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Things That You Hate v3.0

Kellan Meig'h

Kilted Luthier
I hate when people working on the house next to me use my yard as a repository for their construction debris. I also hate it when they say "I'll have it cleaned up today" and for some odd reason, the pile gets higher. I'm giving them one more day, then I'm hiring a crew to clean it up and send the bill to the OUT OF STATE property owner.

I also hate out of state or out of town property owners in general. Out of sight, out of mind.
 

Netanye Dakabi

people call me queen
the police took one of my gun pig pair as it might be evidence and as a matter of security all we asked was whethr they had one or both of them because if they only had one then whoever has the other one can make another one and be potentially dangerous.

so we explained this to the authorities and said "do you have both pigs? because if you don't then it's a security issue and you should try to find the other one.".
we told them that they didn't have to tell us whether they did or didn't as long as they are aware of the implications and were taking the right course of action.

well they just ignored us and we were like "we're not confident that you're aware of how serious this is. please tell me you'll consider this.".
and they just continued to ignore us.

WEEKS LATER the police start trying to charge us for publicly releasing the pig.
NO WAY. the authorities lost the other pig because they ignored the warnings.

After months of hassle we were shown to have taken every available action.
The authorities got the blame.
And this could have been solved much more simply if the aauthorities had actually listened to us.

Now the whole internet has ballistic schematics because the police lost track of their own eveidence.
ALL THEY HAD TO DO was TELL US they lost it and we could have tracked it down before it was a problem.
We even TOLD THEM how to track it down and they ignored us.

# the police.
 

sleepy kitty

frisky feline
I hated lugging my 50+ lb package up two flights of stairs today. Also hated putting what was inside of it together. But good news: I now own exercise equipment~
 

ShephardWolf

Metal Misanthrope
I used to be a fairly happy person, now I'm hateful, angry, anxious, stressed, worried, in bad health, and apathetic every day. Only very few things make me happy anymore, and they are out of reach a lot of the time. A huge part of me just wants to observe the world collapse all together already, instead of slowly crumbling in this shitshow of a universe we always pretend is a wonderful thing but is in fact, by the laws of physics, bestial to living organisms. Happiness and joy are merely coping and survival mechanisms in a world that's fundamentally cruel and assailing to its inhabitants.
 

MarkOfBane

Well-Known Member
Happiness and joy are merely coping and survival mechanisms in a world that's fundamentally cruel and assailing to its inhabitants.
The world, perhaps. But humans do not have to be cruel; we are given a choice - living for ourselves, or living for others. Those who seek their own fulfillment ultimately find emptiness. Those who seek to fulfill others, out of a genuine desire to bring happiness and joy, are themselves fulfilled.

I have before (and, regrettably, occasionally still do) sought fulfillment in empty things such as mindless video games, pornography, social media, and keeping up on politics and the world. Momentary, meaningless, and incredibly selfish (some moreso than others), such pursuits only ever bear fruits of temporary pleasure. Early on in college, I decided to become an educator - not because I enjoy talking in front of crowds or being seen as an authority on some subject, but because I fell in love with helping others in their stumbles towards their dreams. My years of teaching were my happiest years so far, and I have been a much happier person since.

You don't have to choose any particular career path to make a positive change in the world; we are given such opportunities when we step out into society. There are so many ways you can make positive differences, big and small, in the lives of others – often, in ways they will never be given the opportunity to reciprocate back to you (and frankly, that’s the beauty of it). Wear a smile instead of a frown. Choose to forgive instead of holding a grudge or lashing out. Help people who are in need. Complement the clothing of a passerby. Thank your gas station attendant, cashier, waiter, and nurse by name. In essence, be unexpected in good ways; be the glimmer of color in the stark bleakness and preformulated apathy of modern society.
 
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MM13

Active Member
I already mentioned the being blocked thing and how it irks me when someone I genuinely likes blocks me but still...I wish there was a way to cope with it other than evading by going onto other sites. I mean I suck at coping with this.
 

MarkOfBane

Well-Known Member
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anonfoxer

trans girl, arctic fox, dingus.
I already mentioned the being blocked thing and how it irks me when someone I genuinely likes blocks me but still...I wish there was a way to cope with it other than evading by going onto other sites. I mean I suck at coping with this.
Best way to cope with it is just to move on. Dont try and get around it, dont try and get back into contact. They did it for a reason, and if thats the case, you leave it be and keep going.
 

sleepy kitty

frisky feline
I hate it when the coffee shop is out of creamer AND half & half
 

Kellan Meig'h

Kilted Luthier
I hate it when the market is out of light roast whole bean coffee. I don't like pre-ground StarSchmucks because they grind it to dust.
 

