you, so I'll just go with that) on the first page mentioned, we have a Vent thread where you can vent your problems/frustrations. And possibly find some solutions and/or advice.

Worst case scenario, find someone who seem reasonable and send them a DM. Just make sure you don't release any personal information. Ever.
 
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Infrarednexus

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We all have issues in our lives that we need to deal with. Sometimes that includes making a vent thread. I personally like to see a therapist to talk about my problems, and I recommend seeing one yourself. It really improved my personal life and made me a happier person and allowed me to feel more in control with my life all together. Your not alone in this world. Many people will happily help you.
 
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Okami_No_Heishi said:
I am 42 years old. And I can say this: getting mental health care in this country, The Good Ole USA, IS NOT EASY!! Ovi, you have no idea how hard it is. You are 18, and don't know shit! You know nothing about other peoples problems, just your own. Sorry to hear about your friend trying to off themselves, but those are YOUR experiences! There are 400 million people in this country, and only about 100 million have healthcare. Obama this, Trump that, the numbers don't lie! And without insurance of your own, you can forget getting help through the government! Trust me on this. I know first hand. And even if you are flat broke, that doesn't guarantee you will get help through medicare or medicaid. You have to meet the criteria. And unless you are a full on adult, noone is going to try to help you without your parents consent first. So stop badgering poor kids who want to vent their frustrations and depressions! What may have worked for you, doesn't mean it will work for others!
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Right right because I'm 18 I can't possibly know how things work. I'm sorry I guess I'll just stop talking until I get to be like 40. :/ Forgive my sarcasm but it's annoying that someone would throw my experiences out the window because I'm 18 even though I have gone through the terrible bullshit the OP has gone through. I do "know shit" because I experienced it first hand in one of the worst states on every ranking. Oklahoma has been the lowest of the low when it comes to ranks among states for everything. So please, just because you say your age doesn't null any of what I said. Professional help should always be sought.
 
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Yakamaru said:
*huggles the derg with his evil woofer embrace*

And I am proud of you, standing up to your challenges and facing them. It take honesty to acknowledge having problems. It takes courage to face them.

If you ever need someone to talk to, you know where to find me. <3

To OP:

As Bear(don't really know what to call you, so I'll just go with that) on the first page mentioned, we have a Vent thread where you can vent your problems/frustrations. And possibly find some solutions and/or advice.

Worst case scenario, find someone who seem reasonable and send them a DM. Just make sure you don't release any personal information. Ever.
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*hugs back* Thanks Yaka :p
 
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BahgDaddy

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How about we just
A. Let people vent if they want to,
B. Offer them help where we can, and
C. Inform them they need a therapist where needed.

There. Now everyone is happy. o_O
 
Yakamaru

Yakamaru

Woof? Woof
Huffy said:
..I should've never opened this fucking thread...it's like facebook up in here...
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Eh, don't worry about it. It's kinda the usual going on here, to be honest.

Some want to give advice, some just want to shoot them down. Some just want to start drama.
 
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Ginza beat me to it. Call the suicide prevention hotline and once you calm down, seek help. Being suicidal is not good at all and is severe enough that you will get help for it.
 
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