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Things That You Hate v3.0

Hir

my name is lucifer, pleased to meet you.
i don't live in a flat, max

as always you've demonstrated that you're nothing but a compulsive liar

i'd tell you to go where you're wanted but, well, where is that, anyway? :rolleyes:
 

KimberVaile

Officially elected and actual ruler of FAF
i don't live in a flat, max

as always you've demonstrated that you're nothing but a compulsive liar

i'd tell you to go where you're wanted but, well, where is that, anyway? :rolleyes:
To think, this all started because his roommate told him to stop laying across the trash strewn floor and take a bath once in a while.

Max is the stinkiest femboy. UwU
 

Hir

my name is lucifer, pleased to meet you.
max will be back in after he's angrilly turned off his router and turned it back on 12 hours later so it can assign him a new IP address to bypass the ban

yes, i've seen him do this before in his old flat

no, he's unaware you can do this in command prompt in about 10 seconds
 

DieselPowered

Well-Known Member
Does this really serve to accomplish anything?

If the guy's mental stop antagonizing him, it's not hard.
I doubt anyone's hands are clean in this clusterfuck, but it's none of our business. Take it somewhere else.
 

KimberVaile

Officially elected and actual ruler of FAF
max will be back in after he's angrilly turned off his router and turned it back on 12 hours later so it can assign him a new IP address to bypass the ban

yes, i've seen him do this before in his old flat

no, he's unaware you can do this in command prompt in about 10 seconds
How dare you mock somebody who tried to kill you.
 

Hir

my name is lucifer, pleased to meet you.
there's nowhere else to take it. he was convicted in court, i have a restraining order, and i'm done with this. i only came back because he was spreading lies about me again on a public forum which arguably is a breach of the restraining order. as you can see, these are my first posts in... 6 years? i'm sure you all missed me /s

anyway max, for when you inevitably read this (likely in 12 hrs): i hope you're getting the help that you need. being here is not going to help you, it's just going to make you feel worse. just move on, find another muse, and for your own good don't reply to this.
 

DieselPowered

Well-Known Member
How dare you mock somebody who tried to kill you.
He obviously hates you, maybe you're just making things worse for yourself by doing that.

I don't take claims of PTSD or manipulation lightly. If he's being honest there then he's genuinely fucked, and acting like that will only keep the cycle going.
 

KimberVaile

Officially elected and actual ruler of FAF
He obviously hates you, maybe you're just making things worse for yourself by doing that.

I don't take claims of PTSD or manipulation lightly. If he's being honest there then he's genuinely fucked, and acting like that will only keep the cycle going.
I've been dealing with him for years, where I would say nothing and he'd make 2 telegram alts a day to talk about killing a friend to get back at me or how he nearly killed a member of his family due to an argument they had. Almost bi weekly he'd make a bunch of alts on telegram or discord to harass me, with no input from me. Tried it. Didn't work. Shocker.

The problem didn't go away despite trying to ignore it. Yes. I'm fed up. Sue me
It's funny too, as per Noctus''s words, he has a legally enforceable restraining order against Max. But somehow, Noctus shouldn't be saying anything, apparently.
 
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DieselPowered

Well-Known Member
I've been dealing with him for years, where I would say nothing and he'd make 2 telegram alts a day to talk about killing a friend to get back at me or how he nearly killed a member of his family due to an argument they had. Almost bi weekly he'd make a bunch of alts on telegram or discord to harass me, with no input from me. Tried it. Didn't work. Shocker.

The problem didn't go away despite trying to ignore it. Yes. I'm fed up. Sue me
It's funny too, as per Noctus''s words, he has a legally enforceable restraining order against Max. But somehow, Noctus shouldn't be saying anything, apparently.
Obviously that's a gigantic mess, and it's obvious he's done enough to earn people's hate. As i said, i doubt anyone's hands are clean here.
The guy mentioned a breakdown, maybe the killing was part of it. I've known enough soldiers, and heard enough stories, to understand where that can come from. I'm not trying to absolve him of what he did, but ignoring problems only makes them bigger. Obviously they need help, sounds like they needed it more then.

I'm not interested in getting into the usual forum argument over this, i'm just a bystander and personal experience trumps that. It's just important to play devil's advocate from time to time.
So i'm going to wish you a good day, and i hope you don't have this kind of trouble in the future. Same goes to him, if he's genuine about the PTSD.
 

Hir

my name is lucifer, pleased to meet you.
He obviously hates you, maybe you're just making things worse for yourself by doing that.

I don't take claims of PTSD or manipulation lightly. If he's being honest there then he's genuinely fucked, and acting like that will only keep the cycle going.
i was diagnosed with PTSD. i can't attest to his diagnosis - nor is it my business. i have a restraining order for a reason. it's legally enforced. the only thing i ever wanted him to do was leave me alone. he wouldn't - and this went on for well over a year, approaching two. max has a history of this - he obsesses over people and stalks them for years and years. he's probably still stalking his ex of what, 5 years ago now? i am not the first, nor is kimber. consider the fact that i blocked all contact from him - what manipulation could i have possibly done?

the conversation he's referencing is entirely out of context, he knows this, he brings it up constantly because it's all he has against me. i was talking about my own past with an abusive manipulator and how i absorbed their traits and how i'm working on being better. literally, that's all it was.

you might think you understand this guy. but he was like this before his 'breakdown', he'll always be like this. what he actually needs his serious mental help but i've watched him repeatedly refuse it and it's not my business any more. i want him out of my life, i never want him to talk about me again, and even now after going through a court battle he's threatening to come to my "flat" again. he never learns.
 