ShephardWolf

Metal Misanthrope
The world, perhaps. But humans do not have to be cruel; we are given a choice - living for ourselves, or living for others. Those who seek their own fulfillment ultimately find emptiness. Those who seek to fulfill others, out of a genuine desire to bring happiness and joy, are themselves fulfilled.

I have before (and, regrettably, occasionally still do) sought fulfillment in empty things such as mindless video games, pornography, social media, and keeping up on politics and the world. Momentary, meaningless, and incredibly selfish (some moreso than others), such pursuits only ever bear fruits of temporary pleasure. Early on in college, I decided to become an educator - not because I enjoy talking in front of crowds or being seen as an authority on some subject, but because I fell in love with helping others in their stumbles towards their dreams. My years of teaching were my happiest years so far, and I have been a much happier person since.

You don't have to choose any particular career path to make a positive change in the world; we are given such opportunities when we step out into society. There are so many ways you can make positive differences, big and small, in the lives of others – often, in ways they will never be given the opportunity to reciprocate back to you (and frankly, that’s the beauty of it). Wear a smile instead of a frown. Choose to forgive instead of holding a grudge or lashing out. Help people who are in need. Complement the clothing of a passerby. Thank your gas station attendant, cashier, waiter, and nurse by name. In essence, be unexpected in good ways; be the glimmer of color in the stark bleakness and preformulated apathy of modern society.
Being for others in any way shape or form has backfired right back into my face, as if I wasn't worthy of the same treatment.
 

sleepy kitty

frisky feline
Microwave at work overcooked one side of the food, and didn't even warm the other. :mad:
Aaaa I hate that too! Especially when the food is still semi frozen in the middle, after heating it up for the recommended time and wattage!
 

MM13

Active Member
Best way to cope with it is just to move on. Dont try and get around it, dont try and get back into contact. They did it for a reason, and if thats the case, you leave it be and keep going.
I know that, it's just that I admit I can be stubborn and I can be an asshole (but not always, I try to be nice but sometimes there are people who pretty much just complain about you even after they've blocked you and i'm like...'seriously,, you're whining about me after you've just blocked me and I have told you that I am not going to contact you again? Can't you just get a life? Yeah i'm an asshole but I didn't need you to confirm that. Aren't you being just as bad?'), the bara fetish-guy was like that, then again he started the whole thing by acting like a douchebag and accusing me of doing a revenge-fic about me transforming him, he was the one who started it by chastising me about doing a transformation concept that involves a virus that just so happened to take place during the first wave of covid and it got him all triggered...'you're making a wacky fetish out of it'...oh come on, the fake virus I made up has nothing to do with COVID apart from a 10's number in the title, it doesn't have all of the same signs as COVID, it doesn't have people dying like COVID, so cut the 'Kim, there are people that are dying' crap, if you can't take a joke, then maybe you shouldn't be online. Oh and it doesn't help that he chastized me on Twitter, accusing me of writing said revenge-fic about him. Well i'm sorry mister but if you think it's about you and get triggered easily, you shouldn't be online to begin with and are a paranoid delusional nitwit. What did Bernadonner see in that guy anyway, oh yeah...he's probably one of the reasons she became obsessed with anime transformations. If I was her I would have kicked him out, told him straight to his face he is a dickhead and gotten him banned on every site he's on. The artist I mentioned in that previous post, I felt bad for him...yes, acting all simpering and apologetic isn't my strong suit, I can be an asshole yes but I wouldn't outright do to him anything horrible.

