Should I be Afraid?

[Belladonna Starfire]

My boyfriend recently told me her was a furry, I just as recent figured out that I am one too. I love him very much and I'm just afraid that he may find someone else. I may be just acting stupid which is usually the case but I just want to know....::sigh:: I dunno what I want to know, If you understood this in any way please let me know what to do or something.

~!!~ Bella

 

[ExTo]

You realize he frequents this very forum and will see this, right?

There's something contrived around here.

 

[Belladonna Starfire]

yes I realize that I want to talk to him about it but I dunno how to approach it so I figure maybe your guys can help me out... after all you helped him out by telling me... grrr just frustrated and insecure. I appreciate you taking the time to talk to me

 

[Skullmiser]

I do not believe that your problem is related to this website. I believe your problem is of a more personal nature. If you do believe that people related to these discussions can be of assistance, perhaps you should specify your concerns. For example: What evidence is there to support your suspicions?

 

[Belladonna Starfire]

That is a good question and I thank you for asking it. I really don't have any real back up It's just there are things that I feel bad for that he says I shouldn't. I agree that it is probably a personal issue but he's comfortable around you guys and I just figured maybe I can get some advice.

 

[Takun]

You are afraid of your boyfriend in real life leaving you for someone over the internet? Ok, take a few deep breaths and try to figure out where your trust issues first arose.

 

[pheonix]

You realize he frequents this very forum and will see this, right?

There's something contrived around here.

yeah I found this immediately upon my logging in and now I guess I'm obligated to talk to her about this.

 

[Takun]

You say boyfriend and her and I'm confused....

 

[x_panther]

*headhurts* ummm... care to restate that initial post? x.x; no comprende

 

[Rilvor]

You have as much trust as you do Golds.

Protip: relationships are about communication. The other should definitely come before the crackpot opinions of others, much less an internet forum.

 

[HiroJudgement]

Talk to him.

Not people who don't exist on the internet.

 

[Alblaka]

*confused*
Either i'm totally wrong or all the others (referring to that, they've written), so i think, it's me...
Is HE a furry or the mysterious "her" in the first sentence. And when it's the last one, who is "her"?

 

[Myoki]

*confused*
Either i'm totally wrong or all the others (referring to that, they've written), so i think, it's me...
Is HE a furry or the mysterious "her" in the first sentence. And when it's the last one, who is "her"?

In this sentence, correct?

My boyfriend recently told me her was a furry

I'm fairly certain the OP meant "he", not "her".

 

[Alblaka]

In this sentence, correct?



I'm fairly certain the OP meant "he", not "her".

Then i can't see any problem ^^
If he was (He isn't now? Damn, theres a cure against furryness...) he still knows what it means to be a furry, so i'm sure he could really understand it. Maybe your... *looing into dic* confession will make him furry again ^^

The only bad thing, what could happen (but is really un... *dic* -probably) is that he ran screaming away, cuz he had a really bad experience that made him not be a furry...

 

[capthavoc123]

What about him being a furry makes you believe he will cheat on you?

I think you have some preconceived notions that you need to work out.

 

[Kama]

I think It's all in your head.
Just trust him unless he's giving you reasons to believe that he is cheating or whatever then just stop thinking about it.
Trust him.

 

[Hippotaur2]

A relationship without honest, open communication is doomed to fail.

Get off the internet, sit next to him, hold his hand, and tell him your concerns from your heart.

 

[Belladonna Starfire]

I'm just a little confused and I'm sorry for the typo. He kinda talked about it, It's just very hard to talk to HIM about stuff, and I don't even know how to approach a lot of it. GRRRR

::sigh::

 

[WhisperPntr]

what are the issues about? DO they have to do with the fandom or something else? IS there anything you both disagree with because right now it seems very cryptic.

 

[Loke]

Yeah, I think what everyone is trying to understand is why are you afraid he's going to find someone else?

 

[Belladonna Starfire]

I kinda figured out what my issue is I spoke to him and I figured out that I'm just afraid of being hurt. I thank all of you for your help. I am kinda new on here but I didn't know how to tell him certain things and I had hoped you all could help me and you did in your own way so thanks. I really mean that, if any of you need anything please don't be like me. ask.

 

[gunnerboy]

all you have really done is add something to your relationship, it shouldn't weaken it, but make it stronger