Vent Thread

[O.D.D.]

Being desperate to lose your v-card is going to get you hurt. Mentally/emotionally and quite possibly PHYSICALLY. There are some legit nasty people lurking within and without the fandom who will do horrible things to you, and they will use sex or the promise of it to do it.

I'm throwing pearls before the swine here but JESUS.

 

[Parabellum3]

Just don't rush it.

Or if you do, don't make it some fantasy drama where you promise you'll be together forever. Be honest and upfront about your intentions with the person you decide to hook up with (or pay- and no, that's not a jab).

Rushing it can result in an experience that ruins the whole thing for you and being dishonest and delusional ends in disaster because someone is going to have a meltdown when they snap back to reality. Or it could play out like my ex, who basically ended his facade/interest in me once he'd gotten what he wanted. :/ I only say that because it can definitely go both ways and it's always sad.

Being desperate to lose your v-card is going to get you hurt. Mentally/emotionally and quite possibly PHYSICALLY. There are some legit nasty people lurking within and without the fandom who will do horrible things to you, and they will use sex or the promise of it to do it.

I'm throwing pearls before the swine here but JESUS.

Hmmm. It's quite strange to think that something that is supposed to induce pleasure can lead to harm. But I do understand that some people use it for their own interests maliciously. Then again if I play it "safe" by either agreeing to do it with someone strictly for casual purposes or go to Vegas n' such, there shouldn't be any drama afterwards since I know what to expect.

And hey I could wait but at the same time I don't want to lose it when I'm like fuckin 50 or something.

 

[O.D.D.]

Hmmm. It's quite strange to think that something that is supposed to induce pleasure can lead to harm. But I do understand that some people use it for their own interests maliciously. Then again if I play it "safe" by either agreeing to do it with someone strictly for casual purposes or go to Vegas n' such, there shouldn't be any drama afterwards since I know what to expect.

And hey I could wait but at the same time I don't want to lose it when I'm like fuckin 50 or something.

OK, I'm just going to call this a lost cause.

 

[Borophagus Metropolis]

...jfc
Sex is not going to fill the hole where your self-esteem would usually be

I'm here to vent, not get vented on.
Or am I?

 

[Punji]

At least I'll no longer have to be worried about being a virgin.

And hey I could wait but at the same time I don't want to lose it when I'm like fuckin 50 or something.

It's not something to get rid of, in my opinion. If you find a person and situation for it, great. If not, great. It's dangerous for sure, leads to a lot of harm in many ways for many reasons.

Give your virginity, don't lose it. If it takes fifty years or only another week, it happens when it happens, if it does. Don't let it judge your value as a person or an individual.

 

[O.D.D.]

I'm here to vent, not get vented on.
Or am I?

We're all here to be upset and honestly people who think they should use their dicks to work life's steering wheel upset the shit out of me. Giving you the benefit of the doubt here, you're setting yourself up for a lot of pain. If I completely discard any notions that you're a mostly decent person, things like "you equate sex with happiness, success and love/friendship and you feel entitled to those things so you feel entitled to sex" come into the picture which puts you into some REALLY dark territory, but I'm going to operate off the assumption that you're way more likely to be victimized than victimize someone else because most if not all people deserve a presumption of "not harmful".

 

[KimberVaile]

I'm here to vent, not get vented on.
Or am I?

I still think your pfp is hashtag fire and colon fireemoji_1 colon

 

[Parabellum3]

OK, I'm just going to call this a lost cause.

I sense that something similar happened to you in the past?

 

[O.D.D.]

I sense that something similar happened to you in the past?

I ain't doing any life history exposition. You want to bare your arse, I can't stop you, but I'm old enough to know better than THAT.

 

[contemplationistwolf]

Phew, venting is nice ^^

If there was a problem I definitely had, it's that I was too unconfident and paranoid to properly express myself. Glad I'm getting better~

 

[TyraWadman]

I'm here to vent, not get vented on.
Or am I?

