Yee to the haw
Yeah, sorry about that. I could have worded myself better without coming off like an ass.And to be perfectly blunt and personal for a second, the way you ended your first post didn't read as very supportive to me.
This reads to me as "If you want to make poor life choices, that's on you. Don't come crying to me when you inevitably fail." Which is kind of dickish. Particularly when there wasn't really any reason to say that aside from taking a jab at people, like me, who are in these kinds of relationships. It might not have been your intent, but can you at least see how this can come off? This has nothing to do with the topic. It adds nothing to the discussion. And it's hurtful to think that someone who doesn't even know me thinks I'm making a shitty decision by loving two guys at the same time.
And no. I am not saying you're making a poor life choice. What I am saying is that in a monogamous relationship there are already potential issues. Adding more people adds more potential issues, and such a type of relationship isn't for the majority of people. I am however for it to be legalized as I am not interested in getting in between people's happiness, within reason of course.