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ChickenEatingCeramicBowl

Pubby, pubby, pubby!
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One of my friends confessed to me... i turned them down because im well... uh... how do i say this... lesbian and they're now contemplating suicide... i've known they've had deppresion for a long time and it REALLY sucked to crush them like that...
Im kinda panicking right now TwT
 

Erix

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One of my friends confessed to me... i turned them down because im well... uh... how do i say this... lesbian and they're now contemplating suicide... i've known they've had deppresion for a long time and it REALLY sucked to crush them like that...
Im kinda panicking right now TwT
What?! Uh ah um, Fc posted a good site to go to and I found this!


The number at the top, um I’ll try and find other stuff!
 

Fcomega121

Friendly Maney | Once Upon a Laugh, all started <3
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One of my friends confessed to me... i turned them down because im well... uh... how do i say this... lesbian and they're now contemplating suicide... i've known they've had deppresion for a long time and it REALLY sucked to crush them like that...
Im kinda panicking right now TwT
Oh no!!
;w;

Don't overworry
Tell them you love and appreciate them
We can help they!

The most important thing here is to let they feel supported and beloved don't worry you're not guilty moon
 

Fcomega121

Friendly Maney | Once Upon a Laugh, all started <3

Erix

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I’m sorry Nunu I feel so out of element right now, I don’t know what to do in this situation either but I’d just try and stay by their side. Try and comfort them? I don’t know much about love, but I’d guess it would hurt a lot hearing what you had to say, but I’m not saying it’s your fault! You can’t change your orientation, so there’s nothing really that can be done about that. In due time, your friend is just going to have to accept it and move on, and i think the best you can do is still show that you want to be there for them
 

Fcomega121

Friendly Maney | Once Upon a Laugh, all started <3

Fcomega121

Friendly Maney | Once Upon a Laugh, all started <3

Punji

Daedric Prince of Secrets
Ofc, it’s 100% no problem

@meeeee uh I don’t know you that well but you gave me vibes that you were an intellectual! We need help! Just read the previous posts! Do you have any good advice?
I can only try!

One of my friends confessed to me... i turned them down because im well... uh... how do i say this... lesbian and they're now contemplating suicide... i've known they've had deppresion for a long time and it REALLY sucked to crush them like that...
Im kinda panicking right now TwT
It may be an exaggerated response to a sudden and significant psychological impact. Your friend may have been building up the courage to ask you for a while, and suddenly to them it all became for nothing and realized fears. This obviously isn't good but if so, he may be able to accept it and feel okay enough.

In my opinion, the best thing you can do right now is to just be there for them. You can still offer them love, even if it's not romantic. Compassion and care make a difference in a person's life, and it can be what they need to accept the emotional pains. They may also be worried the rejection will damage or destroy your friendship, and showing that you're still there for them and still care can help as well.

I wish you the best, good luck. :<
 

Erix

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Thanks Punji. I’m sorry everyone for the pings, this person just seems so scared and stuff and is freaking out and if anyone could give her some advice, anything would be appreciated. @Nonu just needs some help, me and Fc don’t really know what to do here so I’m really hoping you guys have any advice worthwhile to give her
 

Yakamaru

Silly McFly
One of my friends confessed to me... i turned them down because im well... uh... how do i say this... lesbian and they're now contemplating suicide... i've known they've had deppresion for a long time and it REALLY sucked to crush them like that...
Im kinda panicking right now TwT
Sounds like an overreaction on their part. The suicide hotline is your best bet. IF that is the case to begin with.

Being rejected from time to time is something people will have to get used to.
 

Fcomega121

Friendly Maney | Once Upon a Laugh, all started <3
Are you still there?? Is your friend alright? Are you alright? I’m sorry all I can do is ask others for help and not be of any use on my own
I can only recall a spanish video about suicide prevention but punji and others said the main things already.

@Nonu Just make sure to be there listen and support him
And ask them directly his feelings and try to comfort him <3

I hope we can help
 

Yakamaru

Silly McFly
Not being able to reciprocate feelings and/or attraction is perfectly okay. You just need to be firm on that front.
 

Erix

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I gave them the hotline i hope to god it works...
I think that really messed them up...
I’m hoping it does to. One should never have to think to resort to that ;-; if it’s serious I hope they truly use the hotline. Only your friend themself can tell how serious their own thoughts are, and I hope they can get through this.
 

Fcomega121

Friendly Maney | Once Upon a Laugh, all started <3
I'm so worried I hope they use it

Dear bastet please help them!!
 

Erix

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I’m so so sorry, but I’m logging off right now. I’m really tired, and I have to get ready for class tomorrow ;-; I think Punji and Yakamaru gave some good advice, and Fc and I gave some of our own as well. I really hope it helps you and your friend out Nonu. I wish your friend luck in getting over this obstacle T_T

if you need something from me, just ping me. I’ll for sure be checking in the morning if you need any of my assistance still
 

Fcomega121

Friendly Maney | Once Upon a Laugh, all started <3
I’m so so sorry, but I’m logging off right now. I’m really tired, and I have to get ready for class tomorrow ;-; I think Punji and Yakamaru gave some good advice, and Fc and I gave some of our own as well. I really hope it helps you and your friend out Nonu. I wish your friend luck in getting over this obstacle T_T

if you need something from me, just ping me. I’ll for sure be checking in the morning if you need any of my assistance still
good night erix!
I should sleep too but I dunno what to do

see you later!

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