Oh and the idiot thought I was accusing him of necrophilia...look, I misread his Deviantart header and that header read 'i'd fuck a zombie' I KNOW that now, it's just I misread it as 'i'd fuck a corpse', and come on...it's not like everyone doesn't know this dude simps over Brian from Monster Prom a whole lot. I mean everyone knows he's a Brian simp, the lights are on, but he's not home, his mind is not his own. So I ignore him for the remainder of last year only for him to come back near the end of December to do a hateful status post on Deviantart, oh so according to him i'm not allowed to vent using an OC but it's perfectly fine to protect his own sexual fantasies onto people using his art featuring bara-fied versions of almost any male character he can think of? Look, what I do with my character is my own buisness and not any of his, you don't see me going...'hey douchebag, why don't you do a transformation that involves a woman for once instead of your usual crap of turning yourself or some other guy into an overly masculine man with more body hair than Robin Williams?' do you? Of course not. I use my monster OC for venting and ranting, so what? I write my OC's material, but I am not my OC. Anyone who thinks so is stupid. I respect the artist I like's decision to block me and all but I basicaly became a little too obsessed with this guy after he did so. So the bara-guy is a bit of a contradictory hypocrite, he tells me to leave him alone on more than one ocassion and then tells me if I want to vent about it I should tell it to his face, uhhh...isn't that just inviting me to berate him and trash-talk him, I mean isn't that just begging for him to get his ass-kicked? 'Hey look it's me, the bara-fetish guy. I've been a shithead to some of you so i'm inviting you to kick my sorry ass.'

So I promise to leave him alone, yeah I post a post on the character-tf-group (an apology if you will) only to get a response from him, this was January or February of this year and he says 'apologies not excepted and I told you to stop trying to contact us', fair enough but the bastard spelled the wrong word...it's ACCEPT and NOT EXCEPT. Fine if he wants me to leave him and his friends alone, I will but did he have to be such a douche about it? Yes I feel terrible about how I pretty much attempted to block evade that artist I like and his friends by harassing them and attemtping to get them to do it and I agree with that guy's reason for doing so (as seen here: https://www.tumgir.com/jasper-rolls) but still...part of that was because damn it, I miss Bernadonner. Yeah I took her for granted and vilified her just for deciding to leave me, but only because I couldn't cope, I just can't cope with a friend I grew attached to leaving me, I just couldn't. And I wish that our last two conversations didn't end with her questioning what my real name is (she didn't even have a real name at all since she kept changing her name/username every few weeks or so), yes I was horrible to her, and I know that she says we didn't have anything in common apart from liking the same things but I didn't see that way, I saw it as her being the only real friend I ever had OL who wasn't a troll. And it hurts me equally as much as it does her because there are RPs I did with her that didn't get a proper conclusion or didn't even get finished at all and i've still been looking to replace her ever since. She invited me to the mature RP server, yes but she didn't tell me it was a mature one. I checked all my notes on DA and there was not a single one from her telling me it was a mature server. I had to get told it was a mature server by the afforementioned guy I talked about and that was the only 'nice' conversation I ever had with that dude. And yet I decided to leave the group because I felt uncomfortable, I just didn't feel like talking about myself to the other members and that's why I left.

I admit I can be an asshole and I can get way too obsessed sometimes. And I understand how he thinks that I treat people who I consider my friends thorribly sometimes.
 
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Nexus Cabler

Abstract Concepts Coordinator
One thing I hated was when I was in school, sometimes the lights would go out in the room during class, and there was always some student who screamed at the top of their lungs like we all were about to die. It didn't help that I experience sensory overload and sudden loud noises really frighten me.
 

Nexus Cabler

Abstract Concepts Coordinator
I hate

when strangers Dm me

on Discord

And talk like this

short reply

after short reply

spamming my inbox

putting me on edge

getting a ping every 3 seconds

I tell then to stop and why it’s bothering me

They then go on and say

“oh”

“sorry”

“my mistake”

“I didn’t know”

“I’ll leave you alone”

“Sheesh”

*20 seconds later*

“We don’t know each other well but I hope you don’t mind me asking if we could try an RP later, kinda horny”
 
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MM13

Active Member
My least favorite is this one specific RP character trope where the person is basically playing themselves and there is all this build-up about how supposedly likable this character is only for them half-way through the RP to decide...'screw this, being human sucks. I am going to be turned into a monster so I am going to be evil and help the monster who turned me take over the world', seriously....are we supposed to route for this guy when his sole trait is that he or she is a total two-faced biggot who decides to make a Face Heel Turn simply because they hate humanity? Are we supposed to like this guy? Because if someone I knew acted like that, i'd kick that guy's ass.
 

Cosmic-FS

A creature of the night
People who unironically use the phrase "it's the principle of the thing".

They are the kinds of people who, for whatever reason, can not acknowledge that there are grey areas in everything. They will fight tooth and nail against something they agree is a good thing but are against because it vaguely, sorta goes against some personal philosophy of theirs. They refuse to ever compromise, and think that is an admirable trait to have.

It's hilarious because the phrase in and of itself is an open admission that the thing they're arguing against is trivial and not worth the effort but will still not back down.
 
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