Hir

my name is lucifer, pleased to meet you.
and frankly, diesel, i'd prefer you don't play devil's advocate when it concerns a real event, with real people, who you are actively talking to right now. it's disingenuous as fuck. in one breath you say it doesn't help anything to talk about it here and the next you're giving your 2 cents. i didn't even want this brought up here dude - the fact he's talking about me in public, a guy who i have a restraining order against, is not how i want to spend my weekend.

As i said, i doubt anyone's hands are clean here.
this isn't an appropriate situation to be all "bUt I'm SuRe EvErYoNe Is In ThE WrOnG". this went to court. he was convicted. i did nothing to deserve being violently stalked and having my life threatened. leave me alone, dude.
 

TyraWadman

The Brutally Honest Man-Child
Obviously that's a gigantic mess, and it's obvious he's done enough to earn people's hate. As i said, i doubt anyone's hands are clean here.
The guy mentioned a breakdown, maybe the killing was part of it. I've known enough soldiers, and heard enough stories, to understand where that can come from. I'm not trying to absolve him of what he did, but ignoring problems only makes them bigger. Obviously they need help, sounds like they needed it more then.

I'm not interested in getting into the usual forum argument over this, i'm just a bystander and personal experience trumps that. It's just important to play devil's advocate from time to time.
So i'm going to wish you a good day, and i hope you don't have this kind of trouble in the future. Same goes to him, if he's genuine about the PTSD.
Genuine or not, there are people that straight up have not let go of a breakup or something and it still gets posted on Facebook/faf/other socials to this day. In this case I doubt silence will do them any favors.

I really wish I knew how brains worked. Its like they're stuck and I wanna know how to make them unstuck.
 

KimberVaile

Officially elected and actual ruler of FAF
Obviously that's a gigantic mess, and it's obvious he's done enough to earn people's hate. As i said, i doubt anyone's hands are clean here.
The guy mentioned a breakdown, maybe the killing was part of it. I've known enough soldiers, and heard enough stories, to understand where that can come from. I'm not trying to absolve him of what he did, but ignoring problems only makes them bigger. Obviously they need help, sounds like they needed it more then.

I'm not interested in getting into the usual forum argument over this, i'm just a bystander and personal experience trumps that. It's just important to play devil's advocate from time to time.
So i'm going to wish you a good day, and i hope you don't have this kind of trouble in the future. Same goes to him, if he's genuine about the PTSD.
Uh huh. Yeah, do lecture the person who got doxxed and harassed on how to properly handle the situation. Clearly you know more about the situation than I do.

I mean, I must attest it was quite cruel of me to abandon somebody as a friend for attempted murder, but hey, I guess I'm just an asshole like that.
I'm sure Ted Bundy would have appreciated the Devil's advocate treatment too.

But sure, you enjoy yourself, this was a pleasant interaction.
 
O

O.D.D.

Guest
He obviously hates you, maybe you're just making things worse for yourself by doing that.

I don't take claims of PTSD or manipulation lightly. If he's being honest there then he's genuinely fucked, and acting like that will only keep the cycle going.
I can assure you DN's hands are clean. He is and always was one of the genuinely nicest and easiest to get along with people I ever knew from old FAF. That and there's no excusing this guy's behavior at this point, he keeps injecting himself into places he 1. shouldn't be in and 2. IS NOT LEGALLY ALLOWED TO BE IN. He needs help, but he will NEVER seek the help he needs, and good luck forcing him to get it.
 

DieselPowered

Well-Known Member
and frankly, diesel, i'd prefer you don't play devil's advocate when it concerns a real event, with real people, who you are actively talking to right now. it's disingenuous as fuck. in one breath you say it doesn't help anything to talk about it here and the next you're giving your 2 cents. i didn't even want this brought up here dude - the fact he's talking about me in public, a guy who i have a restraining order against, is not how i want to spend my weekend.
What can i say, i'm that kind of bastard.

If this isn't how you want to spend the weekend, don't spend it on this. Go and do something you enjoy, and try to forget about it. If you're right then he'll read this, he'll learn or you'll punish him for it. Enjoy your day, same goes to him. Spend it doing something better than letting old wounds fester.
 

DieselPowered

Well-Known Member
Uh huh. Yeah, do lecture the person who got doxxed and harassed on how to properly handle the situation. Clearly you know more about the situation than I do.

I mean, I must attest it was quite cruel of me to abandon somebody as a friend for attempted murder, but hey, I guess I'm just an asshole like that.
I'm sure Ted Bundy would have appreciated the Devil's advocate treatment too.

But sure, you enjoy yourself, this was a pleasant interaction.
Nothing's ever one sided, simple point. Obviously you hate him too, that's fine. Not my business.

Now try to enjoy the rest of your day.
 

DieselPowered

Well-Known Member
yeah, alright buddy!
This isn't my fight, i apologize if i upset you.

I'm reading claims from a bunch of people i don't know, about obviously disturbing events. Frankly i got annoyed that this shit was being dragged on so i said something, obviously i shouldn't have. I'm not touching this again. Hopefully you can all leave the past behind you.
 
I hate that I hurt someone close to me for reasons outside of my control... If you ever read this Tyler, I'm sorry. You deserved better and still do.
 

Nexus Cabler

Conduit of Synergy
-When I get food on me washing the dishes
-Waking up forgetting to have charged my phone overnight
-People suddenly screaming in quiet environments
-The GrubHub commercials (This is mainly the music)
-Bots
-Scratches on disks
-The song 'astronaut in the ocean' and everything it's put in.
 
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