You constantly vent your farts into FAF
It's time to fight fire with fire!!!

people who think they should use their dicks to work life's steering wheel upset the shit out of me.

If you took five minutes to get acquainted with Boro, you'd know that isn't the case! XD

 

[Parabellum3]

I ain't doing any life history exposition. You want to bare your arse, I can't stop you, but I'm old enough to know better than THAT.

I was just relating to @Borophagus Metropolis ,except it's different in my case due to preferences. But if something traumatic has happened to you in the past, then I do sincerely apologize.

 

[Yakamaru]

You constantly vent your farts into FAF
It's time to fight fire with fire!!!

...You want a neverending flamethrower? I'm in!

 

[KimberVaile]

...You want a neverending flamethrower? I'm in!

Premium unleaded gas, I would expect nothing less of our resident master gas passer.

 

[Borophagus Metropolis]

We're all here to be upset and honestly people who think they should use their dicks to work life's steering wheel upset the shit out of me. Giving you the benefit of the doubt here, you're setting yourself up for a lot of pain. If I completely discard any notions that you're a mostly decent person, things like "you equate sex with happiness, success and love/friendship and you feel entitled to those things so you feel entitled to sex" come into the picture which puts you into some REALLY dark territory, but I'm going to operate off the assumption that you're way more likely to be victimized than victimize someone else because most if not all people deserve a presumption of "not harmful".

You are jumping to some rather extreme conclusions. I am simply horny as fuck all.

 

[Yakamaru]

Premium unleaded gas, I would expect nothing less of our resident master gas passer.

Premium unleaded Limited Special Edition, but wait there's more!

Order now and get 100% diet too with no sugar or carbohydrates!

 

[Borophagus Metropolis]

I really don't have much to vent about. I just got a promotion. I have plenty of whiskey. My dogs love me. And my family is close by.

 

[TyraWadman]

I really don't have much to vent about. I just got a promotion. I have plenty of whiskey. My dogs love me. And my family is close by.

The one dog that can blame the stench on its owner.

 

[O.D.D.]

I was just relating to @Borophagus Metropolis ,except it's different in my case due to preferences.

I mean, ok, just avoid making sex your be-all end-all, I promise you'll be VERY disappointed.

 

[Borophagus Metropolis]

I mean, ok, just avoid making sex your be-all end-all, I promise you'll be VERY disappointed.

Or you will enjoy it immensely and it will strengthen the bond with your mate.

 

[Parabellum3]

I mean, ok, just avoid making sex your be-all end-all, I promise you'll be VERY disappointed.

Just having it once will likely be enough to satisfy me, and more importantly it crosses an item out on my bucket list.

 

[Minerva_Minx]

I hate having a cold/flu and, even with my being vaccinated, wondering if some infected, maskless dork gave me a variant in the name of "freedom".

On the positive side, I can see the irony in the group who made a vaccine their priority is also the least likely to be vaccinated. So, *sneeze-coughing* yeah, being sick sucks.

Just don't rush it.

Or if you do, don't make it some fantasy drama where you promise you'll be together forever. Be honest and upfront about your intentions with the person you decide to hook up with (or pay- and no, that's not a jab).

Rushing it can result in an experience that ruins the whole thing for you and being dishonest and delusional ends in disaster because someone is going to have a meltdown when they snap back to reality. Or it could play out like my ex, who basically ended his facade/interest in me once he'd gotten what he wanted. :/ I only say that because it can definitely go both ways and it's always sad.

Sound advice.

 

[Minerva_Minx]

You constantly vent your farts into FAF
It's time to fight fire with fire!!!


If you took five minutes to get acquainted with Boro, you'd know that isn't the case! XD

I have a crack ton of long stick matches and I'm not afraid to use them

 

[JaceyOnes]

2 of my friends just married each other.

sorry, didn't know where to post it. this thread seemed appropriate.

congrats you two.

 

[O.D.D.]

Another shopping trip and another couple strikeouts, still can't track down the garam masala and can't find a replacement lightbulb for the lava lamp.