I think it's ok for men to cry, but then if a manly man sees another man crying he thinks the other man is gay. Anyway, someone said to me crying is just a wasted emotion, that it doesn't solve anything.
When I'm on stage and I want to get an emotional response, I do something that leads usually to force myself to cry, and thus over half of the audience. And I notice that men do indeed cry.
Perfect example... that monologue from Forrest Gump, where hes talking to his dead wife and places the kid's letter against the tree... I made a 31 year old acting professor cry, I think that's some credit. It's definately okay.
It's annoying that society even makes us ask this question. It does, of course, and my answer is a resounding "of course!"
I actually read a very interesting sociological essay on the topic once (the details of which I'll spare you), but my complaint to wage here is that some idiots long ago who decided crying was somehow "girly" screwed it up for the rest of us.
If something makes me sad enough to cry, I will and anyone around me who thinks less of me for it can bite me. ^_^
You might want to be careful about that Kiniel. We are furries after all, some of us with very shape teeth. Although I do agree with you, when I feel like crying I cry and I don't give a shit what others think.