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Black Burn

Well-Known Gopnik
My mother says that I can be even gay for her, but my fsther if he would know thst I'm bi... He sayed thst he will kill me even if he will go to jail... So nope, I'm not coming out to them
 
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Kiaara

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Well my father is kinda conservative in this terms, my mother is more progressive so my parents have debstes in this topic...
If my grandmother ever found out I was bi she would try and lock me in a room with nothing but a bible and some holy water... Maybe a blessed sandwich idk man
my grandmother won't even condone me dating someone whos skin color is diffrent. She has no control over my life though
2. 14 yr old girl, 17 yr old boy.
I bet ya'll go through a lot of asprin
 

P_Dragon

Well-Known Member
I know how you feel as far as "a little scary" goes. Bhutrflai is actually trying to get me to go to FWA for a day. Furry Weekend Atlanta is probably the second biggest con in the US next to AnthroCon. I just dont know if I am ready.:eek::eek:
Yall should go! I'm thinking about doing the same thing this year, but that's TBD.

... Maybe a blessed sandwich idk man
This just killed me. I'm dead. LOL. Your family sounds like mine though. Alabamians :rolleyes:
 
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Okami_No_Heishi

Guest
If my grandmother ever found out I was bi she would try and lock me in a room with nothing but a bible and some holy water... Maybe a blessed sandwich idk man
my grandmother won't even condone me dating someone whos skin color is diffrent. She has no control over my life though

I bet ya'll go through a lot of asprin
Yes. Yes we do. Matter of fact, I think I need a BC powder.;)
 

TheLaughingLion1

Just a jovial lion...
Me and bhutrflai have very open minds. She was being ate up with anxiety, I could tell, and I finally confronted her about it. To see the weight lifted off her shoulders was a good thing. Idk if she thought we wouldnt agree with it or what, but she should've known better. I love my kids. Nothing will change that.
Your kids are very lucky. I’m not even sure what i am for sure yet, but i know im not typical/hetero. I just cannot talk to my father about something like that, he’s anti-everything and there’s no telling what he may do to himself and/or me. I only finally feel safe enough to find out about myself now because i live multiple states away. >.>
 

bhutrflai

Okami The Wolf is my crazy half!
I know how you feel as far as "a little scary" goes. Bhutrflai is actually trying to get me to go to FWA for a day. Furry Weekend Atlanta is probably the second biggest con in the US next to AnthroCon. I just dont know if I am ready.:eek::eek:
Don't you dare try to put this down as MY idea. Oh hell no!! You've been jonesing to go to FWA since you first found the furries. I'm the voice of reason & said NO! And just because I looked it up doesn't mean a damn thing, crazy wolf. As I told you last night, I'd only do this for you.

And if you couldn't find the gumption (read: balls) to talk to a group of furries at Momo, what makes you think you'll survive a whole con of them?!?!

(I'm just picking, my love! But it HAS always been YOUR idea. Don't try to pass it off on me.)
 

Black Burn

Well-Known Gopnik
I would so fail Religion. I stopped paying attention to that shit decades ago. To me it is equal to believing Zeus existed. Fairytales are fun until people start killing each other over them.
To be honest we aren't doing anythinf there, no one respects this subject, sometimes we have and make notes about church hierarchy, church marriage and other shit like you know very bad sodom sin (homosexualism), and sometimes we just do nothing
 

bhutrflai

Okami The Wolf is my crazy half!
If my grandmother ever found out I was bi she would try and lock me in a room with nothing but a bible and some holy water... Maybe a blessed sandwich idk man
my grandmother won't even condone me dating someone whos skin color is diffrent.
This was my mother. She was very set in her ways and was not very open minded about much of anything. And as much as I miss her, I am grateful that she can't give our daughter any crap about being gay.
 

bhutrflai

Okami The Wolf is my crazy half!
Your kids are very lucky. I’m not even sure what i am for sure yet, but i know im not typical/hetero. I just cannot talk to my father about something like that, he’s anti-everything and there’s no telling what he may do to himself and/or me. I only finally feel safe enough to find out about myself now because i live multiple states away. >.>
I really hate parents who cannot accept their children for who & what they are. I grew up in a very strict house & I always told myself that I would be more open & love my own kids no matter what. Hoping I've achieved that at least.
 

bhutrflai

Okami The Wolf is my crazy half!
Haha. She put her phone down and walked into the kitchen. She really does love me. I have driven her crazy these last two years over Furries. I Love her for not shooting me. :)
You are such a shit! And crazy doesn't even being to cover it! Better be glad I haven't smothered you in your sleep for all the awooing, but you did that bf you became a furry so I guess you get a pass there. But you do take it to a whole new level of extremes!
 

Malachi The Wolfo

who knows how deep the rabbit hole goes
ugh, I am sooooo tired, I had bowling on Saturday, and bowled on Sunday, my mom bowled a 227. At least my sister's 200 doesn't bother me anymore.
 

Black Burn

Well-Known Gopnik
I could say to my mother that I'm bi, and she would force my father to accept it, but I don't want to break relations with my dad and who knows hoe my grabdmither and the rest of my family would react to it... As I know only my aunt and mother are tolerant...
 

bhutrflai

Okami The Wolf is my crazy half!
I could say to my mother that I'm bi, and she would force my father to accept it, but I don't want to break relations with my dad and who knows hoe my grabdmither and the rest of my family would react to it... As I know only my aunt and mother are tolerant...
Only you can decide if it's worth it to tell someone, knowing how theyll react. But as we told our daughters girlfriend, sometimes you just have to stay under the radar, until you are old enough to make your own decisions in life. (And that means that if mom & dad are still paying bills for you, then they still have a say in your life. Gotta be able to support yourself if things do turn sour.)

You will know when the time is right.
 
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