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Dj_whoohoo

Dj_whoohoo

Member
There is this guy I have like a bromance/crush on. But he doesn't know, and it would be akward for me to approach him because he's most likely not gay. Neither am I, I did write a long time ago that I am bi curious but I never approach another guy to ask out or stuff.

I been trying to spend time with him , like sit near him and make small talk. He looks preppy and snobby. But is not , he is actually a pretty funny and cool. Understand stuff I say, I'm considered the class clown and when I make references to things he gets all of them.

And well damn, pretty good looking. So I don't know, i am trying to be like real good friends with him. I only see him during my last class, and that class goes by quick. He is funny, smart , good looking, I get dirty thoughts about him.

So furry community what should I do, how should I handle the situation?
 
Saiko

Saiko

GTWT Survivor
Find a hobby you have in common. If you don't, see if you're interested in any of his. I remember in 9th grade, I had a friend/acquaintance in the little circle I was in. I saw him daily but didn't talk to him much, so we really weren't very good friends. At the start of 10th grade, I noticed he was playing around with cards; one of his hobbies was card tricks. Why was this important? I used to do them as well. Two years later he's my closest friend as well as my coworker.

I just got back from his house actually after figuring out what we're gonna do for our show tomorrow. xD

Focus on becoming friends first. Then build that friendship over time. Until then, try to put the crush on the back burner.
 
veeno

veeno

See ya latter ****ers.
First you leed him into your torture dungeon......
 
J

JArt.

Member
If he's not gay maybe you should just remain close friends, He might wind up like me and my straight friends he'll build a close bond too you and one day something will happen exepct that doesnt totally make him gay or anything but atleast it will maybe open the doors?
 
Dj_whoohoo

Dj_whoohoo

Member
dinosaurdammit said:
Asking a furry forum is a sure as hell way to not handle the situation :V
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I'm handling the situation, I thought asking the Internet especially furries, would know a way I can do this better.

I just don't know how to talk to him just as a friend I get nervous.

Oh and that crush thing I'll keep to myself for a while.
 
Aetius

Aetius

It's Me Gordon, Barney from Black Mesa
Tie him up and hide him in a shed.

Best way of asking someone out to prom.
 
K

Kaamos

Guest
Corner him in the locker room while he's changing and make suggestive comments while slowly leaning toward him.
 
Aidy

Aidy

they call me yolo swaggins
Sarukai said:
I thought spiking the punch with psychotics was the best way to ask someone out to the prom? :V
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No, no, that's the best way for pseudo-rape. Kidnapping is always best for the prom :v
 
J

JArt.

Member
Commit a crime and frame him as well as incriminating yourself, once you go to jail you'll have way more boyfriends then just him. ;)
 
S

Sar

Guest
Aidy70060 said:
No, no, that's the best way for pseudo-rape. Kidnapping is always best for the prom :v
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Why compromise? Do both.

You could instead spike the punch bowl, then kidnap him.
That way no one will be able to recall it if everyone drinks the punch.

Then bring him to the shed and bang him like a Snare Drum! :V
 
Aidy

Aidy

they call me yolo swaggins
Sarukai said:
Why compromise? Do both.

You could instead spike the punch bowl, then kidnap him.
That way no one will be able to recall it if everyone drinks the punch.

Then bring him to the shed and bang him like a Snare Drum! :V
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Smart, do this OP. Sounds like it'd work.
 
Heimdal

Heimdal

has a sexy learning disability
Are you talking about Garrus, from the Mass Effect series? Because I have a huge man-crush on him too. You don't have to worry how you handle it though, because he's not real.

Also, fuck off. You can have that douche James instead.
 
Dj_whoohoo

Dj_whoohoo

Member
Oh wow lol, well okay I'll try it the internet way :v
;)
Thanks for the suggestions
 
Sarcastic Coffeecup

Sarcastic Coffeecup

Hand. Cannot. Erase.
Go to him, smile politely and say: "Buttsecks now or I'll follow you home and kill your dog"
 
LouyieBlu

LouyieBlu

Contemplative Nitwit
Saiko said:
Find a hobby you have in common. If you don't, see if you're interested in any of his. I remember in 9th grade, I had a friend/acquaintance in the little circle I was in. I saw him daily but didn't talk to him much, so we really weren't very good friends. At the start of 10th grade, I noticed he was playing around with cards; one of his hobbies was card tricks. Why was this important? I used to do them as well. Two years later he's my closest friend as well as my coworker.

I just got back from his house actually after figuring out what we're gonna do for our show tomorrow. xD

Focus on becoming friends first. Then build that friendship over time. Until then, try to put the crush on the back burner.
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Ok I have scrolled like half way down the page and Saiko is one of the few who put a well thought out actual answer...sigh

I agree, put the crush on hold, and build up a good friendship. But there is the chance that being in the friend zone would stop anything from happening, but if there is actual chemistry there, a friendship shouldn't stop anything. Give it time see were it goes.
Edit: Derpz i just remembered: be honest no matter what. Anything else so I dont have to edit this again...I dont think so.
 
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Dj_whoohoo

Dj_whoohoo

Member
Thanks saiko and Lou blu I'll do that.

Stalking, drugging and raping probably not going to get me far lol. But yeah ;)
 
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