Well words seem to be more moving than anything else right now, might as make sure we're all on the same foot. What more can one do now anyway, beyond words?Would like to say actions speak louder than words (especially in the year 2021). So actions should also come under scrutiny, as well as language used. One isn't more important to analyse than the other, though. Both should be taken into account.
In the age of the internet, I can only say I hope you don't think lesser of anybody based on their identity and hope what you say rings true. I just have trust issues...mostly permeating from experiences in this fandom.
I sure don't, you yourself might even know that. Or perhaps have an inkling of it. However there are a lot of people guilty of this in other ways we're not necessarily talking about right now.